I'd want to experience pure love seriously?

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What's your opinion?
 
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I’m in the same boat and have done it multiple times. Its more achievable than this forum thinks
 
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I’m in the same boat and have done it multiple times. Its more achievable than this forum thinks
W but don't you think pure love can be only once for person
 
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What's your opinion?
Unless you re not 25+ there isn’t really any motive to want real love , sure teenage relationships but don’t expect the movies kind of way . Most young women are genuinely bops , when you re young you want to have fun enjoy the social interactions maybe clubs , with women and shit . Don’t expect love at a young age
 
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Unless you re not 25+ there isn’t really any motive to want real love , sure teenage relationships but don’t expect the movies kind of way . Most young women are genuinely bops , when you re young you want to have fun enjoy the social interactions maybe clubs , with women and shit . Don’t expect love at a young age
I'm virgin at 22 have hope
 
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W but don't you think pure love can be only once for person
Why would that be? Love is a verb, meaning to love is an action. You choose to love someone you feel a connection with, if they make the same choice then you’re both in love. I used to think you only get one because of movies but that was with my first relationship, I’ve loved since then multiple times
 
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W but don't you think pure love can be only once for person

Real love I think can be found multiple times

But there will always be one thats the best and purest amongst them
 
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Why would that be? Love is a verb, meaning to love is an action. You choose to love someone you feel a connection with, if they make the same choice then you’re both in love. I used to think you only get one because of movies but that was with my first relationship, I’ve loved since then multiple times
See but you have same feeling for eachother?
 
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See but you have same feeling for eachother?
Of course you need to both love each other. Some girls I dated we both immediately had a passion and pursued a relationship, in other cases we had a friendship blossom into love as we grew to know each other more
 
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Of course you need to both love each other. Some girls I dated we both immediately had a passion and pursued a relationship, in other cases we had a friendship blossom into love as we grew to know each other more
W which one is better I think long term better second because you appreciate person not feeling
 
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Of course you need to both love each other. Some girls I dated we both immediately had a passion and pursued a relationship, in other cases we had a friendship blossom into love as we grew to know each other more
A slowburn is better yeah , but you still need to acknowledge that most women don’t show their true colors until later on
 
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W which one is better I think long term better second because you appreciate person not feeling
I don’t think either necessarily are better. That’s just how the love starts, the love is maintained by the 2 of you always choosing each other, being understanding of each other, and caring more about your partner than you do yourself. When both of you do that the relationship can last. You don’t just fall in love and coast through, you have to wake up every morning and continue to choose to love your girl
 
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A slowburn is better yeah , but you still need to acknowledge that most women don’t show their true colors until later on
I think that can be applied to man also because begging of love is purest and with time it can not be the same it'd be good that people love eachother as always
 
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A slowburn is better yeah , but you still need to acknowledge that most women don’t show their true colors until later on
This is true, it can be the same with men also but women are better at it
 
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I don’t think either necessarily are better. That’s just how the love starts, the love is maintained by the 2 of you always choosing each other, being understanding of each other, and caring more about your partner than you do yourself. When both of you do that the relationship can last. You don’t just fall in love and coast through, you have to wake up every morning and continue to choose to love your girl
W that's the thing I personally don't like how things should be but if you prioritise person over yourself and person reciprocate it balances and amazing
 
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W that's the thing I personally don't like how things should be but if you prioritise person over yourself and person reciprocate it balances and amazing
Exactly. That’s my philosophy, love as best you can and put your partner first, but also set very high standards and if they won’t love you correctly then you leave and find someone who will
 
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Exactly. That’s my philosophy, love as best you can and put your partner first, but also set very high standards and if they won’t love you correctly then you leave and find someone who will
Yes of course we're all people and things happens but again there's shouldn't be ideal way but even me working as sale rep deal with a lot of rude people I still try be kind but if you truly love you'll always find a way
 
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if u want love u should hang out w girls, i dont prefer dating sites as usually girls/men look forward to getting dopamine kicks xd also its great that ur trying to find love extreme testosterone boost :)
 
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Yes of course we're all people anr things happens but again there's shouldn't be ideal way but even me working as sale rep deal with a lot of rude people I still try be kind but if you truly love you'll always find a way
Exactly. You have one of the healthiest mindsets I’ve seen on here, mirin EQ
 
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if u want love u should hang out w girls, i dont prefer dating sites as usually girls/men look forward to getting dopamine kicks xd also its great that ur trying to find love extreme testosterone boost :)
W
 
This is true, it can be the same with men also but women are better at it
Ther are 2 types of men the heartrobbers and the incels, maybe there’s something between but men have less options yk , ugly women still get play , ugly men more rarely . An attractive dude makes money of his looks and has every women he can
 
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Ther are 2 types of men the heartrobbers and the incels, maybe there’s something between but men have less options yk , ugly women still get play , ugly men more rarely . An attractive dude makes money of his looks and has every women he can
See
 
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Ther are 2 types of men the heartrobbers and the incels, maybe there’s something between but men have less options yk , ugly women still get play , ugly men more rarely . An attractive dude makes money of his looks and has every women he can
There’s absolutely something in between and that’s where most men in the world sit. Men do have less options but for slaying it’s different, you need to be lucky every weekend etc. to find a good girl to ltr you just need to be lucky once
 
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nigga on looksmax.org asking bout some real love
 
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If you are sub-6 you can be loved as a friend
I think there are people who love partner and on the same looks level although I don't like to say it matters
 
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There’s absolutely something in between and that’s where most men in the world sit. Men do have less options but for slaying it’s different, you need to be lucky every weekend etc. to find a good girl to ltr you just need to be lucky once
As a man you want to have more options open objectively and have someone of higher class higher pay grade yk but for that you need to be also attractive so you can be able to date a high class woman
 
I think there are people who love partner and on the same looks level although I don't like to say it matters
Gen-Z western foids are different man. They really hate men. The grass is always greener effect due to dating apps and social media too. Gen-Z and alpha men are truly cooked.
 
As a man you want to have more options open objectively and have someone of higher class higher pay grade yk but for that you need to be also attractive so you can be able to date a high class woman
Yeah well we can’t all get what we want, I don’t personally care about the class of my woman anyways as long as she’s loyal and kind
 

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