I went to a special uni party with students and this is how day 1 ended

[Zeruel]

We got a house for 4 days in another city away from home and i wanted to join because i felt like i wanted to try out something new and not be introverted so my colleagues were surprised i went.

The head student of this group is a MTB girl but she’s smart and she’s put a decent positive impact in my life despite not being sexual with me, being supportive and answering all the questions that are probably tedious for her at this point but she doesn’t seem to mind too much and I’ve never really had outright negative experiences with her.

When we got to the house we had to setup everything.

These students are awesome, blasting loud ass music and not caring and being so low inhib and non-neurotic, so i tried to adjust to that and we’ll see how that goes later.

After getting situated i went to the main dining room out of boredom and i didn’t want to sleep but the others did, so the only 2 people out of 9 was me and the head student girl, we spent around 2 hours talking and setting up the tables, chairs, plates, cups utensils and such, she washed all the dishes and utensils and she’s a workaholic in general.

In those 2 hours with her we also shared our opinions on things, musical tastes, joking around and being playful and overall building a connection.

But the reason i don’t believe she’s into me is that i heard that she has a boyfriend but they don’t say who it is or maybe they speculate who she’s with and it might even be me at this point because i seriously don’t know

Anyway, people start waking up and they help prepare the meals and some cook and so on, it felt like we were some sort of family.

So after the dinner they turn on loud music and i actually get into it, i practiced dancing a little before the main event and I’m actually having fun with everyone else.

But i was sleep deprived and all that movement really tired me out and some of you might know about my Thallassemia beta major blood disorder, so that doesn’t help either.

I begin to look so exhausted people begin to ask if I’m okay, they even begin to think I’m sick.

And the head student girl is worried for me since she knows something with me has always been up because I’ve never actually told anyone about my condition but only hinted at it.

So get this, she brings me to my room AND SHE DOES MY BED FOR ME… and she tells me to go to sleep…
Maybe it was like a nurse healing her patient thing instead of an intimate thing but i don’t know.

a 20 year old girl did my bed for me… that’s so crazy for me because i don’t see her doing these sort of favors for others, when other guys hit on her, she rejects them and tells them to stop… but idk what to think anymore.

This girl has become my oneitis and i don’t know what to do anymore, i really don’t want her to have a boyfriend unless it’s me now.

 

[Zeruel]

Some nigga gonna say dnr

 

[Deleted member 13787]

brutal tbh cause she is probably just being nice, but for incels its muh IOI

 

[Zeruel]

brutal tbh cause she is probably just being nice, but for incels its muh IOI

I think the only time she’s shown to be physically attracted to me was awhile ago when i was showing selfies of me from my phone and she went “Wow!” But those boyfriend rumors fucking bother me.

 

[Deleted member 19174]

not a word

 

[Zeruel]

Bump. Need opinions, some anecdotes, anything… even saying dnr…

I am losing my sanity over a MTB

 

[Zeruel]

@krisal @Octillionaire did you two seriously jfl react and dip to mock my inceldom???

 

[Deleted member 22126]

@krisal @Octillionaire did you two seriously jfl react and dip to mock my inceldom???

How do u look

 

[Deleted member 16369]

approach her

 

[GorLee]

Fuggetaboutit brotha, she has a boyfriend. Now use that fact for toxic motivation to looksmax and mog him to utter oblivion in all aspects of life that is possible for you.

Or smth idk

 

[Deleted member 22063]

read it all. being 5'7 is bad but 3 inch lifts will just look comical.

 

[Zeruel]

approach her

The consequences of that feel too great. She’s not like some tinder girl but she’s a girl that i have to be in classes with in order to get my bachelors degree and being with her in class (she’s super active and comes to every class like me) and it’s gonna be extremely awkward to be around her if she rejects me bro i can’t fucking do it i will lose it

 

[Zeruel]

read it all. being 5'7 is bad but 3 inch lifts will just look comical.

WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?

 

[GorLee]

The consequences of that feel too great. She’s not like some tinder girl but she’s a girl that i have to be in classes with in order to get my bachelors degree and being with her in class (she’s super active and comes to every class like me) and it’s gonna be extremely awkward to be around her if she rejects me bro i can’t fucking do it i will lose it

Dude just fucking do it honestly, even if she has a bf. Who cares, don’t be a coward, and in the very least it’ll help you get over most of your feelings if she rejects you. Just handle the rejection well and don't freak out about it like an idiot, just vent to someone, even this place as long as you change details.

