If a woman REALLY likes you

[White_Bwoi]

she WILL eventually talk too much, on the brink of being insufferable,
lowkey qualifying herself to you...

When you're on the first date and you're the talker & she's just responsive without the constant need to add something, it's not gonna fly tbh

My most successful dates were the ones that I needed to kiss a girl to basically make her shut the fuck up,
others, when I was the MUH "high iq" one went nowhere.

That's the 100% foolproof detector of the real deal, cheers

 

[Former Shortcel]

Its always extremely obvious when a girl is interested in you
They may not directly tell a guy that they are interested in him, but users on here cope too much with certain iois

 

[White_Bwoi]

Its always extremely obvious when a girl is interested in you
They may not directly tell a guy that they are interested in him, but users on here cope too much with certain iois

YEah, but sometimes we're so blind & cope with muh friendship & stuff that we're confused not to "overstep"... I just know this one by trial and error

 

[Former Shortcel]

YEah, but sometimes we're so blind & cope with muh friendship & stuff that we're confused not to "overstep"... I just know this one by trial and error

Aha yeah thats happened to me a couple of times too, thinking it was just a friendship situation and then realising later + with the secondary opinions of friends that they were actually interested in me

 

[White_Bwoi]

This law also help to filter the "settling ones" from the "desire"

 

[White_Bwoi]

Aha yeah thats happened to me a couple of times too, thinking it was just a friendship situation and then realising later + with the secondary opinions of friends that they were actually interested in me

Been there done that, what a shame - fortunately I was not "that" interested in them. Many 'foids' are ofcourse shy & timid but the TALKING is real, because they open up even on chat, they tell you that you make them feel safe space & shit, one 50 something woman I work with told me the recently that "you must listen to her bullshit, and then she falls in love" or something like that, kind TRUE I guess it seems, but she needs to fell attracted to spam all this emotions & chaotic thoughts at you, and when it happens it's a wrap

 

[White_Bwoi]

I was in LTR with a girl that I was like the "STAR" of relationship & talked more than her for YEARs, guess what, that was not the most sexual / frantic relationship in the world, on the other hand girl who talked too much recently was afraid to look me in the eye, she was that attracted, so yeah...

 

[White_Bwoi]

goldmine thread, Indian janitors will not read this

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Nervousness or being more reserved on a first date isn't a bad sign but forcing constant qualification talk can be anxiety or insecurity. It generally shows up reciprocity, not who dominates the conversation.

 

[Tenres]

YEah, but sometimes we're so blind & cope with muh friendship & stuff that we're confused not to "overstep"... I just know this one by trial and error

Aha yeah thats happened to me a couple of times too, thinking it was just a friendship situation and then realising later + with the secondary opinions of friends that they were actually interested in me

Happened to me as well but she was gookette so it's not too big of a deal

 

[Tenres]

Nervousness or being more reserved on a first date isn't a bad sign but forcing constant qualification talk can be anxiety or insecurity. It generally shows up reciprocity, not who dominates the conversation.

Explain

 

[markye67]

If your already on a date she likes u

 

[White_Bwoi]

If your already on a date she likes u

Not my experience from online_dating, you know mang! But otherwise yeah

 

[markye67]

Not my experience from online_dating, you know mang! But otherwise yeah

Nigga said online dating

 

[White_Bwoi]

Nervousness or being more reserved on a first date isn't a bad sign but forcing constant qualification talk can be anxiety or insecurity. It generally shows up reciprocity, not who dominates the conversation.

Yeah it's not a bad sign! Either that, or talk way too much in my experience
Middle ground is minefield tho

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Explain

It's not that reserved = disinterest. A lot of women especially college aged ones get nervous on first dates and listen more smiling, asking questions, leaning in that's still strong reciprocity and engagement.


Qualifying herself nonstop and talking over is often anxiety not pure attraction. Real chemistry shows in the vibes and flow not volume

 

[White_Bwoi]

Nigga said online dating

UNC reporting in, OLD sorry for confusion nigga

 

[White_Bwoi]

It's not that reserved = disinterest. A lot of women especially college aged ones get nervous on first dates and listen more smiling, asking questions, leaning in that's still strong reciprocity and engagement.


Qualifying herself nonstop and talking over is often anxiety not pure attraction. Real chemistry shows in the vibes and flow not volume

Flow yeah, but Im too old to not see the 100% hitrate when they show real interest & go to their "feminine" side & spout random topics - especially deep stuff about family / her life in general

 

[White_Bwoi]

& it's not that "WATER" for fellow "ND's"

 

[White_Bwoi]

I should clarify - I talk about highly educated HQNP, not some MUTE chick that has nothing to say, I try to only connect with those
(MILFS for you younglings out there I guess)

 

[silently_said]

Women make it very easy to tell that they are into you niggas out here asking if a fast food worker giving you a few extra ketchup packets counts as an IOI