If girls don’t message first you’ll just be used for attention most likely

[Deleted member 23114]

On tinder it’s a myth girls don’t message first.

So when you match with a girl and she doesn’t message you within 5 days it’s usually a sign you’re just there to boost her ego.

Girls are the sexual selectors on tinder. People legit forget this. If she wants you, she will message you as she knows you’ll most likely be down.

Remember, if you’re opening to a girl you’ll be way down the list if the guys she went out of her way to message first.


You’ll most likely have to clown for her etc. where as the guys she messaged first will have it easy.

 

[Deleted member 23114]

Basically on tinder you have to let women message you first as women go for what they want.

If you don’t message her first you’ll just most likely be used as an ego boost for her

 

[Copeful]

just mog all 10k of her matches for her to message you first bro
just JFL at this retarded app

 

[Deleted member 23114]

just mog all 10k of her matches for her to message you first bro
just JFL at this retarded app

Yes Bhai that girl with 10k likes messaged me and one other guy first.

She told me used all the others for validation and attention. She legit showed me her chats of her just replying with no intention of ever meeting mainly she said she did as she was bored.

 

[Deleted member 21182]

No yea the only girls I take seriously on tinder are the ones who open

Basically if a girl opens u it’s 50% easier than with a girl u have to open

If a girl opens u it means out of her 100 matches u caught her attention so much she was interested to initiate conversation even knowing she’ll get 10 guys saying hi to her every minute

So these girls are always worth it

 

[Deleted member 23114]

just mog all 10k of her matches for her to message you first bro
just JFL at this retarded app

a lot of my slays have been when they messaged first. The last two were when she messaged me first.

Some were when I messaged first but in these cases the girls were always giga interested and messaging really fast

 

[Deleted member 21182]

just mog all 10k of her matches for her to message you first bro
just JFL at this retarded app

Doesn’t really work like that women have types even if looks are still very objective there’s a lot of room for subjectivity

Even I got messaged first on tinder at that point anyone will

 

[Copeful]

Yes Bhai that girl with 10k likes messaged me and one other guy first.

She told me used all the others for validation and attention. She legit showed me her chats of her just replying with no intention of ever meeting mainly she said she did as she was bored.

i’ve only been msged first a few times but they just say heyyy or some shit and idk how to continue the convo so it dies out

 

[Deleted member 23114]

I have skated girls messaging them first but it’s rare, like 99% will just ghost you. It’s better to just wait for them to message you first that way you avoid ruining your ego and being used for attention

 

[Deleted member 23114]

i’ve only been msged first a few times but they just say heyyy or some shit and idk how to continue the convo so it dies out

Just keep the same energy with her. If it dies out it has nothing to do with what you said.

If she wants to meet and fuck you, you will meet and fuck her unless you say something insanely weird.

 

[Copeful]

Just keep the same energy with her. If it dies out it has nothing to do with what you said.

If she wants to meet and fuck you, you will meet and fuck her unless you say something insanely weird.

yeah facts
analyzing muh text game is autistic and a huge waste of time
can’t believe some people actually think that works
i think i should just focus IRL tbh i’m getting matches now which must mean i’m at least normie and can pull irl

 

[Deleted member 23114]

Just replied to this foid who messaged me.

You’ve got to keep the same energy. If you start clowning for her you’ll become low value acting like you dgaf is the best way as A) if she’s interested she’ll become more interested and

B) if she isn’t actually that interested she won’t continue the convo and was probably just messaging for free validation.

 

[Deleted member 23114]

yeah facts
analyzing muh text game is autistic and a huge waste of time
can’t believe some people actually think that works
i think i should just focus IRL tbh i’m getting matches now which must mean i’m at least normie and can pull irl

Basically, just don’t come across as low value that’s it. Never text like she is above you. Or she’ll never fuck you.

Just act like she is just another number to you and you’re not bothered if you smash or not

 

[HumidVent]

Yeah a lot of the reddit bluebpill betabux type men have no idea how often women approach and initiate with men.

 

[Deleted member 23114]

Prime example just opened my tinder to this:

Just put a shitty opener so I matched her effort and guess what? She just leaves a like.

Doing replies like this reveals a girls true motivations.

If I had clowned for her she would’ve replied but wouldn’t have been that interested and I would’ve learnt that later the hard way.

 

[Deleted member 23114]

Prime example just opened my tinder to this:

View attachment 2555599

Just put a shitty opener so I matched her effort and guess what? She just leaves a like.

Doing replies like this reveals a girls true motivations.

If I had clowned for her she would’ve replied but wouldn’t have been that interested and I would’ve learnt that later the hard way.

@copefuel perfect example

 

[Copeful]

@copefuel perfect example

who tf you tagging nigga
copefuel
if i didn’t check this thread again i never would have known you mentioned me

 

[Deleted member 23114]

Prime example just opened my tinder to this:

View attachment 2555599

Just put a shitty opener so I matched her effort and guess what? She just leaves a like.

Doing replies like this reveals a girls true motivations.

If I had clowned for her she would’ve replied but wouldn’t have been that interested and I would’ve learnt that later the hard way.

@Sprinkles exact example is this

 

[Deleted member 23114]

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who tf you tagging nigga
copefuel
if i didn’t check this thread again i never would have known you mentioned me

My bad I meant to tag you jfl

 

[Deleted member 43058]

OVA FOR Me

 

[Deleted member 23114]

OVA FOR Me

How so?

 

[Copeful]

Prime example just opened my tinder to this:

View attachment 2555599

Just put a shitty opener so I matched her effort and guess what? She just leaves a like.

Doing replies like this reveals a girls true motivations.