“Hormones have functions. Testosterone's function is anabolic (constructive). It is the male hormone. Men have a tendency and desire towards results. A man is satisfied when his job is done. Women can be sustained on love and validation alone - men cannot. Men are internal animals, and to prove their existence, they need to show results which stem from the internal.

The Greek concept of Thumos is highly applicable here. In Homer's songs, Thumos leaves the hero's body in times of dire need to bring the hero back up. So; testosterone punishes man when he does nothing and rewards him when he shows his power.

Be powerful and you will be healthy. Be powerless and you will lose even that little power you had. Matthew 13:12”

- Corpse World Monologues

 

[Zeruel]

Dude just fucking do it honestly, even if she has a bf. Who cares, don’t be a coward, and in the very least it’ll help you get over most of your feelings if she rejects you. Just handle the rejection well and don't freak out about it like an idiot, just vent to someone, even this place as long as you change details.

“Hormones have functions. Testosterone's function is anabolic (constructive). It is the male hormone. Men have a tendency and desire towards results. A man is satisfied when his job is done. Women can be sustained on love and validation alone - men cannot. Men are internal animals, and to prove their existence, they need to show results which stem from the internal.

The Greek concept of Thumos is highly applicable here. In Homer's songs, Thumos leaves the hero's body in times of dire need to bring the hero back up. So; testosterone punishes man when he does nothing and rewards him when he shows his power.

Be powerful and you will be healthy. Be powerless and you will lose even that little power you had. Matthew 13:12”

- Corpse World Monologues

You’re fucking right.

I’m gonna fucking do it but it has to be in the right scenario with no one around. I’m gonna ask if she has a boyfriend and I’ll try to escalate things from there

 

[Zeruel]

Dude just fucking do it honestly, even if she has a bf. Who cares, don’t be a coward, and in the very least it’ll help you get over most of your feelings if she rejects you. Just handle the rejection well and don't freak out about it like an idiot, just vent to someone, even this place as long as you change details.

“Hormones have functions. Testosterone's function is anabolic (constructive). It is the male hormone. Men have a tendency and desire towards results. A man is satisfied when his job is done. Women can be sustained on love and validation alone - men cannot. Men are internal animals, and to prove their existence, they need to show results which stem from the internal.

The Greek concept of Thumos is highly applicable here. In Homer's songs, Thumos leaves the hero's body in times of dire need to bring the hero back up. So; testosterone punishes man when he does nothing and rewards him when he shows his power.

Be powerful and you will be healthy. Be powerless and you will lose even that little power you had. Matthew 13:12”

- Corpse World Monologues

Very interesting stuff, wish i could upvote this more than once tbh.

 

[Zeruel]

ALRIGHT, UNLESS I PUSSY OUT I AM GONNA MAKE A THREAD ABOUT HOW ASKING HER OUT WENT.

 

[GorLee]

You’re fucking right.

I’m gonna fucking do it but it has to be in the right scenario with no one around. I’m gonna ask if she has a boyfriend and I’ll try to escalate things from there

That’s the spirit man. Don’t overthink it either cause you’ll just end up putting it off. Pull her aside when you’re not busy, or just do it when its just you two and just keep it real, direct and simple.

And if it doesn’t work out then, don’t be awkward about it, laugh it off. Say some bullshit like “all the good ones are taken.” Just don’t be a cuck and try to be “friends” with her afterward. Don’t be an ass. You can be friendly to her, as in talk to her if she asks you something, say hi and acknowledge her existence. Like a regular school / classmate.

Just don’t talk to her aside from what’s minimum, you don’t need to be having convos with her, don’t need to be constantly around her orbit, etc. You wanted a relationship with her, she’s unavailable, no hard feelings, but there’s just no reason for y’all to interact a lot.

 

[GorLee]

ALRIGHT, UNLESS I PUSSY OUT I AM GONNA MAKE A THREAD ABOUT HOW ASKING HER OUT WENT.

Looking forward to seeing it.

