Idk why i havent said this yet but

[Suimaxxer]

make her lose weight and see

Thats my main plan

 

[Deleted member 29581]

For the past 3 weeks now ive been chatting with a foid, from the very first like 2-3 days we had great communication, we were both replying back super fast and we were flirting a lot. Now we talk like we are in a relationship (we call each other "my love/baby" etc, we send cute tiktoks to each other, we say stuff like "i wish i could hug u rn" or "i want u so bad" or "please dont ever leave me") and in general its going pretty good. She lives in a nearby city of mine but due to exam period we cant visit each other rn but she will come to my city next month (hopefully) cuz she wants to attend a live concert and we will meet there.

I feel like she puts more effort than i do, cuz sometimes i leave her on read and she gets a little mad at it because she has never done that to me, she texts me ALL the fucking time, and in general it looks like she has fallen in love with me.

But tbh i dont feel anything, i dont feel like i love her even though i tell her i do so, i dont feel like i want her, or that i want to see her or anything, im completely numb while she sounds really happy and excited when we call.

I dont even like her face and body(shes ltb and kinda fat but thankfully not too much) nor her personality, even though she seems to be sweet and kind. Shes very religious (which surprised me when she said it tbh), has been in 2 relationships in her life and is still virgin (shes 18). I dont even feel bad for lying to her about all that stuff im saying, and sometimes i project that carelessness towards her without realising and she says it hurts when i do so.

Is that normal? I dont think it is, i think blackpill, childhood trauma and my last heartbreak have caused this to happen to me. Might be depression, might be nothing at all, who knows

Perhaps. Anyway use it as a learning experience, you should never be actively engaging with women for long periods of time during the day, make your intentions clear, or at least slightly bead around the bush. And don’t do relationship things with a woman youre not in a relationship with. Maintain your masculine stature online and in person, also try to minimize contact with this woman until linking.

 

[Hess]

For the past 3 weeks now ive been chatting with a foid, from the very first like 2-3 days we had great communication, we were both replying back super fast and we were flirting a lot. Now we talk like we are in a relationship (we call each other "my love/baby" etc, we send cute tiktoks to each other, we say stuff like "i wish i could hug u rn" or "i want u so bad" or "please dont ever leave me") and in general its going pretty good. She lives in a nearby city of mine but due to exam period we cant visit each other rn but she will come to my city next month (hopefully) cuz she wants to attend a live concert and we will meet there.

I feel like she puts more effort than i do, cuz sometimes i leave her on read and she gets a little mad at it because she has never done that to me, she texts me ALL the fucking time, and in general it looks like she has fallen in love with me.

But tbh i dont feel anything, i dont feel like i love her even though i tell her i do so, i dont feel like i want her, or that i want to see her or anything, im completely numb while she sounds really happy and excited when we call.

I dont even like her face and body(shes ltb and kinda fat but thankfully not too much) nor her personality, even though she seems to be sweet and kind. Shes very religious (which surprised me when she said it tbh), has been in 2 relationships in her life and is still virgin (shes 18). I dont even feel bad for lying to her about all that stuff im saying, and sometimes i project that carelessness towards her without realising and she says it hurts when i do so.

Is that normal? I dont think it is, i think blackpill, childhood trauma and my last heartbreak have caused this to happen to me. Might be depression, might be nothing at all, who knows

Did you like her or feel this way in the beginning?

 

[Deleted member 13626]

This generation is brutal. It's probably abused dog syndrome relating to maybe loveless childhood , missing on teen love or smth like that? This cancer society ruined these generations and will keep on doing that until it collapses

Fuck social media , porn , dating apps, consumerism , clout/money chasing culture etc. Hopefully ww3 breaks out soon or a big change is on it's way

 

[Tryingtoascend]

Listen to me man, if you don't steer clear of this chick now that it's still early you'll find yourself in a very sticky situation that is going to hurt her wayyyyy more and trust me it's not gonna be easy or even possible for you to make the decision to end things then. It's for sure gonna be much more difficult than it is now. She obviously has some issues, all such clingy girls that rush to commitment and "love" so early do, last thing you should do is make those issues your problem. I understand liking the attention but trust me it won't be worth it in the long run. Make the hard decision now so you and her don't suffer later

 

[Suimaxxer]

Did you like her or feel this way in the beginning?

