I went on a date

[Deleted member 4430]

Thats a morph of his face. His jaw doesn't look like that.

no shit

 

[Deleted member 10042]

Did you kiss her?

Kissing is gross you will get the lurgies

 

[Albeacho]

no shit

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Kissing is gross you will get the lurgies

Then I wish I was gross

 

[Deleted member 10042]

Then I wish I was gross

Fakecel to get a date tho you chad

 

[Deleted member 7125]

Then I wish I was gross

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Fakecel to get a date tho you chad

How is this impressive whatsoever? My first date this year and it has been 1/4 of the year already.

 

[Deleted member 11406]

Remember op is like this

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Remember op is like this
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Unironically we talked about turtles and she said she'd like to get a pet turtle, so that she can bring it to the park for a walk.

 

[pizza]

Remember op is like this
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chad

 

[Deleted member 11406]

Unironically we talked about turtles and she said she'd like to get a pet turtle, so that she can bring it to the park for a walk.

I bet she loves French man so

 

[Deleted member 10536]

I bet she loves French man so

Idk. She never been to france. Only uk and italy. Maybe somewhere else too.

 

[Tony]

did u touch her ess

 

[Deleted member 10536]

did u touch her ess

No. We shaked hands. And I slightly bumped into her a few times while walking.

 

[Wallenberg]

Thats a morph of his face. His jaw doesn't look like that.

Oh. I think he sent me that pic via PM. I guess it was the non-morphed version that looked similar enough.

 

[Deleted member 6217]

Where did you go on the date

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Where did you go on the date

A park.

 

[Albeacho]

Tinder

Its over, She was prob a cum rag and kept comparing you with tinder chads

 

[Deleted member 9274]

Holy fuck ur avi is cute af

 

[Tony]

No. We shaked hands. And I slightly bumped into her a few times while walking.

fakecel piece of shit

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Its over, She was prob a cum rag and kept comparing you with tinder chads

We didn't talk at all about our past experiences, so idk. Didn't seem like that kind of girl, as she comes from outside the city. Came here to study, now finished the studies and is working.

 

[Deleted member 275]

If a girl doesn't give body/facial language that she wants to kiss during the first date, I've never bothered with a second date.

It would make an exception if she's really inexperienced, but you won't find inexperienced girls on tinder or above the age of 18 tbh.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Fuck. Now I feel lonely. And it hurts.

 

[Deleted member 756]

If a girl doesn't give body/facial language that she wants to kiss during the first date, I've never bothered with a second date.

It would make an exception if she's really inexperienced, but you won't find inexperienced girls on tinder or above the age of 18 tbh.

Op sounds too shy tbh

 

[Deleted member 10536]

If a girl doesn't give body/facial language that she wants to kiss during the first date, I've never bothered with a second date.

It would make an exception if she's really inexperienced, but you won't find inexperienced girls on tinder or above the age of 18 tbh.

NGL. This to me sounds like mental illness. I wouldn't trust a girl if she'd be all lovey dovey and full of kisses on a first date after an hour. She'd be literally a p&d worthless trash.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Op sounds too shy tbh

Meh. Sure if she makes it clear she wants to kiss and you are too shy to go for it, that's an issue. Think:
1)She's touchy with you.
2)She stands close to you and creates an 'awkward silence' moment where you're looking at eachother.
3)Compliments you a lot.

If you don't act on those signals, that's an issue.

But I've had many dates with girls that didn't seem to want to kiss at all, where I would just force it at some point or escalate with touch. They wouldn't reject me directly, but those dates never worked out into anything because the physical attraction isn't there from their side. Else they would've made it easy and more natural for you.

 

[Tony]

Meh. Sure if she makes it clear she wants to kiss and you are too shy to go for it, that's an issue. Think:
1)She's touchy with you.
2)She stands close to you and creates an 'awkward silence' moment where you're looking at eachother.
3)Compliments you a lot.

If you don't act on those signals, that's an issue.

But I've had many dates with girls that didn't seem to want to kiss at all, where I would just force it at some point or escalate with touch. They wouldn't reject me directly, but those dates never worked out into anything because the physical attraction isn't there from their side. Else they would've made it easy and more natural for you.