 

[Matthias8272]

Reminds me of when I went to a mental health program in an attempt to get medications and I had a girl 1 year above me who went to my school (we both no longer attended she was 19-20 and I was 18) saying "good job" like I was mentally retarded whilst cutting a carrot. I was randomly stalking people recently and she came up in someones post in a bikini showing her ass and other whore-like pictures. These are the type of people trying to "help"

 

[Zeruel]

constantly around her orbit, etc.

this shit drives me insane because I’m not even trying to orbit her, the only thing i have in common with her is the fact we’re both students learning the same stuff. She’s the one initiating stuff with me and yet she has a boyfriend which is insane to me. Why won’t she just ignore me?

 

[St.TikTokcel]

We got a house for 4 days in another city away from home and i wanted to join because i felt like i wanted to try out something new and not be introverted so my colleagues were surprised i went.

The head student of this group is a MTB girl but she’s smart and she’s put a decent positive impact in my life despite not being sexual with me, being supportive and answering all the questions that are probably tedious for her at this point but she doesn’t seem to mind too much and I’ve never really had outright negative experiences with her.

When we got to the house we had to setup everything.

These students are awesome, blasting loud ass music and not caring and being so low inhib and non-neurotic, so i tried to adjust to that and we’ll see how that goes later.

After getting situated i went to the main dining room out of boredom and i didn’t want to sleep but the others did, so the only 2 people out of 9 was me and the head student girl, we spent around 2 hours talking and setting up the tables, chairs, plates, cups utensils and such, she washed all the dishes and utensils and she’s a workaholic in general.

In those 2 hours with her we also shared our opinions on things, musical tastes, joking around and being playful and overall building a connection.

But the reason i don’t believe she’s into me is that i heard that she has a boyfriend but they don’t say who it is or maybe they speculate who she’s with and it might even be me at this point because i seriously don’t know

Anyway, people start waking up and they help prepare the meals and some cook and so on, it felt like we were some sort of family.

So after the dinner they turn on loud music and i actually get into it, i practiced dancing a little before the main event and I’m actually having fun with everyone else.

But i was sleep deprived and all that movement really tired me out and some of you might know about my Thallassemia beta major blood disorder, so that doesn’t help either.

I begin to look so exhausted people begin to ask if I’m okay, they even begin to think I’m sick.

And the head student girl is worried for me since she knows something with me has always been up because I’ve never actually told anyone about my condition but only hinted at it.

So get this, she brings me to my room AND SHE DOES MY BED FOR ME… and she tells me to go to sleep…
Maybe it was like a nurse healing her patient thing instead of an intimate thing but i don’t know.

a 20 year old girl did my bed for me… that’s so crazy for me because i don’t see her doing these sort of favors for others, when other guys hit on her, she rejects them and tells them to stop… but idk what to think anymore.

This girl has become my oneitis and i don’t know what to do anymore, i really don’t want her to have a boyfriend unless it’s me now.

Special as in special needs?

 

[Zeruel]

Special as in special needs?

No, as in we’re staying in a house all 9 students alone for 4 days instead of going to a party for one night with many people.

 

[Zeruel]

Reminds me of when I went to a mental health program in an attempt to get medications and I had a girl 1 year above me who went to my school (we both no longer attended she was 19-20 and I was 18) saying "good job" like I was mentally retarded whilst cutting a carrot. I was randomly stalking people recently and she came up in someones post in a bikini showing her ass and other whore-like pictures. These are the type of people trying to "help"

I haven’t ever done stuff like cutting fruits and vegetables either, for the first time this morning i got up before everyone else and washed my first ever dishes so she wouldn’t as a gesture to her but everyone. This morning already feels special to me so i hope something special can happen later.

 

[Zeruel]

this shit drives me insane because I’m not even trying to orbit her, the only thing i have in common with her is the fact we’re both students learning the same stuff. She’s the one initiating stuff with me and yet she has a boyfriend which is insane to me. Why won’t she just ignore me?

Maybe she doesn’t do it out of attraction for me but maybe she thinks I’m inept. For context i don’t have a Facebook account so she had to message me through my moms account to notify me and such, which would be strange to anyone. I don’t have social media accounts but i eventually did get her phone number so she would notify me for stuff and talk to me through iMessages

 

[GorLee]

this shit drives me insane because I’m not even trying to orbit her, the only thing i have in common with her is the fact we’re both students learning the same stuff. She’s the one initiating stuff with me and yet she has a boyfriend which is insane to me. Why won’t she just ignore me?

