This might prove the theory of erection quality and erection angle. Mine is a very good upwards angle which hits girls' G-spots perfectly in missionary, like when 100% erect standing it points up to the ceiling basically. Unfortunately doggystyle feels a bit weird even tho I prefer the view 10x more
length more so than the girth for rough shit, most girls can get used to girth but the depth is like they have balls and I'm kicking their balls over and over, some girls like it but most don't
Yeah most girls don't like 69 very much from my experience
This actually makes sense. I've seen girls get turned on more by a guys forearm, abs, pecs, ESPECIALLY back or shoulders than just seeing a dick.
Interesting
From my experience p in v orgasms occur very easily when there's a very strong erection and good rhythm, not all-out rough fucking like what porn makes people think. Even slow-moderate pace is good.
we like to be black and white here but it's really more complicated than that
Yeah girls will love to give head because it makes them feel sexy and because if sex doesn't happen (rarely) at least they feel like they did something
Idk it seems pretty general consensus, girls love wide shoulders a fuck ton that and face are key components of her orgasm.
My girlfriend and most of my lays tell me giving head is very submissive and turns them on. I kinda count oral sex as sex tbh.
I mean shit like dick size, abs etc
I disagree tbh. You know what it actually is? It's when you have a lot of aggression and confidence during sex serious. Maybe at girls close their eyes when they're close to cumming anyways so they're not looking at you that much, but they do feel your rhythm and how aggressive you are being and the grunts you make and the spanks, basically I think what eventually pushes them past orgasm is the combination of those things in addition to a strong erection. Has nothing to do with your looks at all once you're at that point lol
Exactly
I do feel like a dimorphic face and your giga frame contributes a lot to the feeling of dominance, her seeing a guy with insane frame and facial dimorphism pound her turns her on and leads her to that point. But I get what you mean by her close to cumming and closing her eyes and shit.
You lucky bastard mine only kinda points up. Maybe it would be better if I had truly maxxed out eq from proper sleep but no way it’d be on your level. That theory doesn’t even need proving it’s a given that it gives a major advantage. Undeniable, but also rather unacknowledged. Wish there was more I could do about it.
She does hate being on top of me, I think it just looks weird, pretty sure the sight of a giant 24" bideltoid with abs and a tan does have some effect. Not nearly as important as your aggression in the moment tho
I'm kind of worried if I take this hanging and extender shit too far it will reduce my erection angle. I can afford some reduction but def don't want it to go down 20 degrees or something
Her arousal kind of happens before that point, so if you're a wide framed good looking guy, she's already going to be a turned on to a point where it's easy
How do you define aggression and dominance? You said you think a slower rhythm mogs the rougher, faster pounding that I tend to associate with aggression and dominance
yeah be careful there
Well said. All comes back to the forever brutal everything matters theory. For example trading an inch of frame for an inch of dick or vice versa could make things better or worse. All depends on the whole package of you as a man and what works for her as a girl
Context is important too. My girlfriend and ex used to a rush out of public sex. Sometimes it’s more about the moment than anything planned. “Planning” for sex is always underwhelmingExactly
Everything matters, try to max out as much as you can. Dick is kinda limited with your base and if you can be fucked to do it with stretches, extenders but bathmate seems reliable and easy as a sidemax to do for girth. Gymmax for body halo and get a wideish frame, and most importantly facemax. Can't really change height and no one will get that LL surgery
Indeed that’s a concern of mine that extra girth would improve piv but worsen the experience overall by making head impossible. I’d be happy with a girl just sucking the tip and double handing the shaft and being sloppy with it though. That shits amazing.
Aggression and dominance = doing what feels good for you and being aggressive about it. What feels good for me (and probably for majority of people) is slow tempo, then speed it up a bit, get her hornier with that, then slow down again, i.e. keeping your cool and not making it a workout. Then speed it up again, eventually she'll reach orgasm if everything else is good. And by aggression I also mean things like telling her what to do and not having any doubt in yourself. If you want to switch positions you just move her. If you want to stop and make her beg for more you do that. If you want to tell her to ask before she cums, make her hold off her orgasm etc. Ask her things like " who's fucking pussy is this who does it belong to" and calling her bitch dirty slut etc (if she's into being called that stuff obviously).
