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Over the last few years, I've had grand plans for looksmaxing. Surgeries, procedures, fillers, gym, etc.
But lately I've come to the conclusion that western society is sick and totally broken. It makes you feel bad constantly about the way you were born, the way you look, your height. That is really disgusting. I know this sounds obvious, but this fact only really hit me today. I've been so focused on looksmaxing, moneymaxing and self improvement that I overlooked this for so long. That it's not right I get dismissed as a human being because of some slight flaws in my face. And I've realised that I don't have to put up with this forever, that there are better countries and cultures outside of the west, which aren't totally capitalistic and competitive when it comes to dating.
My ancestors all lived in India and had a simple life. Work in the fields, get married, start a family. Most of them lived till their 80's and 90's. I don't like the fact that I'm constantly thinking about complex issues, about how surgery would change the minute details of my face, about how I'll moneymaxx and buy expensive items to attract women, about how I can improve my social media presence and my pictures on dating apps. And once I do get married, constantly stressing about divorce and losing my children. This isn't right and I refuse to live like this forever.
I know this sounds like a lot of cope but wondering if anyone else is just tired of living like this. Men shouldn't have to live in a state of constant worry regarding the way their face looks. It's sick and unnatural.
But lately I've come to the conclusion that western society is sick and totally broken. It makes you feel bad constantly about the way you were born, the way you look, your height. That is really disgusting. I know this sounds obvious, but this fact only really hit me today. I've been so focused on looksmaxing, moneymaxing and self improvement that I overlooked this for so long. That it's not right I get dismissed as a human being because of some slight flaws in my face. And I've realised that I don't have to put up with this forever, that there are better countries and cultures outside of the west, which aren't totally capitalistic and competitive when it comes to dating.
My ancestors all lived in India and had a simple life. Work in the fields, get married, start a family. Most of them lived till their 80's and 90's. I don't like the fact that I'm constantly thinking about complex issues, about how surgery would change the minute details of my face, about how I'll moneymaxx and buy expensive items to attract women, about how I can improve my social media presence and my pictures on dating apps. And once I do get married, constantly stressing about divorce and losing my children. This isn't right and I refuse to live like this forever.
I know this sounds like a lot of cope but wondering if anyone else is just tired of living like this. Men shouldn't have to live in a state of constant worry regarding the way their face looks. It's sick and unnatural.