As I said brotha, be friendly, talk to her if SHE initiates but no need to initiate a convo yourself if she rejects you. Keep your own interactions with her to 1.) Greeting her and 2.) Saying bye, y’all aren’t friends but just schoolmates who are friendly.

Don’t worry I’m currently going through the same shit, I’m over the feelings and appreciate her beauty but I’m just not trying to be friends with a girl who has a bf (have some respect for YOURSELF and the BF, i believe you said you are Christian in another thread so stick to your ideals) she won’t leave me alone though either so oh well, just deal with it.

 

[fukmylyf]

im sorry about ur condition but this story is cagefuel

 

[Zeruel]

im sorry about ur condition but this story is cagefuel

 

[MoggerGaston]

Sounds like she's just being nice.

It's so brutal that the avg foid is a narc, entitled whore that even basic kindness is so rare it makes guys think they are ioi's

brutal society.

 

[Zeruel]

Sounds like she's just being nice.

It's so brutal that the avg foid is a narc, entitled whore that even basic kindness is so rare it makes guys think they are ioi's

brutal society.

I feel like she is physically attracted to me, her smiles are fucking with me and the boyfriend rumor thing is the main thing that bothers me.

 

[Zeruel]

Sounds like she's just being nice.

It's so brutal that the avg foid is a narc, entitled whore that even basic kindness is so rare it makes guys think they are ioi's

brutal society.

I’m also wondering if she’s trying to cheat on her boyfriend because that could also be a scenario.

 

[MoggerGaston]

I feel like she is physically attracted to me, her smiles are fucking with me and the boyfriend rumor thing is the main thing that bothers me.

ask her about it

 

[Aypo129]

Its probably in your head boyo
Forget about it

 

[Deleted member 22099]

Girls love taking care of guys

 

[Deleted member 2969]

Had a similar experience at a trip. If she hasn't touched you yet chances are she never will

 

[Alt Number 3]

mommy onities gf is brutal tbh

 

[Zeruel]

I couldn’t do anything today, just couldn’t get enough appropriate time to talk with her about this.

By the way things are looking it’s kinda over but idk for sure, today i beat her ass 3 times (in UNO) and her demeanour today was always friendly, never romantic from what i noticed.

She even offered to take pictures of me on our mountain trip (she did) and she’s always so nice to be around and it’s like… do i really want to risk our good connection just because i wanna date her?

I think i might but i got turned off today because she was acting a little weird, she poured some whipped cream on her arm and licked it off to seem quirky tee hee or something.

In this part group there’s a total of 6 dudes including me whom i height and face mog but she’s even acting more friendly to them than with me.

I got friendly mogged by fat 5’8” oofy doofy.

Maybe she might be less friendly toward me because maybe she has anxiety of interacting with me because I’m attractive to her and she’s actually scared of coming off too weird to me.

When she is looking at me she is usually smiling.

When we played UNO today i was kind of up close and she was smiling at me and awkwardly trying to look away or pretending to look at others while the focus was still on the game.

I could go on and on about why this MTB is so attractive and charming to me.

She might legit be scared of getting rejected by me and that’s why she’s not trying anything which i could actually see being a real scenario. (I could always be coping hard but this is just what i see)

Tldr
I’m skeptical but i still want to ask

 

[JovenCansao]

Sounds to me you simply do t have too much social experiences like this.

She was just making sure everyone was OK, so everyone returns fine to their house, I've had similar treatments before, she doesn't necessarily like you but ofc your incel ass thinks she does.

Fucking starved abused dogs

 

[Deleted member 19567]

Who the hell gave you this nonsense mindset?. Your too beta. Like your borderline female right now. To the point where i suspect u to be one from reddit or a FTM. Your like the girl, and shes like the man that the girl is attracted to. Dont ask her any of that simp nonsense, And stop being attracted to her as soon as possible.