I dont rly like her, and i dont feel like i love her or that i want to be with her either

 

[Suimaxxer]

This generation is brutal. It's probably abused dog syndrome relating to maybe loveless childhood , missing on teen love or smth like that? This cancer society ruined these generations and will keep on doing that until it collapses

Fuck social media , porn , dating apps, consumerism , clout/money chasing culture etc. Hopefully ww3 breaks out soon or a big change is on it's way

Very real

 

[Suimaxxer]

Listen to me man, if you don't steer clear of this chick now that it's still early you'll find yourself in a very sticky situation that is going to hurt her wayyyyy more and trust me it's not gonna be easy or even possible for you to make the decision to end things then. It's for sure gonna be much more difficult than it is now. She obviously has some issues, all such clingy girls that rush to commitment and "love" so early do, last thing you should do is make those issues your problem. I understand liking the attention but trust me it won't be worth it in the long run. Make the hard decision now so you and her don't suffer later

I have already made it clear to her that probably nothing serious is going to happen between us, and that we say what we say just for the fuck of it, and she seemed to be ok with that when i told her

 

[Tryingtoascend]

I have already made it clear to her that probably nothing serious is going to happen between us, and that we say what we say just for the fuck of it, and she seemed to be ok with that when i told her

That would make sense but her "being afraid of losing you" doesn't support this idea though

 

[Suimaxxer]

That would make sense but her "being afraid of losing you" doesn't support this idea though

I guess she couldnt stay at the "we say what we say just for the fuck of it" part and she started getting seriously attached

 

[Deleted member 21735]

I dont even like her face and body

dude stop, this isnt good for u

 

[Suimaxxer]

dude stop, this isnt good for u

It wont affect me in any way dont worry

 

[Hess]

I dont rly like her, and i dont feel like i love her or that i want to be with her either

break it off, if you never liked her then its pointless continuing the relationship wont end well even if she becomes magically hotter or whatever you can not force a connection

 

[Suimaxxer]

break it off, if you never liked her then its pointless continuing the relationship wont end well even if she becomes magically hotter or whatever you can not force a connection

We're not in a relationship, we just act like we are

 

[Hess]

We're not in a relationship, we just act like we are

eh talking stage etc etc or whatever it is, if you dont enjoy it and dont like the girl break it off

 

[Suimaxxer]

eh talking stage etc etc or whatever it is, if you dont enjoy it and dont like the girl break it off

I like the attention

 

[Hess]

I like the attention

I can get that, just break it up when it gets too far

 

[Tryingtoascend]

I guess she couldnt stay at the "we say what we say just for the fuck of it" part and she started getting seriously attached

Yeah exactly... So my point stands... Break it before it gets out of hand

 

[Suimaxxer]

Yeah exactly... So my point stands... Break it before it gets out of hand

It wont get out of hand, hopefully

 

[Lefty Rankin]

For the past 3 weeks now ive been chatting with a foid, from the very first like 2-3 days we had great communication, we were both replying back super fast and we were flirting a lot. Now we talk like we are in a relationship (we call each other "my love/baby" etc, we send cute tiktoks to each other, we say stuff like "i wish i could hug u rn" or "i want u so bad" or "please dont ever leave me") and in general its going pretty good. She lives in a nearby city of mine but due to exam period we cant visit each other rn but she will come to my city next month (hopefully) cuz she wants to attend a live concert and we will meet there.

I feel like she puts more effort than i do, cuz sometimes i leave her on read and she gets a little mad at it because she has never done that to me, she texts me ALL the fucking time, and in general it looks like she has fallen in love with me.

But tbh i dont feel anything, i dont feel like i love her even though i tell her i do so, i dont feel like i want her, or that i want to see her or anything, im completely numb while she sounds really happy and excited when we call.

