i wish i could show affection without feeling corny

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communicating with people and showing affection, even if it’s with my own family, it feels corny

i also can’t take it seriously when my mom tries telling me how she feels because my automatic response is to find it cringe

why am i like this? i’m self aware of this but i can’t change it, i can’t even go to my mom and give her a hug right now because i’d cringe myself out
 
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this is my main issue
 
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and then when i do get in a situation where i HAVE to share my feelings it just feels fake, i feel exaggerated and fake
 
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Self-awareness is a good start. It's a pretty widespread problem, especially with young people. We're all afraid to feel. It's possible to change, though. You just have to start catching yourself when it happens.
 
communicating with people and showing affection, even if it’s with my own family, it feels corny

i also can’t take it seriously when my mom tries telling me how she feels because my automatic response is to find it cringe

why am i like this? i’m self aware of this but i can’t change it, i can’t even go to my mom and give her a hug right now because i’d cringe myself out
If you’re good looking it’s never corny
 
I treat my mother like this, I don’t give a fuck
 
how do those connect
When an incel is romantic he’s lame, when a tall good looking man is romantic, he’s a loving man
 
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When an incel is romantic he’s lame, when a tall good looking man is romantic, he’s a loving man
no im saying that i feel like the interaction and connection itself is corny
 
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communicating with people and showing affection, even if it’s with my own family, it feels corny

i also can’t take it seriously when my mom tries telling me how she feels because my automatic response is to find it cringe

why am i like this? i’m self aware of this but i can’t change it, i can’t even go to my mom and give her a hug right now because i’d cringe myself out
Stop gooning perhaps
 
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communicating with people and showing affection, even if it’s with my own family, it feels corny

i also can’t take it seriously when my mom tries telling me how she feels because my automatic response is to find it cringe

why am i like this? i’m self aware of this but i can’t change it, i can’t even go to my mom and give her a hug right now because i’d cringe myself out
I 100% relate with this , I feel uncomfortable showing affection even to my mother lmao
 
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Sharing feelings opens up an avenue of vulnerability towards yourself that others can exploit. Best to just not get involved.
 
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sounds like a problem for homosexuals
 

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