I'd like to meet women who also missed out on their prime, like I did.

[FrothySolutions]

My gripe of all gripes is the agepill: My youth was matter-of-factly subpar. I'm not just mad that I didn't "slay" back then, I'm saying I didn't even have a youth that was "par." How so? By virtue of me still being a virgin, my youth was under par. Even if you didn't "slay" in college, you're probably not a 48 year old virgin. Whatever normie milestone for virginity loss you met, I didn't even meet that. And now that I'm 48, I never will.

If I can't make up for this, I would at least like some people I can relate to. Other people who missed out on the lives they should've lived. Like how closeted gays in the 80s missed out on being gay because of things like AIDS and stigmas. Except I don't wanna meet gay men. I wanna meet straight women. Straight women who somehow missed out on the fun of youth and are looking/wishing to make up for it. But where would I find women like this?

 

[IncelsBraincels]

 

[AlexAP]

Even if you didn't "slay" in college, you're probably not a 48 year old virgin. Whatever normie milestone for virginity loss you met, I didn't even meet that. And now that I'm 48, I never will.

Does that mean you're a 48 year-old virgin?

 

[FrothySolutions]

Does that mean you're a 48 year-old virgin?

Yes, it means that.

 

[AlexAP]

Yes, it means that.

That's the saddest thing I heard in my life. My condolences.

 

[Deleted member 15895]

female virgins past 20 dont exist bro, sorry

 

[AlexAP]

If I can't make up for this, I would at least like some people I can relate to. Other people who missed out on the lives they should've lived. Like how closeted gays in the 80s missed out on being gay because of things like AIDS and stigmas. Except I don't wanna meet gay men. I wanna meet straight women. Straight women who somehow missed out on the fun of youth and are looking/wishing to make up for it. But where would I find women like this?

Go to a hooker and get the experience quick, then try to get with a woman who only had one man before, like a divorced 40 year-old woman, so she's not that experienced.

How do you look like? If you look better than men around your age, you should be able to get women.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Go to a hooker and get the experience quick, then try to get with a woman who only had one man before, like a divorced 40 year-old woman, so she's not that experienced.

How do you look like? If you look better than men around your age, you should be able to get women.

"Better?" Why is that the assumption you go with? Why isn't it more likely that I look "as good" or "worse" than men around my age? Seems like a strange question to ask. "Are you hot?" What are the odds of me being hot?

 

[Gengar]

female virgins past 20 dont exist bro, sorry

exceptions exist but theyre already taken

 

[Deleted member 15895]

exceptions exist but theyre already taken

if they're taken they aint virgins

 

[Gengar]

if they're taken they aint virgins

I'm talking about those who refrain from sex before marriage, those can be taken and still virgins. But they're like unicorns.

 

[FrothySolutions]

I'm talking about those who refrain from sex before marriage, those can be taken and still virgins. But they're like unicorns.

I'm not looking for that, really. I'm looking for women who wanted to have sex in their prime, but missed out on it. Couldn't do it. Like maybe for religious reasons. Or maybe they wanted to but failed, like I did.

And therein lies the problem. It's just not realistic for a woman to want sex but not get it. Religious reasons maybe. But as a woman you're more likely to have sex and NOT want it, than to want sex but not have it.

 

[Deleted member 15778]

I'm not looking for that, really. I'm looking for women who wanted to have sex in their prime, but missed out on it. Couldn't do it. Like maybe for religious reasons. Or maybe they wanted to but failed, like I did.

And therein lies the problem. It's just not realistic for a woman to want sex but not get it. Religious reasons maybe. But as a woman you're more likely to have sex and NOT want it, than to want sex but not have it.

Religious girls that want sex, and are willing to wait until marriage, will get married before they are 30. Like you said, If a girl wants sex she can get it always. There are NO exceptions, it's biologically impossible for a woman to want sex and not be able to get it.

You shouldn't try to find a woman that you can relate with because it will NEVER happen. Women live lives of constant attention and praise, and a plethora of men to choose from even if they are very ugly and morbidly obese. I know I am friends with these kind of women, and trust me, they have plenty of options with decent looking guys.

As far as some one to talk to and spend time with that can fully relate to you, it's unlikely that you'll find that in another person. I suggest journaling & meditation. Also, I suggest considering creating an imaginary friend, but don't tell any one about it. I don't do this, but it could be good practice for you, practicing conversations and things for when can meet real people, and an imaginary person is some one that can fully relate to you that you could talk to about anything. With normal people, there's always topics you can't touch, which topics it is depends on the person.

Still, try to date and have fun with women, or to be friends with women. Just don't expect them to be able to relate to you, or the loneliness you feel, unless it's in small doses like a woman who has to struggle to find a Chad to date for a few months and becomes very depressed until she finally finds one two months later.

 

[Incellectually_Shy]

female virgins past 20 dont exist bro, sorry

You mean 16, right?