Reason you caught onetis is because you long that female attention, that motherly love. And I dont even know where to start tbh. First, your making a mistake to think your special to her, falling under her frame. A misjudgment on the likely scenario, which is her just being a typical monkeybranch courteous women who treats everyone "nice" but has that chameleon nature. Most females have bfs too, but you need to also understand that a boyfriend is just a way for people to have commitmentless commitment at best, betabux at worst, and is not marriage and still fornication. So your idea of a unicorn or goddess is nothing more than women are wonderful syndrome at best, and really you should lose attraction to her, and stop setting yourself up for award winning NTR.

Your starved, and you should realize that like how we all did before you embarrass yourself further. Maybe she did treat you special, idk. but what your failing to consider is the pilled truths. Like you shouldn't even leave the house to go anywhere unless your reading truth and have a understanding of certain topics. No discernment/outer perspective on the inner working of the situation all. Your arrested development at this point when it comes to this. Stop everything, and read the bible asap.

 

[Zeruel]

Who the hell gave you this nonsense mindset?. Your too beta. Like your borderline female right now. To the point where i suspect u to be one from reddit or a FTM. Your like the girl, and shes like the man that the girl is attracted to. Dont ask her any of that simp nonsense, And stop being attracted to her as soon as possible.

Reason you caught onetis is because you long that female attention, that motherly love. And I dont even know where to start tbh. First, your making a mistake to think your special to her, falling under her frame. A misjudgment on the likely scenario, which is her just being a typical monkeybranch courteous women who treats everyone "nice" but has that chameleon nature. Most females have bfs too, but you need to also understand that a boyfriend is just a way for people to have commitmentless commitment at best, betabux at worst, and is not marriage and still fornication. So your idea of a unicorn or goddess is nothing more than women are wonderful syndrome at best, and really you should lose attraction to her, and stop setting yourself up for award winning NTR.

You’re starved, and you should realize that like how we all did before you embarrass yourself further. Maybe she did treat you special, idk. but what you’re failing to consider is the pilled truths. Like you shouldn't even leave the house to go anywhere unless you’re reading truth and have an understanding of certain topics. No discernment/outer perspective on the inner working of the situation all. You’re arrested development at this point when it comes to this. Stop everything, and read the bible asap.

I see where you’re coming from and unfortunately for me you’re most likely right but from my personal experience she seemed so nice and had redeeming qualities about herself, to the point i wanted to have some kind of hope because I also don’t live in the west too, a lonely guy like me will have a hard time ignoring any girl that gives him such positive attention.

Don’t get what you mean by “read the Bible” which part exactly?

What about the part where God made Eve from Adam himself?

I get we have different anatomies but the fact that the woman is of the man and also the man is of the woman means all of us are sinner trash, except Jesus Christ.

Most people will go to hell because they will choose the easy wide path instead of the difficult narrow path where Jesus is on.

If a man like Saint Paul can be redeemed so much then why not anyone else?

To take away man’s hope feels sinful because you’re telling him to despair even when he himself doesn’t know the full picture itself.

Let me have some hope for this one and if nothing happens whatever.

Sometimes she does make me lose myself which i have to watch out for and be more aware of and she doesn’t seem promiscuous but if she was, i don’t get why she didn’t just invite her boyfriend over for these few days and why she doesn’t make her apparent boyfriend public knowledge.

I remember one time we visited an Orthodox Church and we put some candles up for our loved ones, she rarely swears and there is a kind of modesty about her that is so attractive to me, if i find out her modesty is a facade i will just give up chasing the dream of being with her like i did with others.

 

[Deleted member 19567]

I see where you’re coming from and unfortunately for me you’re most likely right but from my personal experience she seemed so nice and had redeeming qualities about herself, to the point i wanted to have some kind of hope because I also don’t live in the west too, a lonely guy like me will have a hard time ignoring any girl that gives him such positive attention.

Don’t get what you mean by “read the Bible” which part exactly?

What about the part where God made Eve from Adam himself?

I get we have different anatomies but the fact that the woman is of the man and also the man is of the woman means all of us are sinner trash, except Jesus Christ.

Most people will go to hell because they will choose the easy wide path instead of the difficult narrow path where Jesus is on.

If a man like Saint Paul can be redeemed so much then why not anyone else?

To take away man’s hope feels sinful because you’re telling him to despair even when he himself doesn’t know the full picture itself.

Let me have some hope for this one and if nothing happens whatever.

