optimisticzoomer
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But I will always be a child at heart
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But I will always be a child at heart
Infants.orgI’ll be 22 next year but I’m still js a little kid
You're 15Infants.org
+10, soonYou're 15
Yeah there's no way+10, soon
I will continue as I am foreverI just turned 21. Wife and kids soon, I’ll have to retire.
DnrMy mind still can't grasp the idea that next year I'll be 27..
Between the ages of 20 and 25, there was literally a time when I didn't give a damn about this idea of ''age'', given that that whole period was very constant and predictable, both in terms of my physical state, my social environment and the things that were happening around me
But after 25, it's all pretty much over.. Your looks start to noticeably drop in quality (so girls 18-20 will be much more skeptical of you about a possible relationship when they see you), you stop going to university, so your social life drops off tremendously, and continues to drop off over the years..
The true path is monkhood. I am halfway therethats the age your life either gets good or just felts aparts be careful boyo
Aging is horrifying. As a kid, it feels like the ultimate goal—freedom, independence, getting to do what you want and own what you want.My mind still can't grasp the idea that next year I'll be 27..
Between the ages of 20 and 25, there was literally a time when I didn't give a damn about this idea of ''age'', given that that whole period was very constant and predictable, both in terms of my physical state, my social environment and the things that were happening around me
But after 25, it's all pretty much over.. Your looks start to noticeably drop in quality (so girls 18-20 will be much more skeptical of you about a possible relationship when they see you), you stop going to university, so your social life drops off tremendously, and continues to drop off over the years..
Aging is horrifying. As a kid, it feels like the ultimate goal—freedom, independence, getting to do what you want and own what you want.
But then you reach a point where every passing year isn’t a step forward, it’s a step closer to decay. Your body breaks down more and more, and there’s no escaping it. The strength and energy you once had fade, replaced by constant reminders that you’re falling apart.
Every ache, every slower recovery, every little failure in your body is just a preview of what’s coming. It’s all downhill, and there’s nothing you can do to stop it. Just crazy to think about how inevitable it all is.
I have continued to talk on this forum about the enormous importance of the 7 year window of time between 18 and 25, as being by far the most important time period in this universal existence
These years are the most important and defining years in terms of what your life will look like in the next 50 years (because you'll probably die around age 75)
It's the time when you choose the field of work you're likely to stay with for the rest of your life. It's the time when maybe you choose the company you might work for for the rest of your life
It's the time when everyone is willing to hire you, teach you, help you experiment. It's the time when your mistakes can be more easily excused (''eh, he's just young and inexperienced, he still has some growing up to do'')
This is when you're at your peak in terms of looks, energy and eagerness to know new things and learn in general, which will help you a lot more in possible job applications, and in their acceptance rate of you
This is the time when you have the largest social pool of people who would be willing to form some medium and long-term connections with you. People with whom you will collaborate in the future most likely for the rest of your life
This is when you have the largest possible pool of women who are willing to have a long-term relationship with you. It's also the time when you're most likely to choose the woman you'll be with for the rest of your life. It's the time when you're buying a car and a house, preparing the ground for marriage and the idea of having children
It's also very likely to be the time when you move to another city, a bigger city or university town, which has more opportunities, further away from your hometown and parents. This is the city you are most likely to live in from now on and probably where you will die. This is where you will have to have your own doctor, pay your own bills, make your ID card with your new address, etc.
Once you're 25 and out of university, there's no turning back. At that point you have to draw some conclusions:
- What am I, what is my hierarchical position and what is my monthly income?
- Where I live, where is the location where I do my daily activities, where people can find me?
- Who is my girlfriend / wife, when we're getting married / having our first baby?
- Who are my friends, who can I call when I need help or have an emergency?
- Who is my social circle, with whom I can go out or go to each other's houses / social events, from which I can learn new and interesting things, and always feel connected and up to date with what's going on?
- What is my daily and weekly routine, what are the things I like to do, that bring me pleasure and relax me?
And now back to your point, the one with the aging, once you have answers to the above questions, getting older will feel much less impactful
If after 25 years of universal existence you can't have an answer to these questions, in 2025, it's pretty much over..
You are just a loser, who lost the game of life, who never learned to play it. You're abandoned, poor, no opportunities, no people around you. You live from one day to the next in order not to die, just waiting for your death, using coping methods like drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, video games, etc. to get rid of these thoughts that will continue to haunt you all your life..
