If girls constantly ask you if you have a girlfriend/ are taken/ are speaking to anyone. Is it an ioi?

[Olympus]

At my new workplace 9/10 times someone asks me if I’m taken or have a girlfriend. Just wondering if anyone thinks it’s an indicator of interest ?

 

[trench]

it obviously is

 

[duhz]

sometimes its just geuniue curiosity ive thought the same aswell turns out im just schizo

 

[pxe]

Yea but it can also be bullying if you are visibly weird and autistic

 

[Niebvll]

No

 

[Deleted member 301467]

At my new workplace 9/10 times someone asks me if I’m taken or have a girlfriend. Just wondering if anyone thinks it’s an indicator of interest ?

Always say yes too, women love ruining relationships

 

[shandingo]

At my new workplace 9/10 times someone asks me if I’m taken or have a girlfriend. Just wondering if anyone thinks it’s an indicator of interest ?

No not really , everyone loves gossip and some entertaining convo to make the work day go faster . Relationship talk is usually interesting and non-risky unlike religion and politics.

 

[Olympus]

Always say yes too, women love ruining relationships

Shit, I never thought about this.
Will say yes next time.

 

[Olympus]

No not really , everyone loves gossip and some entertaining convo to make the work day go faster . Relationship talk is usually interesting and non-risky unlike religion and politics.

Hm you’re probably right. I’m just grasping at straws probs.
But I always thought they also wouldn’t be asking for no reason?

 

[fazehamster]

Yea but it can also be bullying if you are visibly weird and autistic

yes especially when boys ask you if you’ve ever kissed anyone around girls knowing it will make the girls laugh

 

[romanstock]

Nobody ever asked me that.

 

[shandingo]

Hm you’re probably right. I’m just grasping at straws probs.
But I always thought they also wouldn’t be asking for no reason?

Nah office romance is risky for all sides, especially if you’ve just joined. They are just making convo imo. If you aren’t sure she likes you , then she probably doesn’t , is my rule of thumb.

 

[OldRooster]

Probably. But it is also possible she is a nosy psycho bitch that derives pleasure from the misfortune of incels. Your assessment of her and yourself would provide you an answer.

 

[Hess]

Can be just curiosity but if it just a random question that happens out of nowhere then yeah its an IOI

 

[Olympus]

Can be just curiosity but if it just a random question that happens out of nowhere then yeah its an IOI

It was random tbh, she just asked me out of the blue, we were having a general conversion before but in no way did either of us mention relationships etc..

Probably. But it is also possible she is a nosy psycho bitch that derives pleasure from the misfortune of incels. Your assessment of her and yourself would provide you an answer.

Agreed.

Nah office romance is risky for all sides, especially if you’ve just joined. They are just making convo imo. If you aren’t sure she likes you , then she probably doesn’t , is my rule of thumb.

I dont work in office, in fact I work with people my age (19 20 21 etc) and tbh, the job enviroment is very gossipy, everyone knows everything. So...

 

[shandingo]

It was random tbh, she just asked me out of the blue, we were having a general conversion before but in no way did either of us mention relationships etc..

Agreed.

I dont work in office, in fact I work with people my age (19 20 21 etc) and tbh, the job enviroment is very gossipy, everyone knows everything. So...

Yeah I use “office” not literally, just to refer to any work environment. If you don’t plan on staying long , then why not tbf ?