hero10
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Oxytocin increasedHad an incredible special date with my girlfriend last night the kind that reminds you why you fell in love in the first place. Won't spill all the details since I dont want to make this thread about me and some moments are just for us but it involved thought, effort, a few surprises, and some gifts that made her light up in a way I'll never forget. She turned all red and was so grateful for everything that I did
Don't listen to the basement-dwelling, red-pilled crowd telling you that doing stuff for the woman you love makes you weak or beta
Being in LTR isn't about playing some game of emotional scarcity or acting like affection is a currency you hoard It's being generous with your time, attention, and sometimes your wallet because you want to see her happy.
The internet's full of bitter voices shouting that gifts and caring about someone= weakness. They've probably never experienced the quiet confidence that comes from seeing the person you love feel valued.
If you love her, do the thing. Surprise her. Spoil her a little. Make memories that outweigh holding "frame" nonsense. Life's too short to hold back on the good stuff just to impress strangers online.