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Things will get so bad that you'll even be willing to do shit like this, since you feel that nothing matters anyway, and there are no consequences for your actions:
While those who had the answers to the above questions, are now living this life:
I have continued to talk on this forum about the enormous importance of the 7 year window of time between 18 and 25, as being by far the most important time period in this universal existence
These years are the most important and defining years in terms of what your life will look like in the next 50 years (because you'll probably die around age 75)
It's the time when you choose the field of work you're likely to stay with for the rest of your life. It's the time when maybe you choose the company you might work for for the rest of your life
It's the time when everyone is willing to hire you, teach you, help you experiment. It's the time when your mistakes can be more easily excused (''eh, he's just young and inexperienced, he still has some growing up to do'')
This is when you're at your peak in terms of looks, energy and eagerness to know new things and learn in general, which will help you a lot more in possible job applications, and in their acceptance rate of you
This is the time when you have the largest social pool of people who would be willing to form some medium and long-term connections with you. People with whom you will collaborate in the future most likely for the rest of your life
This is when you have the largest possible pool of women who are willing to have a long-term relationship with you. It's also the time when you're most likely to choose the woman you'll be with for the rest of your life. It's the time when you're buying a car and a house, preparing the ground for marriage and the idea of having children
It's also very likely to be the time when you move to another city, a bigger city or university town, which has more opportunities, further away from your hometown and parents. This is the city you are most likely to live in from now on and probably where you will die. This is where you will have to have your own doctor, pay your own bills, make your ID card with your new address, etc.
Once you're 25 and out of university, there's no turning back. At that point you have to draw some conclusions:
- What am I, what is my hierarchical position and what is my monthly income?
- Where I live, where is the location where I do my daily activities, where people can find me?
- Who is my girlfriend / wife, when we're getting married / having our first baby?
- Who are my friends, who can I call when I need help or have an emergency?
- Who is my social circle, with whom I can go out or go to each other's houses / social events, from which I can learn new and interesting things, and always feel connected and up to date with what's going on?
- What is my daily and weekly routine, what are the things I like to do, that bring me pleasure and relax me?
And now back to your point, the one with the aging, once you have answers to the above questions, getting older will feel much less impactful
If after 25 years of universal existence you can't have an answer to these questions, in 2025, it's pretty much over..
You are just a loser, who lost the game of life, who never learned to play it. You're abandoned, poor, no opportunities, no people around you. You live from one day to the next in order not to die, just waiting for your death, using coping methods like drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, video games, etc. to get rid of these thoughts that will continue to haunt you all your life..
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Things will get so bad that you'll even be willing to do shit like this, since you feel that nothing matters anyway, and there are no consequences for your actions:
While those who had the answers to the above questions, are now living this life:
Aging is horrifying. As a kid, it feels like the ultimate goal—freedom, independence, getting to do what you want and own what you want.
But then you reach a point where every passing year isn’t a step forward, it’s a step closer to decay. Your body breaks down more and more, and there’s no escaping it. The strength and energy you once had fade, replaced by constant reminders that you’re falling apart.
Every ache, every slower recovery, every little failure in your body is just a preview of what’s coming. It’s all downhill, and there’s nothing you can do to stop it. Just crazy to think about how inevitable it all is.
Brutaldang you guys are younger than i thought, i thought most people here would be me and gengars age range
Asexual peaceful balkan monkYes its how inevitable it is. I remember as a teen being told how the only thing you cant take on or avoid is death, and even tho i understood this purely from a technical standpoint, it didn't touch me. But as a 24yo now, it hits completely different once you get into more adult activities and challenges and notice how you truly can best through a lot of hardships if you have enough will but then its hits you, how you physically cant stop your body slowly degenerating and one day shutting down, no matter how much you are willing to live, it doesn't matter. Even for biohackers like Bryan, whats the point if he wants to extend life and look younger if even then the only difference is maybe he will looks younger for 15-20 years yet still end up dying at some time like the rest
I’ve never thought of 18–25 quite like this, but it’s spot-on. It’s like you’re planting seeds that will grow into your future—career, relationships, even your sense of self. Makes me want to be more mindful about how I spend my time.
Better off single and celibateWe got a few users around whom are living alone even tho they got the looks threshold of getting into a LTR/Marriage but they've decided they're better off staying single.
Example is Amnesia