Indeed I’m fortunate that nearly all my features are in the 80-90th percentile range. Face, height, dick might be a bit higher. Frame is probably lower, especially my hands and wrists but from gym and low bf my body overall is easily 80th, maybe higher. I don’t get out much so I don’t know how I stack up there. But even with shit frame most guys are lazy so I can likely end up in the 90s for face, dick, body(overall), and my height is like 85th. Chadlite all things considered or maybe better idek.Everything matters, try to max out as much as you can. Dick is kinda limited with your base and if you can be fucked to do it with stretches, extenders but bathmate seems reliable and easy as a sidemax to do for girth. Gymmax for body halo and get a wideish frame, and most importantly facemax. Can't really change height and no one will get that LL surgery
Not really sure what I am nbp now, I lost 100+ pounds, back then I was like 7.5 nbp so I'm sure it's more now, I know my BP is like 8.2-8.3 now after the weight loss (probably EQ tbh)
My airways cuck my voice pretty badly so I don’t dirty talk. Plus high iq makes that shit weird for me. One girl always wanted me to call her a cumslut and shit like that and I wasn’t really into it ngl. On top of that remember that my sex drive is low. So that component is basically missing. There’s no real aggression in me. I get the pleasure of sex, and the validation, but there’s no driving force making me want to rip her clothes off or whatever. I think it also makes me get less sensation bc I’m less aroused so I resort to fucking fast and hard just trying to make it feel good for myself and get off. Just some boring shit like holding her down and pounding. I need the feeling that of true horny so I can enjoy more without forcing the sensation and be more present. Fix the voice too and then it’d be much more natural for me to dirty talk, connect, change positions, be dominant, etc instead of pinning her down and ravaging her like a human fleshlight and panting in her ear Jfl. Lots of ways I can improve, and yet again another handful of ways bad sleep is life ruining.
Damn dude so you were obese and had a smaller fat pad than me at almost single digit body fat. Clown world. Mirin. What do you think about how much dick you can actually use, bp vs nbp? If I got to 8 bp, even shredded I think I’d only be low 7s nbp.
If you know others I’d be curious.
my dick used to legit point straight up to from such hard erections. like I would have to pull it down just to get it parallel to the ground and their would be resistance. that was in high school. now I'm only 22 and nowhere near that. maybe I should get test levels checked and shit or maybe its normal
bloodflow matters a lot, cardiovascular performance is key, I have such shit erections and a shit erection angle because of being fat. I simply do not transport enough blood + the fat pad pushing it down.
Im skinny af and have always been an athlete till very recently so thats not my problem.
Without doing any pe? Brutal shit. Any idea if there’s a way to increase angle outside of improving eq? Idk if it has gotten worse but it was never all that good to begin with.
Yes for fucks sake do a lot of cardio. Get very fit cardiovascularly it makes such an insane difference
I genuinely believe girls can sense how horny you actually are. It shows in how you are acting tbh. They can tell 100% when you're just fucking rough because otherwise you'd lose sensation and lose your erection
no this was all natural. I actually remember looking up on google that I can't get my dick to go past parallel JFL
circulation issues as well, it's a whole combo, hard dick might be more important than even size once you are average deviations. The harder your dick the better the erection angle usually.
cope
hopefully cialus 20mg will bring me back to steel erection levels
Truth brother, I'm leaning out it's definitely better, but I need to lose even more BF. Circulation, bloodflow is so fucking important to dick.
Thoughts on what i said about the actual sensation of horny? Is there a zone where it Takes over and you get super fucking into it and shit? For me I can just lay in bed or make out and I don’t get overtaken by the mad desire.
the leaner you get the bigger your dick gets
without it being really uncomfortable***
There's a reason girls are attracted to lean non-bloates faces and bodies. It signals better cardiovascular health lower blood pressure etc so clearly better sex
Visually yes
Clown world indeed, my fat storage genetics are decent as hell, it's all just spread out evenly. It got to the point where I should've looked as fat as DJ Khaled or Jonah Hill or some shit but because it was all evenly placed I just looked mid-high chubby areas, especially with clothes. ngl I was considered pretty gl when fat too so I'm not going to pretend like I had some HUGE ascensionDamn dude so you were obese and had a smaller fat pad than me at almost single digit body fat. Clown world. Mirin. What do you think about how much dick you can actually use, bp vs nbp? If I got to 8 bp, even shredded I think I’d only be low 7s nbp.
Also what positions do you feel allow for you to use your length most freely? I’ve heard prone bone is good for long dicks since the ass and thighs give some cushion(which feels amazing too). Hoping this is accurate bc it gives me an excuse to do more of my favorite position
Prone bone is the fucking best. Hands on her wrists pinning her down, her ass against your hips, kiss on her neck or let her turn her head and make out, easy to pound her into the bed and feel her arch her back and push her body up against yours
yeah exactly, when your losing weight your dick isn't growing your "uncovering" your dick that used to be covered by fat
tldr bro
h didn’t see this. Fucking brutal. I wish I was hornyyyyyyy what kind of man am i
only the second half matters tbh
