I wish my Dad beat me instead of my mom.

[Ichigoat1998]

I wholeheartedly believe that strict gender roles should be enforced at all times and that deviation from it will cause disastrous results. My personal example is that because my mother was the one who would physically disciplined me I have been psychologically damaged as a result.

My parents are together but there roles are reversed. My dad is the caring one and my mom is the aggressive one. My father has almost never hit me growing up but my mom would do the most creative DMC S rank ass beatings on me. I’m talking choking me with her bra, hitting over the head with a frying pan, elbowing me in the face, etc. This is because my mom is a Hispanic Shaniqua and also that I was always tall growing up so she felt like she need to go the extra miles in ass beatings so she can discipline me. This has caused me to have low self esteem and to also have an urge to fight my mom. I feel like if the roles were reversed then it be more natural to wanna fight my dad but since I and the primal instinct to wanna be loved by mom I have this fucked up cognitive dissonance between wanna to kill and love her.

 

[Niebvll]

I wish my Dad beat my mom in general

 

[Brus Wane]

I’m talking choking me with her bra,

omg so hot

 

[SilvioMoltisantiDan]

I wholeheartedly believe that strict gender roles should be enforced at all times and that deviation from it will cause disastrous results. My personal example is that because my mother was the one who would physically disciplined me I have been psychologically damaged as a result.

My parents are together but there roles are reversed. My dad is the caring one and my mom is the aggressive one. My father has almost never hit me growing up but my mom would do the most creative DMC S rank ass beatings on me. I’m talking choking me with her bra, hitting over the head with a frying pan, elbowing me in the face, etc. This is because my mom is a Hispanic Shaniqua and also that I was always tall growing up so she felt like she need to go the extra miles in ass beatings so she can discipline me. This has caused me to have low self esteem and to also have an urge to fight my mom. I feel like if the roles were reversed then it be more natural to wanna fight my dad but since I and the primal instinct to wanna be loved by mom I have this fucked up cognitive dissonance between wanna to kill and love her.

im sorry, happens to me but with verbal aggression

 

[thecaste]

holy trauma dump
its over for your mental health, you should beat your mom for abusing you.

 

[thecaste]

but why is your takeaway: "I would have wanted my dad do beat me" and not "I would have wanted that both of my parents were loving and didn't hit me at all"

 

[tension]

How do you allow your mom to beat you

 

[nwed]

How do you allow your mom to beat you

real

 

[Viriato_catholic]

How do you allow your mom to beat you

if he fights back his dad would beat the shit outta of him

 

[tension]

if he fights back his dad would beat the shit outta of him

He just said his dad has never hit him

 

[Viriato_catholic]

if I was your dad I would beat your mom

 

[zennn]

foids be foiding

 

[Viriato_catholic]

He just said his dad has never hit him

In that case, he would

 

[Viriato_catholic]

foids be foiding

TFD! I aint right?

 

[tension]

In that case, he would

Well we don’t know that do we

Either way, he shouldn’t allow his dad to beat him either

 

[Viriato_catholic]

he shouldn’t allow his dad to beat him either

nigga what hes gonna do

 

[Ichigoat1998]

but why is your takeaway: "I would have wanted my dad do beat me" and not "I would have wanted that both of my parents were loving and didn't hit me at all"

I should have elaborated more on that. My belief is that women over use power in physical situations. Look at the rate of which female cops draw their guns when compared to men. It’s night and day. It’s cause they know they’re weaker. Also they’re more petty and will beat their child over trivial things. Men are a lot more level headed and know their own strength. So they are less likely to go overboard.

