Idk why people act like getting a gf is easy but slaying is hard

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Slaying is easy u just call them over and fuck

Getting a gf is so hard

You have to actually put up with a female for many many hours

All day every day, texting, calling, meeting multiple times per week

Overlook her flaws

Overlook the things she does that piss u the fuck off

U both have to like wachother a lot and be happy to be seen in public with eafhither

Urgh so many factors and a lot of pain and dealing with bullshit.

I guess u just gotta find the ones that are thoughtful and fun to hang with and beautiful

Hard combination to find
 
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Yea. Its over
 
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Slaying is easy u just call them over and fuck

Getting a gf is so hard

You have to actually put up with a female for many many hours

All day every day, texting, calling, meeting multiple times per week

Overlook her flaws

Overlook the things she does that piss u the fuck off

U both have to like wachother a lot and be happy to be seen in public with eafhither

Urgh so many factors and a lot of pain and dealing with bullshit.

I guess u just gotta find the ones that are thoughtful and fun to hang with and beautiful

Hard combination to find
You have it arse backwards. LTRs are easy and slaying is hard.
 
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Slaying is easy u just call them over and fuck

Getting a gf is so hard

You have to actually put up with a female for many many hours

All day every day, texting, calling, meeting multiple times per week

Overlook her flaws

Overlook the things she does that piss u the fuck off

U both have to like wachother a lot and be happy to be seen in public with eafhither

Urgh so many factors and a lot of pain and dealing with bullshit.

I guess u just gotta find the ones that are thoughtful and fun to hang with and beautiful

Hard combination to find
maybe you are just a faggot who cant talk to women JFLL :soy:
 
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this is the most incel shit ive ever read
 
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Depends entirely on how neurotypical you are. I'd bet that for 99% of NT's it is vastly more easy to get a gf than to slay a similar looking girl.

I can pretend to be NT and low-inhib for a night, I can't keep it up for more than a couple days tho, no way.

I'm autistic and have ADHD. Without meds I am genuinely just annoying as fuck, ngl. The only reason I can hold on to my gf is she acts autistic too, tho not diagnosed.
 
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Depends entirely on how neurotypical you are. I'd bet that for 99% of NT's it is vastly more easy to get a gf than to slay a similar looking girl.

I can pretend to be NT and low-inhib for a night, I can't keep it up for more than a couple days tho, no way.

I'm autistic and have ADHD. Without meds I am genuinely just annoying as fuck, ngl. The only reason I can hold on to my gf is she acts autistic too, tho not diagnosed.
Same. Especially for me in UK where NT = law. I have options here but I'm simply too ND. Those days are way over for me. Seamaxxing has given me a much better life.
 
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Same. Especially for me in UK where NT = law. I have options here but I'm simply too ND. Those days are way over for me. Seamaxxing has given me a much better life.
Are you staying permanently in SEA?

I enjoyed it there, it gave me confidence that I was able to take back to Denmark which has honestly changed my life to a similar degree as going from obese -> normal, but I would not want to stay there permanently.

Also, in retrospect after getting over my social anxiety and actually trying to slay in Denmark, I found it as hard in SEA to find a girl as good looking as I could in Denmark. It's almost the same effort, except now you live in a shithole too imo. Then again I never had a preference for asian girls.
 
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Depends entirely on how neurotypical you are. I'd bet that for 99% of NT's it is vastly more easy to get a gf than to slay a similar looking girl.

I can pretend to be NT and low-inhib for a night, I can't keep it up for more than a couple days tho, no way.

I'm autistic and have ADHD. Without meds I am genuinely just annoying as fuck, ngl. The only reason I can hold on to my gf is she acts autistic too, tho not diagnosed.
How the fuck do you have gf as autist?

I agree with OP’s thread. Anyone can slay even ugly unlikeable retards can slay lots of low tier skanks, LTR is the hard part, any guy can get hookups but to maintain an ltr you need to fit many requirements
 
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Same. Especially for me in UK where NT = law. I have options here but I'm simply too ND. Those days are way over for me. Seamaxxing has given me a much better life.
NT is indeed law in the uk, im a ukcel and girls here fuck absolute trash, there’s no such thing as too ugly to have sex here, only too much of a rotter which is me sadly
 
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In order to get a girlfriend, you would need to build a real connection with a girl. People cope by acting like slaying is harder because they know they'll never be able to make a real connection with a woman jfl they fuck modern day prostitutes and get their own ego boosted.
 
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How the fuck do you have gf as autist?

I agree with OP’s thread. Anyone can slay even ugly unlikeable retards can slay lots of low tier skanks, LTR is the hard part, any guy can get hookups but to maintain an ltr you need to fit many requirements
I can't even slay but got in a relationship before :feelswhy:
 
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In order to get a girlfriend, you would need to build a real connection with a girl. People cope by acting like slaying is harder because they know they'll never be able to make a real connection with a woman jfl they fuck modern day prostitutes and get their own ego boosted.
How do you make a real connection with a woman?
 
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Who tf says slaying is harder tho jfl. Even normies usually say otherwise
 
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Depends entirely on how neurotypical you are. I'd bet that for 99% of NT's it is vastly more easy to get a gf than to slay a similar looking girl.

