I wonder how having a gf feels like

[Jason Voorhees]

Title tbh. Im not a virgin but all the interactions I've had with women were transactional and purely physical. Like I never have a fuck about them and they never gave a fuck about me. I am almost 21-22 and have never experienced what it's like being in a relationship. Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@imontheloose @Debetro @optimisticzoomer @Chadeep @browncurrycel

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@Jattgymmaxx

 

[tyym1111]

you would get bored in a while

 

[ltn_looksminner]

it's like anything else , feels good at first then gets boring

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@Tigermoggerlol @User28823

 

[cøbi]

Title tbh. Im not a virgin but all the interactions I've had with women were transactional and purely physical. Like I never have a fuck about them and they never gave a fuck about me. I am almost 21-22 and have never experienced what it's like being in a relationship. Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

you are overrating food because you are hungry. for an American, you are overthinking because there’s food everywhere, there’s no value. for a guy in the middle of Africa, food is the only thing u want.

 

[Copercel]

Title tbh. Im not a virgin but all the interactions I've had with women were transactional and purely physical. Like I never have a fuck about them and they never gave a fuck about me. I am almost 21-22 and have never experienced what it's like being in a relationship. Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

I wonder too

 

[optimisticzoomer]

You said you were a virgin tbh. You said you’d had non penetrative sexual encounters

 

[Debetro]

Too late to ever know sadly.

 

[Luquier]

Meanwhile she cheats on you with him

 

[Tigermoggerlol]

Title tbh. Im not a virgin but all the interactions I've had with women were transactional and purely physical. Like I never have a fuck about them and they never gave a fuck about me. I am almost 21-22 and have never experienced what it's like being in a relationship. Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

Me to bro icl I day dream abt it no cap. Shit sounds so nice. If I had a gf I would instantly leave this forum and stop being black pilled

 

[Jason Voorhees]

You said you were a virgin tbh. You said you’d had non penetrative sexual encounters

Yes. Do you consider it being virgin? I asked many people and they said no because I got my dick sucked and had the opportunity to fuck them but I didn't.

 

[Debetro]

Yes. Do you consider it being virgin? I asked many people and they said no because I got my dick sucked and had the opportunity to fuck them but I didn't.

Why did you not have real sex instead of getting sucked?

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Yes. Do you consider it being virgin? I asked many people and they said no because I got my dick sucked and had the opportunity to fuck them but I didn't.

Yes
I consider vaginal intercourse as losing virginity. Anal is a grey area

 

[aladdinmaxxer]

Title tbh. Im not a virgin but all the interactions I've had with women were transactional and purely physical. Like I never have a fuck about them and they never gave a fuck about me. I am almost 21-22 and have never experienced what it's like being in a relationship. Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

will u leave the forum as soon as u graduate college bhai ?

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Why did you not have real sex instead of getting sucked?

Vaginas are filthy

 

[optimisticzoomer]

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Why did you not have real sex instead of getting sucked?

Yes
I consider vaginal intercourse as losing virginity. Anal is a grey area

Overwhelmingly guilt and disgust from being with a slut.

 

[Debetro]

Vaginas are filthy

I thought you were a feminist.
@The Grinch

 

[optimisticzoomer]

I thought you were a feminist.
@The Grinch

Penises can be filthy too. But vaginas are a sweaty crevice and are filthier by nature. I’m an anti-sex feminist

 

[Jason Voorhees]

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Yookay classic @imontheloose @Magnus Ironblood

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Penises can be filthy too. But vaginas are a sweaty crevice and are filthier by nature. I’m an anti-sex feminist

What do you think about OP regardless

 

[imontheloose]

Yookay classic @imontheloose @Magnus Ironblood

I spoke about this last night. Scroll on my posts.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

I spoke about this last night. Scroll on my posts.

Link bro

 

[optimisticzoomer]

What do you think about OP regardless

I think women and men should just be friends, and that’s ok

 

[Jason Voorhees]

I think women and men should just be friends, and that’s ok

What about more than friends and romantic partners

 

[optimisticzoomer]

What about more than friends and romantic partners

No
I think that’s when the bad side of people comes out

 

[imontheloose]

Link bro

Uhh UK censorship again?

looksmax.org

Imgur blocked in the UK

That’s the issue @imontheloose @K4ZYA223

looksmax.org

 

[.Cx]

Title tbh. Im not a virgin but all the interactions I've had with women were transactional and purely physical. Like I never have a fuck about them and they never gave a fuck about me. I am almost 21-22 and have never experienced what it's like being in a relationship. Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