 

[tension]

nigga what hes gonna do

It’s pretty simple

If anyone tries to beat you

Don’t let them

Anytime my parents try to hit me, I just hold them back and wait for them to calm down

 

[Viriato_catholic]

I should have elaborated more on that. My belief is that women over use power in physical situations. Look at the rate of which female cops draw their guns when compared to men. It’s night and day. It’s cause they know they’re weaker. Also they’re more petty and will beat their child over trivial things. Men are a lot more level headed and know their own strength. So they are less likely to go overboard.

its bcs they are evil

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

How do you allow your mom to beat you

For real just run around the house, I have violent parents too, can’t outrun dad but mom is Lwk easy to escape from

 

[Viriato_catholic]

It’s pretty simple

If anyone tries to beat you

Don’t let them

Anytime my parents try to hit me, I just hold them back and wait for them to calm down

your parents are 50+

 

[tension]

For real just run around the house, I have violent parents too, can’t outrun dad but mom is Lwk easy to escape from

I was fast as shi when I was a kid so I could get away from both

your parents are 50+

they actually are

 

[Viriato_catholic]

they actually are

thats why my dad is in his 30s, he bideltmogs me to another planet, he would kill me if I fight him back

 

[tension]

thats why my dad is in his 30s, he bideltmogs me to another planet, he would kill me if I fight him back

Holy moly how young did he have you

My dad was 40

Lowk impressive tho

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

I was fast as shi when I was a kid so I could get away from both

they actually are

Nah outrunning dad is hard even nowadays, only solution with him is taking the beating or slightly fighting back

 

[bluebandz]

I wholeheartedly believe that strict gender roles should be enforced at all times and that deviation from it will cause disastrous results. My personal example is that because my mother was the one who would physically disciplined me I have been psychologically damaged as a result.

My parents are together but there roles are reversed. My dad is the caring one and my mom is the aggressive one. My father has almost never hit me growing up but my mom would do the most creative DMC S rank ass beatings on me. I’m talking choking me with her bra, hitting over the head with a frying pan, elbowing me in the face, etc. This is because my mom is a Hispanic Shaniqua and also that I was always tall growing up so she felt like she need to go the extra miles in ass beatings so she can discipline me. This has caused me to have low self esteem and to also have an urge to fight my mom. I feel like if the roles were reversed then it be more natural to wanna fight my dad but since I and the primal instinct to wanna be loved by mom I have this fucked up cognitive dissonance between wanna to kill and love her.

very unfortunate situation

 

[proximaspilled]

DMC S rank

yo i was trying to take this post seriously bro fuck u

 

[Noriju]

I wholeheartedly believe that strict gender roles should be enforced at all times and that deviation from it will cause disastrous results. My personal example is that because my mother was the one who would physically disciplined me I have been psychologically damaged as a result.

My parents are together but there roles are reversed. My dad is the caring one and my mom is the aggressive one. My father has almost never hit me growing up but my mom would do the most creative DMC S rank ass beatings on me. I’m talking choking me with her bra, hitting over the head with a frying pan, elbowing me in the face, etc. This is because my mom is a Hispanic Shaniqua and also that I was always tall growing up so she felt like she need to go the extra miles in ass beatings so she can discipline me. This has caused me to have low self esteem and to also have an urge to fight my mom. I feel like if the roles were reversed then it be more natural to wanna fight my dad but since I and the primal instinct to wanna be loved by mom I have this fucked up cognitive dissonance between wanna to kill and love her.

It sounds like your mother set you up to be a woman-hater.

You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control how you react

 

[Noriju]

I should have elaborated more on that. My belief is that women over use power in physical situations. Look at the rate of which female cops draw their guns when compared to men. It’s night and day. It’s cause they know they’re weaker. Also they’re more petty and will beat their child over trivial things. Men are a lot more level headed and know their own strength. So they are less likely to go overboard.

I’ve become very close with my mother recently.
What i’ve learned is that: if there’s no risk of persecution i.e. she knows that you are non-judgemental, those real, unbridled thoughts do come out.

For example. The other day my mom said at the dinner table “yoga is kind of a loser sport” and i just kinda look at her shocked (but i mask it cause i’m a boss), then my dad reacts and says “woah you just said that!?”
This subtle interaction was my eureka moment.

It goes to show that women are trappes in this circle of “correctness” that forces them to take on this role of being nice and correct all the time, and being anything else -> leads to discrimination.
Paychologically we know that if we speak a lie 1000 times it eventually becomes true. And if you wear a mask it’s important that you don’t forget yourself.
Women just forget themselves wearing the mask, because theres no benefit to taking it off.

This doesn’t just apply to female psychology, it’s also to everybody else.
An important maxim to have:
Never correct others, never react negatively to any output you receive, never criticize, even in jest.

Gonna repost this as a thread