I dont even like her face and body(shes ltb and kinda fat but thankfully not too much) nor her personality, even though she seems to be sweet and kind. Shes very religious (which surprised me when she said it tbh), has been in 2 relationships in her life and is still virgin (shes 18). I dont even feel bad for lying to her about all that stuff im saying, and sometimes i project that carelessness towards her without realising and she says it hurts when i do so.

Is that normal? I dont think it is, i think blackpill, childhood trauma and my last heartbreak have caused this to happen to me. Might be depression, might be nothing at all, who knows

Dude, something is wrong with you. Whatever you got going on it's not that deep.

 

[Suimaxxer]

Dude, something is wrong with you. Whatever you got going on it's not that deep.

Its just difficult for me to connect with others on an emotional level

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Its just difficult for me to connect with others on an emotional level

Me too. But it's never bothered me.

 

[Deleted member 26633]

Shes very religious
has been in 2 relationships in her life and is still virgin

whos gonna tell him

 

[wollet2]

For the past 3 weeks now ive been chatting with a foid, from the very first like 2-3 days we had great communication, we were both replying back super fast and we were flirting a lot. Now we talk like we are in a relationship (we call each other "my love/baby" etc, we send cute tiktoks to each other, we say stuff like "i wish i could hug u rn" or "i want u so bad" or "please dont ever leave me") and in general its going pretty good. She lives in a nearby city of mine but due to exam period we cant visit each other rn but she will come to my city next month (hopefully) cuz she wants to attend a live concert and we will meet there.

I feel like she puts more effort than i do, cuz sometimes i leave her on read and she gets a little mad at it because she has never done that to me, she texts me ALL the fucking time, and in general it looks like she has fallen in love with me.

But tbh i dont feel anything, i dont feel like i love her even though i tell her i do so, i dont feel like i want her, or that i want to see her or anything, im completely numb while she sounds really happy and excited when we call.

I dont even like her face and body(shes ltb and kinda fat but thankfully not too much) nor her personality, even though she seems to be sweet and kind. Shes very religious (which surprised me when she said it tbh), has been in 2 relationships in her life and is still virgin (shes 18). I dont even feel bad for lying to her about all that stuff im saying, and sometimes i project that carelessness towards her without realising and she says it hurts when i do so.

Is that normal? I dont think it is, i think blackpill, childhood trauma and my last heartbreak have caused this to happen to me. Might be depression, might be nothing at all, who knows

no no dude dont start this shit

it looks like youre just not attracted to her and she was the only one that shown u interest. if you dont have experience with girls this is what happens. you need abundance so you can find one that ure attracted to physically and like her personality. 99% of guys dont have that

 

[wollet2]

make her lose weight and see

op doesnt like her appearance or her personality. its better to just let the girl and find someone else. its not fair misleading her like this

 

[Suimaxxer]

whos gonna tell him
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Shes from a small town and her parents are very strict

 

[Suimaxxer]

no no dude dont start this shit

it looks like youre just not attracted to her and she was the only one that shown u interest. if you dont have experience with girls this is what happens. you need abundance so you can find one that ure attracted to physically and like her personality. 99% of guys dont have that

I have very little experience with girls but i sure know when im attracted to one, i can tell very easily

 

[wollet2]

I have very little experience with girls but i sure know when im attracted to one, i can tell very easily

i mean you are attached to her because of your no experience. you said youre not attracted to her urself so its simple what u have to do

 

[Deleted member 23391]

how did you meet her?

 

[Deleted member 23391]

based on you not liking her looks, personality, basically “meh” on every aspect of her, you’re just not compatible and that’s fine. it could be lack of biological compatibility, personal differences, or maybe trauma. either way i’ve been in that situation and the longer it lasts, the more you’re stuck. again, some people are just not meant for you and thats fine.

Trust your gut. I personally would move on or just talk to other foids on the side if I at least enjoyed talking to her. Not like you’re actually in a relationship.

Hard disagree on this. Just fuck her. She doesn't have to be your soul mate. See some live music, dance, have a good time, have sex.

 

[Suimaxxer]

how did you meet her?

Mass adding foids on Snapchat

 

[Deleted member 22918]

U might not be attached and for u it's just sex

But if u guys fuck u might have her even more attached and clingy, and just know that there are some crazy girls out there