 

[Deleted member 275]

NGL. This to me sounds like mental illness. I wouldn't trust a girl if she'd be all lovey dovey and full of kisses on a first date after an hour. She'd be literally a p&d worthless trash.

It's not all lovey dovey. It's just making out, the biggest sign of physical attraction you can give. And usually that's clear on a first date already.

Doesn't mean you have to fuck ofcourse.

Without physical attraction, you are friends, not lovers.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Meh. Sure if she makes it clear she wants to kiss and you are too shy to go for it, that's an issue. Think:
1)She's touchy with you.
2)She stands close to you and creates an 'awkward silence' moment where you're looking at eachother.
3)Compliments you a lot.

If you don't act on those signals, that's an issue.

But I've had many dates with girls that didn't seem to want to kiss at all, where I would just force it at some point or escalate with touch. They wouldn't reject me directly, but those dates never worked out into anything because the physical attraction isn't there from their side. Else they would've made it easy and more natural for you.

We were literally walking in a park, talking about life and each other. Learning things about each other and making jokes, trying to spend time nicely. There was nothing more than that. She didn't try anything strange or peculiar nor did I. She didn't mention anything about my looks at all. She didn't really touch me, besides hand shake at the beginning. We never stood around for even a moment. I just brought her back home in my car though.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

It's not all lovey dovey. It's just making out, the biggest sign of physical attraction you can give. And usually that's clear on a first date already.

Doesn't mean you have to fuck ofcourse.

Without physical attraction, you are friends, not lovers.

I don't believe anyone can seriously be physically attracted to me. So idk... I want to, but it's not about me.

 

[Deleted member 275]

We were literally walking in a park, talking about life and each other. Learning things about each other and making jokes, trying to spend time nicely. There was nothing more than that. She didn't try anything strange or peculiar nor did I. She didn't mention anything about my looks at all. She didn't really touch me, besides hand shake at the beginning. We never stood around for even a moment. I just brought her back home in my car though.

Well maybe it's just me, others can jump in, but to me I would be frustrated with a lack of flirting and physical escalation from such a casual/friendly date. Reminds me of my first ~5 dates where I've always had a similar friendly vibe which never lead to anything.

If you vibed well and had a good time, I guess it's allright. And there's still good opportunities on a second date.

 

[Deleted member 7192]

down

I could get you laid if we swapped bodies for a day. Then you'd see what it means to actually be subhuman filth

 

[Deleted member 275]

I don't believe anyone can seriously be physically attracted to me. So idk... I want to, but it's not about me.

That's fine, you don't have to believe that for now, just be open to the possibility atleast.

It may sound like bluepill but girls that I didn't find that attractive and very Becky looking at first, would become more attractive over time especially if you're flirting with eachother and/or making out. Girls probably have the same with you.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

That's fine, you don't have to believe that for now, just be open to the possibility atleast.

It may sound like bluepill but girls that I didn't find that attractive and very Becky looking at first, would become more attractive over time especially if you're flirting with eachother and/or making out.

Naturally I'm open... Why else would I have went on a date?
To me all my girls were attractive enough for me to even marry.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

I could get you laid if we swapped bodies for a day. Then you'd see what it means to actually be subhuman filth

idk... As I said all my dates seemingly went well. But I get ghosted all the time afterwards, and the only thing I'm left holding is my looks. Otherwise it just makes no sense. ''Personality'' never came into equation. Like till now out of... idk, 30+ matches only 2(3?) girls that even replied and it's been close to a week now.

 

[Deleted member 275]

idk... As I said all my dates seemingly went well. But I get ghosted all the time afterwards, and the only thing I'm left holding is my looks. Otherwise it just makes no sense. ''Personality'' never came into equation. Like till now out of... idk, 30+ matches only 2(3?) girls that even replied and it's been close to a week now.

30 matches in a week is pretty good. That's almost chad tier tbh, mogs me.

