I went on an amazing date with my gf yesterday

Had an incredible special date with my girlfriend last night the kind that reminds you why you fell in love in the first place. Won't spill all the details since I dont want to make this thread about me and some moments are just for us but it involved thought, effort, a few surprises, and some gifts that made her light up in a way I'll never forget. She turned all red and was so grateful for everything that I did

Don't listen to the basement-dwelling, red-pilled crowd telling you that doing stuff for the woman you love makes you weak or beta

Being in LTR isn't about playing some game of emotional scarcity or acting like affection is a currency you hoard It's being generous with your time, attention, and sometimes your wallet because you want to see her happy.

The internet's full of bitter voices shouting that gifts and caring about someone= weakness. They've probably never experienced the quiet confidence that comes from seeing the person you love feel valued.

If you love her, do the thing. Surprise her. Spoil her a little. Make memories that outweigh holding "frame" nonsense. Life's too short to hold back on the good stuff just to impress strangers online.
Oxytocin increased
 
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You don't say shit to people like me who remember little autistic details for months and bring it up in conversation
Legit. Not everyone has goldfish memory like me. :HAhaa:

But jokes aside, I do differentiate between a steady partner and some random chick you met off of OLD. I think for a steady partner it’s good. I thought your message was meant for a general audience; and not directed at guys who already have a steady partner.
 
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Had an incredible special date with my girlfriend last night the kind that reminds you why you fell in love in the first place. Won't spill all the details since I dont want to make this thread about me and some moments are just for us but it involved thought, effort, a few surprises, and some gifts that made her light up in a way I'll never forget. She turned all red and was so grateful for everything that I did

Don't listen to the basement-dwelling, red-pilled crowd telling you that doing stuff for the woman you love makes you weak or beta

Being in LTR isn't about playing some game of emotional scarcity or acting like affection is a currency you hoard It's being generous with your time, attention, and sometimes your wallet because you want to see her happy.

The internet's full of bitter voices shouting that gifts and caring about someone= weakness. They've probably never experienced the quiet confidence that comes from seeing the person you love feel valued.

If you love her, do the thing. Surprise her. Spoil her a little. Make memories that outweigh holding "frame" nonsense. Life's too short to hold back on the good stuff just to impress strangers online.
Redpill has evolved into a bunch of betas convincing themselves they're "alphas" while being laughed at by anyone who knows better.
 
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Honeymoon period maxxing
I hope it lasts man
Be happy enjoy it but be aware that you’re in it rn else you’ll be in for a heartbreak if the peak fades

I’m disillusioned, after the first few months things have always gone south

Tbh I miss my previous relationship everything was perfect, I’ve been trying to recreate the same dates with other girls but it’s just not the same. Lost my ability to pair bond
 
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