I will tell a girl that i am not good enough and cancel a date

[Deusmaximus]

A girl really wants to see me, and pushed for a date. The problem is that i only sent her angle and lightfrauded pictures of me. I am so scared of rejection that would break my heart even more. She is living 40minutes away from me.
She also seems blackpilled because 1 year ago we already wrote on badoo, and then i did not had filler and hairsystem. Now 2 weeks ago she saw me again on badoo, and wrote me „oh wow you look a lot better, seems like you grew out your hair“. Then she pushed for a date.

Today i will cancel the date and write her „sorry i think i am not goodlooking for you, you should find a hot guy. There are enough good guys out there“.

 

[Baldingman1998]

 

[Azoriko]

bro wtf? just go for it, like...you wouldn't get shit ever with that behavior.

 

[BigBiceps]

Not based. Fucking and dating girls should be about your pleasure, not all about hers.

 

[Deusmaximus]

Not based. Fucking and dating girls should be about your pleasure, not all about hers.

I dont feel pleasure in dating girls. I recieved so many rejections the last years, that meeting a girl is pure stress for me. All i can think is „does she hate my looks“ „she would rather be with a handsome guy than me“.
I am very mentally ill.
Strange thing is i also get some kind of turned on by humiliation and rejection.

 

[RoundHouse]

I dont feel pleasure in dating girls. I recieved so many rejections the last years, that meeting a girl is pure stress for me. All i can think is „does she hate my looks“ „she would rather be with a handsome guy than me“.
I am very mentally ill.
Strange thing is i also get some kind of turned on by humiliation and rejection.

do yourself a favor and leave this site then, you've gotten fucked up with all that blackpill bs

 

[Deleted member 6856]

Go to date while bring drunk asfff please

 

[stuckneworleans]

Nigga this is so fucking cucked. Just go there, you got that hair system and those fillers for a reason. Don't raise the self esteem of a random roastie, you're good enough.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Imagine texting a girl, wanting the date and SHE texting you that shes not good enough for you and that you should just date some stacy.

Would be such big lifefuel but at the same time very cringe, I would lose all respect for her

brutal

 

[Deleted member 7863]

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careful friend

 

[Deleted member 275]

In the end it's all about mental health, confidence, etc. You're not doing anything wrong, you are just sharing your inner thoughts and beliefs.
Frauding NT and going to the date would probably not change your view on yourself anyways. And not be much fun like u said with ur past dates.

Unironically you need to learn to love yourself and treat yourself better, mentally.

 

[Deusmaximus]

Imagine texting a girl, wanting the date and SHE texting you that shes not good enough for you and that you should just date some stacy.

Would be such big lifefuel but at the same time very cringe, I would lose all respect for her

brutal

2 Months ago i ran a tyler maher catfish. I matched with her, and she immediately messaged me „you must be fake“.
Then i asked her „why you think that“, her answer: „99% if goodlooking guys on here are fakes“.

So i already know that she would like to meet tyler maher, and thinks she deserves him and is on his level. When she will see me irl, no chance that she can find me attractive.

 

[Spartacus1-]

2 Months ago i ran a tyler maher catfish. I matched with her, and she immediately messaged me „you must be fake“.
Then i asked her „why you think that“, her answer: „99% if goodlooking guys on here are fakes“.

So i already know that she would like to meet tyler maher, and thinks she deserves him and is on his level. When she will see me irl, no chance that she can find me attractive.

Dude, you lack confidence. Since she already wanted a date then go for it. You got absolutely nothing to lose. Just act natural and know that she's just human there's nothing to be afraid of tbh. Life is too short to be scared of this shit.

 

[Deleted member 3299]

Man this is a funny thread

 

[Deleted member 8028]

BASED