If girls seem to always ghost after a first date it's because they lack that 'lovey dovey' feeling they expect on a first date. And for that there needs to be serious flirting or kissing tbh.

Perhaps reconsider your dating strategy.

 

[Deleted member 7192]

idk... As I said all my dates seemingly went well. But I get ghosted all the time afterwards, and the only thing I'm left holding is my looks. Otherwise it just makes no sense. ''Personality'' never came into equation. Like till now out of... idk, 30+ matches only 2(3?) girls that even replied and it's been close to a week now.

That's tough, you should start escalating more on dates. The worst that can happen is you get told to calm down

You have everything to win and virtually nothing to loss

 

[Tony]

bump

 

[Deleted member 7192]

30 matches in a week is pretty good. That's almost chad tier tbh, mogs me.

If girls seem to always ghost after a first date it's because they lack that 'lovey dovey' feeling they expect on a first date. And for that there needs to be serious flirting or kissing tbh.

Exactly bitches are creatures of emotions. You have to be bold and give them that butterfly in stomachs feeling so they become infatuated with you

You're not giving anyone butterflies by talking about friend talk for a few hours. Respectfully

 

[Deleted member 10536]

That's tough, you should start escalating more on dates. The worst that can happen is you get told to calm down

You have everything to win and virtually nothing to loss

I can lose her trust and be pretending to be somebody who I'm not... On all my dates I've been 99% ing myself. Which is arguably, maybe, why I do so bad. Because I don't like to pretend and am being honest. Who I am.
Obviously solution is to pretend... But I hate the thought and idea and I can't see how pretending to be somebody else would lead to a relationship, which is what I seek. Idc about slaying, I want to have a cute gf to come back home to after work and to have somebody to spend my free time with. Of course sex would be great on top of all that.

 

[lutte]

ok chad

 

[Deleted member 10536]

30 matches in a week is pretty good. That's almost chad tier tbh, mogs me.

If girls seem to always ghost after a first date it's because they lack that 'lovey dovey' feeling they expect on a first date. And for that there needs to be serious flirting or kissing tbh.

Perhaps reconsider your dating strategy.

I've got more. Like 37 matches, a few unmatched, so like 40. And 14 likes... Probably my best run ever so far, based on this, but worst by far based on reply rate.

 

[Deleted member 10536]

ok chad

 

[Deleted member 7192]

I can lose her trust and be pretending to be somebody who I'm not... On all my dates I've been 99% ing myself. Which is arguably, maybe, why I do so bad. Because I don't like to pretend and am being honest. Who I am.
Obviously solution is to pretend... But I hate the thought and idea and I can't see how pretending to be somebody else would lead to a relationship, which is what I seek. Idc about slaying, I want to have a cute gf to come back home to after work and to have somebody to spend my free time with. Of course sex would be great on top of all that.

But escalating is not pretending to be anyone. It's just escalating intimacy with a girl

We're not telling you to be a outgoing gym bro. Just try and get more intimate with them

 

[Tony]

where r my rege reaccs

 

[Deleted member 10536]

But escalating is not pretending to be anyone. It's just escalating intimacy with a girl

We're not telling you to be a outgoing gym bro. Just try and get more intimate with them

It's hard. It's winter time, cold. Not very physically intimate time.
If there'll be anything after this, I might try asking her to bring her to a hotel to spend night/evening together with a bottle of wine. Idk what else at this point, I don't see much of an option. Maybe simpy, but I'd enjoy that myself and I made lots of money recently, so idc.

 

[Deleted member 275]

where r my rege reaccs

 

[Tony]

shut the fuk up you imbred peanut skull abomination

 

[Deleted member 10536]

shut the fuk up you imbred peanut skull abomination

Rood tbh

 

[Deleted member 7192]

It's hard. It's winter time, cold. Not very physically intimate time.
If there'll be anything after this, I might try asking her to bring her to a hotel to spend night/evening together with a bottle of wine. Idk what else at this point, I don't see much of an option. Maybe simpy, but I'd enjoy that myself and I made lots of money recently, so idc.

Bro, it's literally the best time to be intimate and cuddle up with her to keep her warm , lmao