I was more disciplined when I was 15

[Deleted member 19442]

I couldn’t have imagined becoming the way I am now at 20. I had aspirations to get married at 21 then jfl. I was very concerned about being friendless and never doing anything outside of school like meetups or hobbies (which I worked on).

Anybody else like this?

 

[Deleted member 28896]

I was very self-disciplined at 17, now I'm a degenerate loser.
Thinking about indulging in therapy, idk though, seems kinda gay.

 

[Deleted member 19442]

I was very self-disciplined at 17, now I'm a degenerate loser.
Thinking about indulging in therapy, idk though, seems kinda gay.

Problem is I failed to accomplish very basic easy goals and am just a worse version of my 15 yo self on every level. Disappointing really.

 

[justleavemealone]

blackpill did us more harm than good ngl... being delusional is important to stay motivated and have a purpose in life... we don't have that

 

[Deleted member 28896]

I'm bipolar so it doesn't help with having a steady self-disciplined routine, or whatever.

 

[Deleted member 28896]

Problem is I failed to accomplish very basic easy goals and am just a worse version of my 15 yo self on every level. Disappointing really.

Agreed, let us do better now. We're still young so it isn't too late.

 

[IBlamePhaggots]

I was very self-disciplined at 17, now I'm a degenerate loser.
Thinking about indulging in therapy, idk though, seems kinda gay.

Try it

 

[Deleted member 28896]

Try it

Do you have any experience? What should I tell the therapists?

 

[Deleted member 41390]

Do you have any experience? What should I tell the therapists?

everything

 

[schizo echochamber]

Same for me but 13-15, went downhill after first real girlfriend, then indulged in more blackpill after it, the delusion is gone, there is no magic power, no super star scene happening, no Disney scenario where I am successful and popular, that’s it, it’s all there is in life. The motivation is gone.

 

[IBlamePhaggots]

Do you have any experience? What should I tell the therapists?

Well how old are you/do you know why youre a degen loser

 

[Deleted member 28896]

everything

I'll definitely be placed on a watch-list if I do so.

 

[Struggler03]

The reason is that theres much more sources of distraction as we grow older

 

[Deleted member 41390]

I'll definitely be placed on a watch-list if I do so.

no you wont. i guarantee your silly meaningless life wont bother the therapist

 

[Deleted member 28896]

Well how old are you/do you know why youre a degen loser

I'm 18 and I know that I'm a degenerate loser because when I'm not in school I indulge in pointless entertainment, I jerk off, I barely exercise, I have barely no social life outside of school. Haven't had a girlfriend in over 4 years, and I'm too nervous to speak to girls unless I'm in a manic episode, but that never lasts more than a couple of days so it never evolves.

 

[IBlamePhaggots]

I'm 18 and I know that I'm a degenerate loser because when I'm not in school I indulge in pointless entertainment, I jerk off, I barely exercise, I have barely no social life outside of school. Haven't had a girlfriend in over 4 years, and I'm too nervous to speak to girls unless I'm in a manic episode, but that never lasts more than a couple of days so it never evolves.

Ok i dont think you need therapy

well first thing you need to realise is that the pointless entertainment and jerking off is pretty normal even for 18, however prioritise doing well in school over doing that stuff

Also you need to start doing exercise until you get a good female gaze frame/skinny face

Then idk where ur from but just find girls on social media and speak to them then face time them then meet them in person. Idm if it doesnt lead to anything you need to alleviate the nervousness.

Everything should follow suit once you start getting into shape

I get that ur undisciplined but anything you do becomes a habit after 3 weeks. Spend 3 weeks spending 1 hour on school work and 1 hour on exercise and you will ascend so easy

 

[SAQUIB66]

I couldn’t have imagined becoming the way I am now at 20. I had aspirations to get married at 21 then jfl. I was very concerned about being friendless and never doing anything outside of school like meetups or hobbies (which I worked on).

Anybody else like this?

I am 50x more disciplined now then I was before.
Looksmaxxing is the way jfl

 

[Deleted member 19442]

The reason is that theres much more sources of distraction as we grow older

It’s lack of supervision + complacency. People usually stagnate past teen years

I'm 18 and I know that I'm a degenerate loser because when I'm not in school I indulge in pointless entertainment, I jerk off, I barely exercise, I have barely no social life outside of school. Haven't had a girlfriend in over 4 years, and I'm too nervous to speak to girls unless I'm in a manic episode, but that never lasts more than a couple of days so it never evolves.

