i’d rather be lusted over than loved

[Deleted member 86840]

i don’t want love i want validation and reassurance that my physical appearance is appealing

but for this reason, i’ll never be happy

 

[Deleted member 86840]

i’d hate to date someone like me

 

[BigBallsLarry]

deep inside, everyone feels like this.

everyone tries to perfect their looks, whether it's gym, makeup, hair styling, clothes, everything.

all we chase with that is validation and the actual feeling of being good looking.

love is meaningless if they don't lust over you.

 

[Deleted member 129366]

I would rather be revered and worshipped than either lusted after or loved