I will never understand “fixing insecurities” videos

[3pslnoharmony]

the videos that start with an feature that most people are insecure about let’s say for example big ears and then in the second part of the video show someone like ian somerhalder I know the point is “hey you can be beautiful with this feature you are insecure about!” But when you show people who have literally everything else it feels like”hey this thing you are insecure about looks good on other people you just lost the genetic lottery!!”

 

[3pslnoharmony]

Does anyone else think the same or am I just retarded

 

[sexisdeath]

real

 

[Luca_.]

They put people with 99% good features that have one bad feature

 

[Saint Casanova]

If you’re insecure about something, there’s a big reason for it.

The way to get around it is not by accepting it, but trying your hardest to fix it.

 

[mogtivism]

the videos that start with an feature that most people are insecure about let’s say for example big ears and then in the second part of the video show someone like ian somerhalder I know the point is “hey you can be beautiful with this feature you are insecure about!” But when you show people who have literally everything else it feels like”hey this thing you are insecure about looks good on other people you just lost the genetic lottery!!”

If you’re insecure about something, there’s a big reason for it.

The way to get around it is not by accepting it, but trying your hardest to fix it.

The lamestream approach to insecurities is to cope and mentally masterbate that “it’s not so bad” “look at this famous person with the same failo”, but this solves nothing. You will keep feeling shit about that no matter how many therapy sessions you attend or whatever.

The only way to rid yourself of an insecurity is to solve it. Large ears/nose? Plastic surgery.
Fat fuck? Diet
No muscles after years of gym? Steroids.