I stay in my disgusting online comfort zone at 20. All of my habits are fucked that’s why. I don’t do anything.

18 is young especially if you just turned, just analyse/criticise your habits on every level and change them

 

[Deleted member 28896]

Ok i dont think you need therapy

That's cool, thanks

well first thing you need to realise is that the pointless entertainment and jerking off is pretty normal even for 18, however prioritise doing well in school over doing that stuff

I suppose, but I have difficulty finding a middle ground, either I go munk mode, or I'm a full on degenerate, I think I must abandon these habits entirely. Problem is, I get A's in school without any self-study, so I've got no incentive in having any routines.

Also you need to start doing exercise until you get a good female gaze frame/skinny face

I'm at around 13%BF with an athletic physique without exercise, but it's detrimental towards my long-term health.

Then idk where ur from but just find girls on social media and speak to them then face time them then meet them in person. Idm if it doesnt lead to anything you need to alleviate the nervousness.

How do you even do this? I haven't been on social media in yeaars, and I can only imagine that all girls already have got multiple chads in their dm's.

Everything should follow suit once you start getting into shape

Hopefully

I get that ur undisciplined but anything you do becomes a habit after 3 weeks. Spend 3 weeks spending 1 hour on school work and 1 hour on exercise and you will ascend so easy

I will try to do so. Problem is, I usually succeed in following a regimen for a couple of weeks, then I get like a manic episode where I feel invincible and nothing matter, then I drop all my routines, and then it feels pointless to get back.

Either way, I appreciate you, and I will try to improve.

 

[John Cracovizk]

blackpill did us more harm than good ngl... being delusional is important to stay motivated and have a purpose in life... we don't have that

Fucking sucks having to compete with motivated normies

 

[Deleted member 4397]

i discovered bp at 14-15, not through psl but 4chan. been a decade since and my brain has really rotted past couple years. I still had some bluepill beliefs but now they die and stay dead. Its hard to analyze loved ones w the brutality and it just gets worse. wish i roped at 18

 

[Deleted member 28896]

It’s lack of supervision + complacency. People usually stagnate past teen years

I stay in my disgusting online comfort zone at 20. All of my habits are fucked that’s why. I don’t do anything.

18 is young especially if you just turned, just analyse/criticise your habits on every level and change them

Yeah, recently turned. 20 isn't much older though, so I suppose that we're in a similar situation. Best of luck man.

 

[Deleted member 19442]

Yeah, recently turned. 20 isn't much older though, so I suppose that we're in a similar situation. Best of luck man.

Keep in mind that you aren’t actually young. I’m turning 21 this year and haven’t done shit with my life. Brutal. Start now boyo

 

[tmjd]

I couldn’t have imagined becoming the way I am now at 20. I had aspirations to get married at 21 then jfl. I was very concerned about being friendless and never doing anything outside of school like meetups or hobbies (which I worked on).

Anybody else like this?

Still have one year to accomplish your goal and even if you don’t do it one year you have another and if you don’t accomplish it in 2 years you have another time doesn’t stop for you

 

[IBlamePhaggots]

That's cool, thanks

I suppose, but I have difficulty finding a middle ground, either I go munk mode, or I'm a full on degenerate, I think I must abandon these habits entirely. Problem is, I get A's in school without any self-study, so I've got no incentive in having any routines.

I'm at around 13%BF with an athletic physique without exercise, but it's detrimental towards my long-term health.

How do you even do this? I haven't been on social media in yeaars, and I can only imagine that all girls already have got multiple chads in their dm's.

Hopefully

I will try to do so. Problem is, I usually succeed in following a regimen for a couple of weeks, then I get like a manic episode where I feel invincible and nothing matter, then I drop all my routines, and then it feels pointless to get back.

Either way, I appreciate you, and I will try to improve.

You dont even need to find a middle ground you can just go monk mode and ignore women for a bit thats what i usually do

The frame stuff sounds lucky, but still do exercise because you need it to regulate your seratonin levels most importantly, also it will just improve confidence subconsciously

Im 17 and snapchat has all the foids still on it but idk if its the same where youre from, if you do go on snapchat just be a whore and send ur abs around its that easy jfl, women dont have loads of chads on their DMs, the blackpill illusion is that gl guys just go around messaging any girl. They will only go for their looksmatch or maybe one lower.

You need to develop discipline by just not stopping even when you get into a manic episode and then you should be fine

I need to do all this stuff too lol ive been rotting for like 6 months now i need to get back on track jfl

 

[AspiringMogger]

I was very self-disciplined at 17, now I'm a degenerate loser.
Thinking about indulging in therapy, idk though, seems kinda gay.

