I want your opinion

[koscej]

Sorry if this is cringe but I want to hear opinions from people. For like 5 years I always had some friends that once a week would talk to me or to go out, or I had a group to play videogames so I would call them and chat with them daily. This year I lost the videogames group just because I lost the interest in videogames and we slowly stopped talking and because I stopped asking to the IRL friends to going out, they also stopped talking to me, they now do it like once in a month when they remember I exist. It’s been like 5 month that I am without any friend, without expressing the things that I like, I have a gf but it’s different than a friend. Like when I open tiktok and see’s a “me and bro” tiktok, I think how I don’t have a bro, I don’t have this type of friendship. What are your thoughts on this? Why I have always to be the one searching the others?

 

[koscej]

Like, what’s your personal experience with friends

 

[Deleted member 72551]

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[koscej]

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Like now or u never had friends

 

[Deleted member 74849]

Short and unhelpful answer: non nt

Less short answer but still not very helpful:
Often, and it still happens to me.
Depends. Some people are lazy, not a few, others are reluctant to change, bla bla
I can make friends with two macro-types of people: those who don't have many prejudices, and those who have known me for a short time or have known me in a positive context.

 

[Deleted member 31766]

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holy shit you did pay for the reps

 

[koscej]

Short and unhelpful answer: non nt

Less short answer but still not very helpful:
Often, and it still happens to me.
Depends. Some people are lazy, not a few, others are reluctant to change, bla bla
I can make friends with two macro-types of people: those who don't have many prejudices, and those who have known me for a short time or have known me in a positive context.

Maybe I just been unlucky and i found only bad people

 

[Deleted member 72551]

holy shit you did pay for the reps

Elab

 

[koscej]

holy shit you did pay for the reps

if we are here talking we are poor

 

[Deleted member 74849]

Maybe I just been unlucky and i found only bad people

Some succeed in being liked by more people, others by less. I belong to the second category. And in this case I mean liking as in considering and liking. How others react to you varies.

 

[koscej]

Short and unhelpful answer: non nt

Less short answer but still not very helpful:
Often, and it still happens to me.
Depends. Some people are lazy, not a few, others are reluctant to change, bla bla
I can make friends with two macro-types of people: those who don't have many prejudices, and those who have known me for a short time or have known me in a positive context.

For me it’s very difficult, i’m introvert and it’s not so easy, but I always do my best to talk and not isolate

 

[koscej]

Some succeed in being liked by more people, others by less. I belong to the second category. And in this case I mean liking as in considering and liking. How others react to you varies.

I feel I belong too in the second cathegory

 

[koscej]

For me it’s very difficult, i’m introvert and it’s not so easy, but I always do my best to talk and not isolate

even online for me it’s not so easy

 

[Deleted member 74849]

even online for me it’s not so easy

This can be seen
Puoi rispondere in italiano se vuoi

 

[Bars]

Paranoia. Friends are MADE bro; without effort, no friends.

 

[Deleted member 83386]

they now do it like once in a month when they remember I exist.

It goes both ways. They expect you to hit them up just like you expect them to do so

 

[NZb6Air]

I have a gf

hang yourself, nigga wasting my time

 

[koscej]

This can be seen
Puoi rispondere in italiano se vuoi

ahn anche tu italiano? ahahah, si beh lo so che è visibile

 

[koscej]

Paranoia. Friends are MADE bro; without effort, no friends.

yeah obv, but when u are the only one trying in the friendship, and the friends no effort, it’s annoying

 

[koscej]

It goes both ways. They expect you to hit them up just like you expect them to do so

Yeah but I’m always hitting up, if I don’t they disappear, they dint put effort

 

[koscej]

hang yourself, nigga wasting my time

understandable, have a great day