IDK what to do with my relationship

[Deleted member 297038]

I know I am lucky enough to even be in a relationship with a girl and this post is probably gonna sound stupid but I just don’t think I like my girlfriend very much, and I often think of how better of a relationship I would have with other girls from my school and what not. For one my girlfriend has a lot of male friends mostly all older than her, and obviously in a higher grade than her. In my opinion that’s a red flag, and another thing is that a lot of her male friends clearly are into her or have a crush on her, yet she still decides to stay friends with them. And she hangs out with them like at the mall which is just so fucking crazy to me. It’s just the fact that she entertains these fuck niggas who are usually shorter than me (no offense to short men yk) and have worse facial features than me, I just don’t get it maybe she’s just attention hungry? I’m scared to break up with her cause I think she would kill herself perhaps. So maybe I can just wait it out until she grows tired of me or something. What do y’all think I should do?

 

[Frizbreeze]

she would not kill herself an foid is just manipulating you and gaslighting you into thinking that she has mental issues when in reality she just wants more attention, and because you're not fulfilling enough she's entertaining other guys to get even more attention what a fucking joke, break up immediately get someone loyal

 

[Deleted member 297038]

she would not kill herself an foid is just manipulating you and gaslighting you into thinking that she has mental issues when in reality she just wants more attention, and because you're not fulfilling enough she's entertaining other guys to get even more attention what a fucking joke, break up immediately get someone loyal

Man idk cause I’ll be painted as an asshole and then what if no girl wants to date me after that. Also my current circumstances in life are not in a good place I would say but thanks for the response

 

[Frizbreeze]

Man idk cause I’ll be painted as an asshole and then what if no girl wants to date me after that. Also my current circumstances in life are not in a good place I would say but thanks for the response

Just be honest about it; just have a genuine conversation with her about the friend thing and that you don't like it neither do you want your girlfriend to be like that typa person, if she can change good on her; if she wants to "make a compromise" then make it clear that it oversteps your boundaries, and then if you see her continuing just break up. Obviously don't tell anyone aside from her about this and don't make it public, after you guys break up (if you do) you can just tell people that she wasn't the type of girl that you wanted for a long term relationship.

 

[Deleted member 297038]

Just be honest about it; just have a genuine conversation with her about the friend thing and that you don't like it neither do you want your girlfriend to be like that typa person, if she can change good on her; if she wants to "make a compromise" then make it clear that it oversteps your boundaries, and then if you see her continuing just break up. Obviously don't tell anyone aside from her about this and don't make it public, after you guys break up (if you do) you can just tell people that she wasn't the type of girl that you wanted for a long term relationship.

Noted bro, I really hope I’m seeing it how it’s actually going down right now cause I don’t want to break up over me overthinking it but who knows maybe she wants me to think I’m overthinking lol