Sometimes she does make me lose myself which i have to watch out for and be more aware of and she doesn’t seem promiscuous but if she was, i don’t get why she didn’t just invite her boyfriend over for these few days and why she doesn’t make her apparent boyfriend public knowledge.

I remember one time we visited an Orthodox Church and we put some candles up for our loved ones, she rarely swears and there is a kind of modesty about her that is so attractive to me, if i find out her modesty is a facade i will just give up chasing the dream of being with her like i did with others.

Yea, the bible talks about women being wicked over 5 times. The prophecy's as well which explain the behaviors of end times being totally unrighteous..
when i say read the bible i mean read it, then act the way it requires. because if u do, it would change a mans behavior. It can also be called an anti simp book. A book of moral precision. Also from my limited knowledge, the messiah was a man like paul, just undefiled as his way of walk was perfect, thus his death the remission of sin instead of the carnal way in the old testament which required animal sacrifice and particular ordinance. Also, from a devout perspective our hope should be in salvation from this sinful animalistic state, not in carnal desires to be fulfilled. The messiah did not die for us to sin freely. Gods words never changed.

So yea,, like how its said in Ecclesiasticus 42:14 KJV: "Better is the churlishness of a man than a courteous woman, a woman, I say, which bringeth shame and reproach.", Or verses that say "1 in 1000 men are righteous, while there is no women in a thousand righteous."

It just puts you on guard against false behavior. Even what i said earlier. Your saying she has a boyfriend, but having a boyfriend is really a sin to be honest because its kind of just fornication. commitmentless commitment. You have this idea of her being pure and redeeming yet here are flaws your ignoring. You said that she does not even show her boyfriend in public which just leaves her up for grabs really. Would you want to be her boyfriend?, Where shes just out and about, friendly to everyone and having other men fall in love?
And even people here would say the same without using the bible, as its a widely known behavior of women to monkeybranch from boyfriend to boyfriend, always having a boyfriend, or to snag a beta boyfriend while courting chad on the side. Its also a known behavior of women in particular to act nice to everyone, and lead on anyone who reciprocates. Like chameleon behavior.

Yea, you might have a chance. but the reason im telling you to let it go is not because its no hope of her liking you, but because your behavior is just too effeminate. Its a recipe for disaster when dealing with modern women, especially down the line. You need a strong masculine guidance in your life to teach you how to think and walk in life or your just going to be out here stripped and NTRd. You didnt even test her behavior. Your behavior wont even allow you and her to get physical/sexual to vet her harlotness (to see if her virtue is fake, at the least), and here you are trying to confess to her.

 

[Deleted member 21628]

Some nigga gonna say dnr

Ofc we will you retard

 

[spongebob]

We got a house for 4 days in another city away from home and i wanted to join because i felt like i wanted to try out something new and not be introverted so my colleagues were surprised i went.

The head student of this group is a MTB girl but she’s smart and she’s put a decent positive impact in my life despite not being sexual with me, being supportive and answering all the questions that are probably tedious for her at this point but she doesn’t seem to mind too much and I’ve never really had outright negative experiences with her.

When we got to the house we had to setup everything.

These students are awesome, blasting loud ass music and not caring and being so low inhib and non-neurotic, so i tried to adjust to that and we’ll see how that goes later.

After getting situated i went to the main dining room out of boredom and i didn’t want to sleep but the others did, so the only 2 people out of 9 was me and the head student girl, we spent around 2 hours talking and setting up the tables, chairs, plates, cups utensils and such, she washed all the dishes and utensils and she’s a workaholic in general.

In those 2 hours with her we also shared our opinions on things, musical tastes, joking around and being playful and overall building a connection.

But the reason i don’t believe she’s into me is that i heard that she has a boyfriend but they don’t say who it is or maybe they speculate who she’s with and it might even be me at this point because i seriously don’t know

Anyway, people start waking up and they help prepare the meals and some cook and so on, it felt like we were some sort of family.

So after the dinner they turn on loud music and i actually get into it, i practiced dancing a little before the main event and I’m actually having fun with everyone else.

But i was sleep deprived and all that movement really tired me out and some of you might know about my Thallassemia beta major blood disorder, so that doesn’t help either.

I begin to look so exhausted people begin to ask if I’m okay, they even begin to think I’m sick.