These people saying it's boring didn't have a girlfriend they actually loved.
You will feel like you would actually do anything for her, feel like you would defend her with your life.
You would feel that if you guys broke up life is incomplete without her, that nobody will understand you like she did.
She will feel like your best friend that even talking to each other is more entertaining than any movie or game you can play.
It's everything you think it will be it's the best thing a man can feel. And when you sleep at night, you will sleep better when you guys sing songs together is so much fun you won't wanna get out of the car.
It is amazing

 

[Jason Voorhees]

These people saying it's boring didn't have a girlfriend they actually loved.
You will feel like you would actually do anything for her, feel like you would defend her with your life.
You would feel that if you guys broke up life is incomplete without her, that nobody will understand you like she did.
She will feel like your best friend that even talking to each other is more entertaining than any movie or game you can play.
It's everything you think it will be it's the best thing a man can feel. And when you sleep at night, you will sleep better when you guys sing songs together is so much fun you won't wanna get out of the car.
It is amazing

Over

 

[.Cx]

Over

jfl @ you
JK you'll get a girlfriend bro

 

[optimisticzoomer]

These people saying it's boring didn't have a girlfriend they actually loved.
You will feel like you would actually do anything for her, feel like you would defend her with your life.
You would feel that if you guys broke up life is incomplete without her, that nobody will understand you like she did.
She will feel like your best friend that even talking to each other is more entertaining than any movie or game you can play.
It's everything you think it will be it's the best thing a man can feel. And when you sleep at night, you will sleep better when you guys sing songs together is so much fun you won't wanna get out of the car.
It is amazing

 

[.Cx]

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Cage @ me

 

[BigBallsLarry]

it's not anything insane. but "it gets boring" is not the right way to describe it like these users did:

it's like anything else , feels good at first then gets boring

you would get bored in a while

I believe what @.Cx said is very true. If you actually love someone and date for marriage (not just casually for fun/sex) you won't get bored of them, "boredom" doesn't exist because you're LIVING with that person now. Your lives are intertwined. If someone says relationships get "boring" - then they've never dated seriously.

 

[Luquier]

Vaginas are filthy

Always bleeding and discharging, it’s like they’re designed to put you OFF sex (I’m incel let me cope)

 

[Jason Voorhees]

it's not anything insane. but "it gets boring" is not the right way to describe it like these users did:



I believe what @.Cx said is very true. If you actually love someone and date for marriage (not just casually for fun/sex) you won't get bored of them, "boredom" doesn't exist because you're LIVING with that person now. Your lives are intertwined. If someone says relationships get "boring" - then they've never dated seriously.

I'll try to get a gf soon then. Even I want to experience that.

 

[BigBallsLarry]

I'll try to get a gf soon then. Even I want to experience that.

find the right one and it's an insane feeling. you'll feel like you're finally actually living.

right off the rip say you're not looking for anything casual. that's what i did.

 

[Galvatron]

Title tbh. Im not a virgin but all the interactions I've had with women were transactional and purely physical. Like I never have a fuck about them and they never gave a fuck about me. I am almost 21-22 and have never experienced what it's like being in a relationship. Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

Still lucky ur not a virgin but I would imagine it probably feels like having a best friend u get physical with

 

[Jason Voorhees]

find the right one and it's an insane feeling. you'll feel like you're finally actually living.

right off the rip say you're not looking for anything casual. that's what i did.

Most women my age don't seem interested in LTR tbh. They all want to hookup and looking for something casual that's why it hasn't worked out for me

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Most women my age don't seem interested in LTR tbh. They all want to hookup and looking for something casual that's why it hasn't worked out for me

there's 1 girl in that whole stack that wants to settle for a serious and lovey dovey marriage

i don't want to get all bluepilled with you, but "there's other fish in the sea" is a pretty good statement to use here.

I got asked out by plenty of girls, but never accepted it untill i found one that was perfect for what I'm looking for in life.

 

[.Cx]

Most women my age don't seem interested in LTR tbh. They all want to hookup and looking for something casual that's why it hasn't worked out for me

Key word "most" not all.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

there's 1 girl in that whole stack that wants to settle for a serious and lovey dovey marriage

i don't want to get all bluepilled with you, but "there's other fish in the sea" is a pretty good statement to use here.

I got asked out by plenty of girls, but never accepted it untill i found one that was perfect for what I'm looking for in life.

Key word "most" not all.

You niggas make me motivated unlike more faggots here. I'll make it happen I'll get a gf too.

 

[BigBallsLarry]

You niggas make me motivated unlike more faggots here. I'll make it happen I'll get a gf too.