I had the same exact thought. Might as well try the bluepill advice it won’t hurt I thought. Then as I was Googling prices an authorised therapist had an average price of $150 an hour. I can’t get myself to pay that JFL

 

[Deleted member 19442]

Still have one year to accomplish your goal and even if you don’t do it one year you have another and if you don’t accomplish it in 2 years you have another your life time doesn’t stop for you

Rather than discipline the issue is being low IQ. Discipline just requires brutalising yourself for a couple weeks to build habit but knowing what habits to build is 90% of the struggle

 

[Deleted member 28896]

Keep in mind that you aren’t actually young. I’m turning 21 this year and haven’t done shit with my life. Brutal. Start now boyo

I will man, it's just so difficult to stay motivated in school when it's so slow-paced and long-term.
I think dropping out and doing something independently will suit me better, but then I won't get to be around prime JB's.
I also think moving away from my hometown will benefit me a lot, being here feels like I'm trapped. As if the city is deeply intertwined with my identity, it is quite a limiting feeling (hard to describe due to my poor vocabulary, but perhaps you understand?).

 

[Deleted member 19442]

I will man, it's just so difficult to stay motivated in school when it's so slow-paced and long-term.
I think dropping out and doing something independently will suit me better, but then I won't get to be around prime JB's.
I also think moving away from my hometown will benefit me a lot, being here feels like I'm trapped. As if the city is deeply intertwined with my identity, it is quite a limiting feeling (hard to describe due to my poor vocabulary, but perhaps you understand?).

Don’t tunnel vision into your studies, focus on socialising and building hobbies. Just study couple hours then focus on other things

 

[Deleted member 28896]

You dont even need to find a middle ground you can just go monk mode and ignore women for a bit thats what i usually do

The frame stuff sounds lucky, but still do exercise because you need it to regulate your seratonin levels most importantly, also it will just improve confidence subconsciously

Im 17 and snapchat has all the foids still on it but idk if its the same where youre from, if you do go on snapchat just be a whore and send ur abs around its that easy jfl, women dont have loads of chads on their DMs, the blackpill illusion is that gl guys just go around messaging any girl. They will only go for their looksmatch or maybe one lower.

You need to develop discipline by just not stopping even when you get into a manic episode and then you should be fine

I need to do all this stuff too lol ive been rotting for like 6 months now i need to get back on track jfl

Cool man, with monk mode I don't mean abstaining female contact though, I just mean rigorous routines with 0 degen.
I'll try the snapchat thing out man, I won't send my abs though.

 

[tmjd]

Rather than discipline the issue is being low IQ. Discipline just requires brutalising yourself for a couple weeks to build habit but knowing what habits to build is 90% of the struggle

Find something you love and pursue that if you don’t enjoy anything at the moment explore.

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world.

 

[Deleted member 28896]

Don’t tunnel vision into your studies, focus on socialising and building hobbies. Just study couple hours then focus on other things

I don't study at all, that's why it sucks. It's like school is just occupying all my time, when I know that I won't actually use my education for anything (I'm only in school to be around people the same age).
I need something purposeful but I've got difficulty finding anything, and I'm scared I'll live in regret if I drop out.

 

[IBlamePhaggots]

Cool man, with monk mode I don't mean abstaining female contact though, I just mean rigorous routines with 0 degen.
I'll try the snapchat thing out man, I won't send my abs though.

Also i forgot to mention

Logging your progress makes it easier to retain the habit

Take a video everyday just talking to the camera ensuring that you completed all of your goals, it puts more pressure on you to do them, so by the end of the day you can say in the video that you did them

Works for me and helps you track progress

 

[Bojack]

You got to ascend bro

 

[looksmaxxed]

you were still under the illusion that your actions mattered. now you are free.

 

[Kamui]

Nigga you are only 20 years old you’re not fuckin 30, suck it up the world isn’t going to end

 

[CalulArgintiu59]

I was very self-disciplined at 17, now I'm a degenerate loser.
Thinking about indulging in therapy, idk though, seems kinda gay.

Not a good idea to go to therapy!I can't understand this concept, u are literally paying someone to act like a friend , but once u stop paying u will see that he/she actually doesn't give a f abt u, fix ur problems on ur own and save ur money for smth better!

 

[distance decay]

Do you have any experience? What should I tell the therapists?

Whatever you do dont get a liberal therapist