 

[Deleted member 14138]

My gripe of all gripes is the agepill: My youth was matter-of-factly subpar. I'm not just mad that I didn't "slay" back then, I'm saying I didn't even have a youth that was "par." How so? By virtue of me still being a virgin, my youth was under par. Even if you didn't "slay" in college, you're probably not a 48 year old virgin. Whatever normie milestone for virginity loss you met, I didn't even meet that. And now that I'm 48, I never will.

If I can't make up for this, I would at least like some people I can relate to. Other people who missed out on the lives they should've lived. Like how closeted gays in the 80s missed out on being gay because of things like AIDS and stigmas. Except I don't wanna meet gay men. I wanna meet straight women. Straight women who somehow missed out on the fun of youth and are looking/wishing to make up for it. But where would I find women like this?

Guess what? They don't exist.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

That's the saddest thing I heard in my life. My condolences.

Sadder than this?

Dutch girl, 17, who was sexually abused at 11 and raped as a 14-year-old is legally allowed to die after contacting ‘end-of-life’ clinic

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7103019/Dutch-girl-17-legally-ends-life-euthanasia-clinic.html

looksmax.org

 

[AlexAP]

Sadder than this?

Dutch girl, 17, who was sexually abused at 11 and raped as a 14-year-old is legally allowed to die after contacting ‘end-of-life’ clinic

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7103019/Dutch-girl-17-legally-ends-life-euthanasia-clinic.html

looksmax.org

Yes. This guy is suffering 31 years longer than this girl.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

My gripe of all gripes is the agepill: My youth was matter-of-factly subpar. I'm not just mad that I didn't "slay" back then, I'm saying I didn't even have a youth that was "par." How so? By virtue of me still being a virgin, my youth was under par. Even if you didn't "slay" in college, you're probably not a 48 year old virgin. Whatever normie milestone for virginity loss you met, I didn't even meet that. And now that I'm 48, I never will.

If I can't make up for this, I would at least like some people I can relate to. Other people who missed out on the lives they should've lived. Like how closeted gays in the 80s missed out on being gay because of things like AIDS and stigmas. Except I don't wanna meet gay men. I wanna meet straight women. Straight women who somehow missed out on the fun of youth and are looking/wishing to make up for it. But where would I find women like this?

There are none who missed out in the same way you have. And the ones who significantly missed out in other ways are too bitter. Their optimism could never match your own. Nobody in their right mind would want to be around them for any length of time.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

Yes. This guy is suffering 31 years longer than this girl.

True, but users here would say my post is sadder.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

If I can't make up for this, I would at least like some people I can relate to. Other people who missed out on the lives they should've lived. Like how closeted gays in the 80s missed out on being gay because of things like AIDS and stigmas. Except I don't wanna meet gay men. I wanna meet straight women. Straight women who somehow missed out on the fun of youth and are looking/wishing to make up for it. But where would I find women like this?

You're only going to be able to relate with other straight men. Just take pride in the fact that you never betabuxed/cucked yourself and created suffering by breeding.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Sadder than this?

Dutch girl, 17, who was sexually abused at 11 and raped as a 14-year-old is legally allowed to die after contacting ‘end-of-life’ clinic

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7103019/Dutch-girl-17-legally-ends-life-euthanasia-clinic.html

looksmax.org

It's not just the suicide that makes this grim. It's that the world, or at least the people around her, said ""Y'know what? Yes, give up. Don't overcome this. You can't overcome this. Die instead." I'd say this is a much bleaker situation than mine.

Still, I think we both deserve to be happy.

 

[Deleted member 2403]

 

[FrothySolutions]

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I always felt like maybe they should do a sequel/remake. Written with modern perspectives in mind. This movie was from a pre-manosphere pre-incelosphere time. As a 40 year-old virgin, Andy is shy and reluctant to solve his problem. And most bullshit of all? He doesn't regret the wasted years. We need a new movie with a new protagonist who addresses these issues. One that is actually trying to address his virginity/inceldom. One who carries a bitterness that even if he does have sex, it won't be with his 20 year-old dick, his 20 year-old sex drive. As a 40 year-old is he even capable of being as horny as he was when he was young?

Actually, call it "The 40 Year-Old Incel." Make it a dark comedy, like Taxi Driver but funnier. Because that bitterness over a squandered youth should still come through in his character. And Judd Apatow can direct it if he wants to.

 

[Deleted member 2403]

I always felt like maybe they should do a sequel/remake. Written with modern perspectives in mind. This movie was from a pre-manosphere pre-incelosphere time. As a 40 year-old virgin, Andy is shy and reluctant to solve his problem. And most bullshit of all? He doesn't regret the wasted years. We need a new movie with a new protagonist who addresses these issues. One that is actually trying to address his virginity/inceldom. One who carries a bitterness that even if he does have sex, it won't be with his 20 year-old dick, his 20 year-old sex drive. As a 40 year-old is he even capable of being as horny as he was when he was young?

Actually, call it "The 40 Year-Old Incel." Make it a dark comedy, like Taxi Driver but funnier. Because that bitterness over a squandered youth should still come through in his character. And Judd Apatow can direct it if he wants to.

dn ask but great you are this passionate about movies