I would fucking trade anything to be low inhib

[percsinmysoda]

Being high inhib is genuinely so fucking miserable every day. No matter how much bigger I get in the gym or better I look that feeling still lingers and haunts me in every social situation. I see others (friends and classmates) that so easily can get along with each other and socialize but every time I try my heart gets stuck in my chest and it’s just so hard to speak. I feel like everyone’s staring at me and watching every move I make it it’s just so god damn difficult to put myself out there. Playing sports and going out to party with friends are times when it’s not so bad becuase my minds not focused on all the small stuff but whenever the event is over and everything settles down that feeling of not really fitting in comes back. I wish there was just a way to keep that confidence and not caring attitude in every aspect of my life but I can’t seem to find a way. Idk this is lowk just a bs midnight rant after a shitty day so if anyb has any suggestions I’d appreciate it.

 

[eon]

low T

 

[softmaxxedcutecel]

i feel the same way

 

[percsinmysoda]

low T

I think my T is alright broski

 

[6”3neartyronelite]

It’s like training a muscle the more u speak to people the less of a challenge it becomes keep delaying and overthinking it the worse your situation becomes. Unless ur autistic then idk

 

[percsinmysoda]

Bump

It’s like training a muscle the more u speak to people the less of a challenge it becomes keep delaying and overthinking it the worse your situation becomes. Unless ur autistic then idk

yea ify ive been trying to put myself in more uncomfortable situations like talking to randoms and stuff and its been helping. My main issue is I’m just tryna b super low inhib before college so I’m not like alone the whole time idk

 

[PeacefulLight]

Bump

yea ify ive been trying to put myself in more uncomfortable situations like talking to randoms and stuff and its been helping. My main issue is I’m just tryna b super low inhib before college so I’m not like alone the whole time idk

lower ur iq the more dumb u are the less u think and just do

 

[percsinmysoda]

It’s like training a muscle the more u speak to people the less of a challenge it becomes keep delaying and overthinking it the worse your situation becomes. Unless ur autistic then idk

Being high inhib is genuinely so fucking miserable every day. No matter how much bigger I get in the gym or better I look that feeling still lingers and haunts me in every social situation. I see others (friends and classmates) that so easily can get along with each other and socialize but every time I try my heart gets stuck in my chest and it’s just so hard to speak. I feel like everyone’s staring at me and watching every move I make it it’s just so god damn difficult to put myself out there. Playing sports and going out to party with friends are times when it’s not so bad becuase my minds not focused on all the small stuff but whenever the event is over and everything settles down that feeling of not really fitting in comes back. I wish there was just a way to keep that confidence and not caring attitude in every aspect of my life but I can’t seem to find a way. Idk this is lowk just a bs midnight rant after a shitty day so if anyb has any suggestions I’d appreciate it.

Bump

 

[sslavniyy]

Being high inhib is genuinely so fucking miserable every day. No matter how much bigger I get in the gym or better I look that feeling still lingers and haunts me in every social situation. I see others (friends and classmates) that so easily can get along with each other and socialize but every time I try my heart gets stuck in my chest and it’s just so hard to speak. I feel like everyone’s staring at me and watching every move I make it it’s just so god damn difficult to put myself out there. Playing sports and going out to party with friends are times when it’s not so bad becuase my minds not focused on all the small stuff but whenever the event is over and everything settles down that feeling of not really fitting in comes back. I wish there was just a way to keep that confidence and not caring attitude in every aspect of my life but I can’t seem to find a way. Idk this is lowk just a bs midnight rant after a shitty day so if anyb has any suggestions I’d appreciate it.

in reality everyone is high inhib, it's just easier for NTs to mask it and blend in

 

[proxxyy11]

Being high inhib is genuinely so fucking miserable every day. No matter how much bigger I get in the gym or better I look that feeling still lingers and haunts me in every social situation. I see others (friends and classmates) that so easily can get along with each other and socialize but every time I try my heart gets stuck in my chest and it’s just so hard to speak. I feel like everyone’s staring at me and watching every move I make it it’s just so god damn difficult to put myself out there. Playing sports and going out to party with friends are times when it’s not so bad becuase my minds not focused on all the small stuff but whenever the event is over and everything settles down that feeling of not really fitting in comes back. I wish there was just a way to keep that confidence and not caring attitude in every aspect of my life but I can’t seem to find a way. Idk this is lowk just a bs midnight rant after a shitty day so if anyb has any suggestions I’d appreciate it.

being low inhib is fucking bad

and idk if it's correlated with low iq, but i just cannot think before i say shit. so i constantly accidentally make fun of others, make ppl mad, n just say shit im not supposed to

it's rly not that fun, only upside is that i'm rarely actually socially anxious. if someone is 7 feet or mogs me to fucking oblivion i can talk to them with ease, i can talk to ppl idk, teachers easily, meet new people, etc

 

[0pslsub]

Just become more NT and stop giving a fuck about anything or what people think

 

[percsinmysoda]

Bro no ify on like

being low inhib is fucking bad

and idk if it's correlated with low iq, but i just cannot think before i say shit. so i constantly accidentally make fun of others, make ppl mad, n just say shit im not supposed to

it's rly not that fun, only upside is that i'm rarely actually socially anxious. if someone is 7 feet or mogs me to fucking oblivion i can talk to them with ease, i can talk to ppl idk, teachers easily, meet new people, etc

When i drink or im with friends i feel like how u said really low inhib to the point where you dont really think before you do smt but i js wish i could find a balance without needing alcohol or pregab.

 

[proxxyy11]

Bro no ify on like

When i drink or im with friends i feel like how u said really low inhib to the point where you dont really think before you do smt but i js wish i could find a balance without needing alcohol or pregab.

its literally all just practice

it's not genetics at all, of course if someone has more sociable genes, they're going to be more relaxed and calm in a social setting than one without the genes but who has practiced - there will always be a noticeable gap

i've always been a shy kid and i could barely talk to ppl, but after a while of meeting the right social people, being friends with them, practicing making new friends, etc. i slowly came out of my bubble

idk why tho but me not thinking before i speak was always a thing even when i was shy, i just couldn't go up to people in the first place to display how i just blurt shit out like an autist

now it's considerably noticeable bc i'm a much more sociable person in general


very long rant but yea