I can pretend to be NT and low-inhib for a night, I can't keep it up for more than a couple days tho, no way.

I'm autistic and have ADHD. Without meds I am genuinely just annoying as fuck, ngl. The only reason I can hold on to my gf is she acts autistic too, tho not diagnosed.
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In order to get a girlfriend, you would need to build a real connection with a girl. People cope by acting like slaying is harder because they know they'll never be able to make a real connection with a woman jfl they fuck modern day prostitutes and get their own ego boosted.
how o thedy cope when they admit their inability to make a connection as you say you brainrotten illiterate fucktard tiktokcel never write again go watch some reels more ure like a npc that puts modern words together
 
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Are you staying permanently in SEA?

I enjoyed it there, it gave me confidence that I was able to take back to Denmark which has honestly changed my life to a similar degree as going from obese -> normal, but I would not want to stay there permanently.

Also, in retrospect after getting over my social anxiety and actually trying to slay in Denmark, I found it as hard in SEA to find a girl as good looking as I could in Denmark. It's almost the same effort, except now you live in a shithole too imo. Then again I never had a preference for asian girls.
I was in sea semi permanently from 2021 to the beginning of this year. I'm glad I got to experience Thailand while it was still covid, before it got really busy. Now it's more expensive and girls more spoiled.

Quality of life is still way better than uk for me.

Yeah it does so much good for your confidence. For me just doing normal things like having a gf and eating out together etc massively improves my mental health.

But you're right finding a quality ltr does still take alot of effort. Especially now. I'll be going back to Bkk, Philippines, and HK after summer though.
 
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you shouldn’t be with a girl in the first place if you find her annoying, if you love someone properly you won’t care about their flaws that deeply
to incels getting a gf is just a achievement (that nobody cares abt tho since its such a basic aspect of the human experience)
 
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If a woman wants to hookup, she’s only going to be considering the best looking men who match with her because they are the most likely to make her orgasm and their personality doesn’t matter.

Getting a gf is a lot more feasible if you aren’t chad. Some women who want a bf realise that chad will never commit to them so they go for men closer to their looksmatch. But unfortunately, there are a lot of delusional mid women looking for a bf who are chadsexual.
 
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how o thedy cope when they admit their inability to make a connection as you say you brainrotten illiterate fucktard tiktokcel never write again go watch some reels more ure like a npc that puts modern words together
Are you genuinely special needs? I assure you my reply was not that hard to comprehend lol

OP's post refers to people comparing slaying and getting a gf, and saying that slaying is harder (which it isn't).

All i did was explain that the only reason people say slaying is harder is because that's all they're capable of doing (coping). If getting a gf (be it, they meet your standards/requirements) was easier, everyone would prefer that over slaying.

If you are actually autistic/mentally ill I understand but that was one of the most lowiq replies i've ever gotten JFL
 
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If a woman wants to hookup, she’s only going to be considering the best looking men who match with her because they are the most likely to make her orgasm and their personality doesn’t matter.

Getting a gf is a lot more feasible if you aren’t chad. Some women who want a bf realise that chad will never commit to them so they go for men closer to their looksmatch. But unfortunately, there are a lot of delusional mid women looking for a bf who are chadsexual.
Higher chance of an LTN slaying some random whore at a club than a woman staying loyal to an LTN tbf.
 
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How do you make a real connection with a woman?
Depends on the woman tbh, but being attractive enough (to meet her standards) and being NT opens the door for you to pursue her further.

From there, sharing experiences together, going out on dates, etc. will help develop an emotional bond

The problem nowadays, usually arises from foids having unrealistic standards or being unfaithful, so getting a girlfriend becomes significantly harder
 
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Ironic

Are you genuinely special needs? I assure you my reply was not that hard to comprehend lol

OP's post refers to people comparing slaying and getting a gf, and saying that slaying is harder (which it isn't).

All i did was explain that the only reason people say slaying is harder is because that's all they're capable of doing (coping). If getting a gf (be it, they meet your standards/requirements) was easier, everyone would prefer that over slaying.

If you are actually autistic/mentally ill I understand but that was one of the most lowiq replies i've ever gotten JFL
iliterate retard dont write ever again
People cope by acting like slaying is harder because they know they'll never be able to make a real connection with a woman
so dumb u dont even know what u write
 
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All day every day, texting, calling, meeting multiple times per week
It's really not that hard
Overlook her flaws
Overlook the things she does that piss u the fuck off
Why would anyone that's not a full stonecold incel go for a girl that has noticeable flaws and is annoying
U both have to like wachother a lot and be happy to be seen in public with eafhither
Urgh so many factors and a lot of pain and dealing with bullshit.
Not really that deep
 
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Why would anyone that's not a full stonecold incel go for a girl that has noticeable flaws and is annoying
80% of men are stonecold incels
 
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Higher chance of an LTN slaying some random whore at a club than a woman staying loyal to an LTN tbf.
Yea this guy is just detached from reality
 
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Higher chance of an LTN slaying some random whore at a club than a woman staying loyal to an LTN tbf.
LTNs don’t have friends to go to the club with. And you won’t get any success in the club unless you’re with a pack of men.
 

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