And the head student girl is worried for me since she knows something with me has always been up because I’ve never actually told anyone about my condition but only hinted at it.

So get this, she brings me to my room AND SHE DOES MY BED FOR ME… and she tells me to go to sleep…
Maybe it was like a nurse healing her patient thing instead of an intimate thing but i don’t know.

a 20 year old girl did my bed for me… that’s so crazy for me because i don’t see her doing these sort of favors for others, when other guys hit on her, she rejects them and tells them to stop… but idk what to think anymore.

This girl has become my oneitis and i don’t know what to do anymore, i really don’t want her to have a boyfriend unless it’s me now.

She's just being friendly bro. You developed oneitis because you feel she cares about you. I know how that feels.

If you want anything with her, the first thing you have to do is playfully touch her and get physical. See how it goes from there. Never mention your feelings, not even after fucking.

 

[Cali Yuga]

girl is nice to you once and you imagine your entire life and future family and become obsessed

incel behaviour but weve all been there tbh

 

[Zeruel]

Oh my God, her parents are Canadian but she was born in my Balkan country


@Biggdink MOTHER FUCKER WHY ISN’T THE CANADA PILL WORKING

 

[Deleted member 20631]

Don’t sperg out and make it some retarded love confession, keep it as surface level as possible so you don’t risk social suicide.

Just ask her out on a simple date, going out to get coffee or going to a movie some simple NT shit.

 

[GorLee]

Don’t sperg out and make it some retarded love confession, keep it as surface level as possible so you don’t risk social suicide.

Just ask her out on a simple date, going out to get coffee or going to a movie some simple NT shit.

This exactly.

 

[GorLee]

I couldn’t do anything today, just couldn’t get enough appropriate time to talk with her about this.

By the way things are looking it’s kinda over but idk for sure, today i beat her ass 3 times (in UNO) and her demeanour today was always friendly, never romantic from what i noticed.

She even offered to take pictures of me on our mountain trip (she did) and she’s always so nice to be around and it’s like… do i really want to risk our good connection just because i wanna date her?

I think i might but i got turned off today because she was acting a little weird, she poured some whipped cream on her arm and licked it off to seem quirky tee hee or something.

In this part group there’s a total of 6 dudes including me whom i height and face mog but she’s even acting more friendly to them than with me.

I got friendly mogged by fat 5’8” oofy doofy.

Maybe she might be less friendly toward me because maybe she has anxiety of interacting with me because I’m attractive to her and she’s actually scared of coming off too weird to me.

When she is looking at me she is usually smiling.

When we played UNO today i was kind of up close and she was smiling at me and awkwardly trying to look away or pretending to look at others while the focus was still on the game.

I could go on and on about why this MTB is so attractive and charming to me.

She might legit be scared of getting rejected by me and that’s why she’s not trying anything which i could actually see being a real scenario. (I could always be coping hard but this is just what i see)

Tldr
I’m skeptical but i still want to ask

Dude your completely overthinking it.

And regardless if she likes you or not, ask her out anyway, whatever happens just accept it as the will of God, you’ve done whatever works you could. Forget about the “connection.” Be real with yourself.

The Coward dies many times before his death - The Valiant man dies only once. Are you gonna die again? Fuck that shit

 

[New Poster]

Lol at not asking her to get in the bed too

 

[Zeruel]

alright, to the few people who care about this situation…






It’s over and she has a BF who is 5’7”, has a buzzcut, chalgamaxxer (only certain users know what chalga is) gymcel with a chubby face and he is kinda silly and low inhib


Her boyfriend was there the whole time under my nose (literally)

I found out when we were heading out of a restaurant, they were walking together and i was ahead of them and i overheard my FORMER oneitis talk to him and say: “No, no. I love you” to him… and i don’t know what the “no no” was or if it was concerning me or whatever it was.

Honestly I’m over it, the guy seemed low trust to me but he was and is always kind to me in his own silly way, i am surprised he took a liking to me from the start which i don’t know if it’s manipulation or what but i don’t care.

When we were at the restaurant i sneaked a peak at his instagram dms and one girl who was not my oneitis was sending him so this guy is probably cheating aswell.



@Biggdink Canada pill has anally raped me. (Oneitis has Canadian parents)

@cloUder