I wonder if I should give my mother a hug

[SayNoToRotting]

The last few weeks I have been quite bitter and anger-filled.

All of the very few conversations between me and my mom consisted of me yelling at her and lecturing her on what my standards of a comfortable living are.

In my rage-drunk state I refused to interact with her on her birthday, Christmas and new years 's eve, even though she has been very inviting and kind.


My hatred was justified, even though it has been over very trivial issues. I certainly went too much Klaus Kinski on her.

But now it kind of hit me that she won't be around forever..

I feel bad. I must redeem myself.

 

[Alt Number 3]

didnt you say you would kill her for $20

actually it was 2000 but still

 

[Blackout.xl]

didnt you say you would kill her for $20

actually it was 2000 but still

Wtf

 

[SayNoToRotting]

didnt you say you would kill her for $20

actually it was 2000 but still

just lol. Context matters.

 

[Deleted member 4231]

It is so bizarre to see you act so human with no sense of shame,

I must now acknowledge, it is hard for people to contain their emotions.

Let your mother know what she did wrong to manifest your discontent. After she acknowledges her mistakes, treat her kinder (a sense of reward).

Her brain will now inhibit her from displeasing you since it will associate that behavior with suffering (not 100% ofc). Still outweighs the both of you being discontent, at least this way you will gain peace of mind.

 

[Deleted member 3962]

Do it.

 

[BigBoy]

I need to say sorry to my mom too. She only wishes the best for me yet I treat her like trash bc of my short temper. Shes much kinder when compared to other parents and Ive only learned this recently.

 

[nattycel]

She should've slapped you a bit more when you were younger to keep you in check.

 

[Deleted member 1464]

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