 

[heightmax]

No tag = no rep
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[Jattgymmaxx]

Title tbh. Im not a virgin but all the interactions I've had with women were transactional and purely physical. Like I never have a fuck about them and they never gave a fuck about me. I am almost 21-22 and have never experienced what it's like being in a relationship. Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

@Jattgymmaxx

Same I want one to cuddle with and to fuck like genuinely want her to be into me but I doubt I’ll find one

 

[Daddy's Home]

Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

You're unfortunately making a fantasy out of this, which is not realistic

You already do these things (got to places, do cool things, but alone), or they seem normal to you, but if a random girl comes along to accompany you in all this, it won't be anything special or different (except that other people will stare at you, and you might feel good if she's very attractive, and the rest of the people see that she's yours)

First of all, you're in a public space, so at most you might give her a kiss, a hug, and hold her hand (and even that gets boring at some point, your hand gets sweaty) but otherwise it's like going with a friend/family member/colleague

We're not in the movies, in an isolated environment, where it's always the middle of the day, time seems to stop, nothing matters or happens anymore, and everything revolves around us, for us, and we're always doing things and allocating all our time and energy..

In real life, having a girlfriend is like having a random friend, you see them sometimes, you meet them sometimes, you text them sometimes, you come to each other's houses sometimes, you cuddle, and sometimes when you both feel like it, you kiss and maybe have sex, but otherwise everyone with their own life, with their family, with their friends, with your activities

You still have 24 hours a day, school lasts the same amount of time, so does work, and all the other things you used to do alone

You think that if you have a girlfriend, you free up / unlock like in a video game some extra time (and energy, very important) each day beyond the normal 24 hours that she and you can allocate to doing couple things

Reality unfortunately doesn't work that way

Things will be better when you eventually move in together, but even then you will have a lot of things to do and your time and energy are limited

The reality of a couple is very monotonous, you quickly get into a routine, and you will look for other things to do because at some point you will get bored of each other, of your personality / voice / behavior / way of thinking, given that you will be together 24/7, no matter how attractive she is

Many users here, including you probably, think that ''a girlfriend'' is:

- a sex doll that:
- doesn't grow hair everywhere
- that doesn't go to the bathroom
- that doesn't sweat constantly
- that doesn't menstruate
- that doesn't smell bad
- that doesn't have activities she wants to do alone without you being around or interrupting her
- she is not hungry 3 times per day or more
- that has the energy, the time, the lack of worries & problems & responsibilities, the health, the availability, the kindness and goodwill of a girl from an fucking anime, always there for you at your disposal
- that she is not another human being like you, who also has health problems, worse conditions from menstruation, a job, responsibilities, friends and family that she constantly keeps in touch with, etc.

What you describe is ''love bombing'', and it is unrealistic to maintain in the medium and long term, and always generally comes from only one side, not from both partners in the couple

A real relationship means maturity, it means time and energy scheduled in advance to be spent together, it means preparations before any meeting (clothes, hair, hygiene, etc. and these take extra time and energy to always have them when you need them), and 90% of the time spent together will be just yapping from both of you about boring daily things, and only 10% of lying in bed, hugging, kissing, and eventually sex, and then unfortunately you will both continue your boring and hard lives..

That's why a lot of men who have had 1-2-3 relationships say afterwards that they don't need them anymore because they're better off without them, that they have more free time and fewer worries

Sure, you don't have sex and kisses for like 20-30 minutes every 2-3 nights, but hey, that's it, life goes on..

Life unfortunately remains just as complex, hard, complicated and energy-consuming with or without a girlfriend. A girlfriend won't come from heaven to change our entire life/daily routine like it seems in the movies, where from that moment the relationship begins, all the focus and everything we do is for us and about us..

Brutal life and reality pill..

 

[Sprinkles]

Title tbh. Im not a virgin but all the interactions I've had with women were transactional and purely physical. Like I never have a fuck about them and they never gave a fuck about me. I am almost 21-22 and have never experienced what it's like being in a relationship. Being genuinely in love with a woman that I care about. I would love to have a gf. We'll go out to watch movies and go to parks and talk cuddling with each other for hours. Have great time. I'll message her and tell her about my day. Buy her gifts and share everything with her. It'll all be so nice. I wish I had a gf tbh.

she needs to be more into you than the other way around or it will never work

 

[Tigermoggerlol]

she needs to be more into you than the other way around or it will never work

This.

 

[Daddy's Home]

And related to what Lary and .Cx said above

These things happen, emotionally of course, when you're together and you do shit together, there's that attraction, feelings, the desire for protection, etc. it's motivating and makes you happy, sure, but for these things to last, certain conditions must be met, and generally these are like:

- both of you have a lot of free time (be in high school or in university during summer)
- you don't have many worries or problems, both you and her (health, school, job, family, other external factors)
- both to not to be employed full time
- things in life generally go well and predictably for BOTH of you

That's why teenage love is so desirable, because in the early 20s-mid 20s, responsibility and worries increase, but free time also decreases