If I had clowned for her she would’ve replied but wouldn’t have been that interested and I would’ve learnt that later the hard way.

high iq
your basically just shit testing her to see if she’s actually interested or not
but imo this only works if you mog her by quite a bit and she’s desperate for your dick
otherwise she’ll move onto some other chad who also jesters for her

 

[incelmogger]

so is messaging them first never worth?

 

[Deleted member 23114]

so is messaging them first never worth?

No Bhai rarely. Just think about it. If she doesn’t message you first she’s probably not even bothered by you. Make it worse that she’ll be bombarded by hundreds of messages and your odds of fucking her are so slim it’s not worth it.

Add on all this the guys she messaged first will take priority then you’re fucked

 

[Deleted member 23114]

No Bhai rarely. Just think about it. If she doesn’t message you first she’s probably not even bothered by you. Make it worse that she’ll be bombarded by hundreds of messages and your odds of fucking her are so slim it’s not worth it.

Add on all this the guys she messaged first will take priority then you’re fucked

Matches are an illusion and not a true representative of how much you can fuck

 

[Deleted member 43058]

How so?

Girls match with me, BUT never message first

 

[Deleted member 23114]

otherwise she’ll move onto some other chad who also jesters for her

This is the point though. She has so many options on tinder like legit thousands that if she is not very interested she will most likely flake for someone she is.

 

[einzigartig]

On tinder it’s a myth girls don’t message first.

So when you match with a girl and she doesn’t message you within 5 days it’s usually a sign you’re just there to boost her ego.

Girls are the sexual selectors on tinder. People legit forget this. If she wants you, she will message you as she knows you’ll most likely be down.

Remember, if you’re opening to a girl you’ll be way down the list if the guys she went out of her way to message first.


You’ll most likely have to clown for her etc. where as the guys she messaged first will have it easy.

and you know that cause?

 

[Deleted member 23114]

Girls match with me, BUT never message first

Yes same girls rarely go out of their way to message first but when they really like a guy they will.

 

[Deleted member 23114]

and you know that cause?

Are you retarded?

 

[autistic_tendencies]

No Bhai rarely. Just think about it. If she doesn’t message you first she’s probably not even bothered by you. Make it worse that she’ll be bombarded by hundreds of messages and your odds of fucking her are so slim it’s not worth it.

Add on all this the guys she messaged first will take priority then you’re fucked

Passiveness is a female cuck trait
Males gotta be hungry for that pussy
Hahahahajaja

 

[einzigartig]

Are you retarded?

you are the retarded one if not getting that im joking bro

 

[Deleted member 23114]

you are the retarded one if not getting that im joking bro

Over for my autism

 

[Copeful]

Passiveness is a female cuck trait
Males gotta be hungry for that pussy
Hahahahajaja

this nigga just adds hahjaahhahjahahah after every comment

 

[Deleted member 23114]

you are the retarded one if not getting that im joking bro

Bruh I’m laughing so hard how I didn’t realise that was a joke jfl my autism is too much…

 

[Deleted member 23114]

this nigga just adds hahjaahhahjahahah after every comment

Hahahahah

 

[Deleted member 19325]

what about the ones i messaged first a few times and the ones that responded added me on snap and still snap me to this day?

 

[einzigartig]

Bruh I’m laughing so hard how I didn’t realise that was a joke jfl my autism is too much…

nah i understand ngl getting a joke through text is harder plus u know we all are a bit retarded u can't know who is joking

 

[autistic_tendencies]

what about the ones i messaged first a few times and the ones that responded added me on snap and still snap me to this day?

He’s trying to kill the competition
Garbage advice
HahahHabah

 

[Deleted member 23114]

what about the ones i messaged first a few times and the ones that responded added me on snap and still snap me to this day?

Yes so what I’ve skated girls off messaging them first you misunderstood what I said tbh. It’s more a cost/reward ratio when analysed makes it worthless to message first

 

[lilxder2]

Yes Bhai that girl with 10k likes messaged me and one other guy first.

She told me used all the others for validation and attention. She legit showed me her chats of her just replying with no intention of ever meeting mainly she said she did as she was bored.

Nigga how what looksmaxxing did you do I dont undeestand

 

[Deleted member 19325]

Yes so what I’ve skated girls off messaging them first you misunderstood what I said tbh. It’s more a cost/reward ratio when analysed makes it worthless to message first

Ohh , then yes i see .

In my opinion i think the best option is just kill the inhibition and message them anyway , but depending on how they respond within the first message should tell you everything

This is how i filter out medium to low intrests girls or you can ask her to come over asap

 

[Graham]

Summary of my life.

Matches are a cope, as most of my matches don't message or lose interest really fast (and this is on Bumble where women tend to be more invested in conversations).

I'm in the middle of nowhere and decided to swipe through guys to see my competition.

Sure, the majority were sub 5, but I saw a Chadlite, HTN (foreign, can't remember where but central European I think), and a Chad, all within 3 minutes of swiping. This is outside of any major city or town.

 

[MongolTurk]

This is serving as cope for my lack of initiative with my oneitis

 

[autistic_tendencies]

If men relied on women messaging first there would be a population collapse
Hahahahahah

 

[bluk]

Prime example just opened my tinder to this:

View attachment 2555599

Just put a shitty opener so I matched her effort and guess what? She just leaves a like.

Doing replies like this reveals a girls true motivations.

If I had clowned for her she would’ve replied but wouldn’t have been that interested and I would’ve learnt that later the hard way.

Any more pics of this sloot? She looks kinda cute ngl.

 

[bluk]

Prime example just opened my tinder to this:

View attachment 2555599

Just put a shitty opener so I matched her effort and guess what? She just leaves a like.

Doing replies like this reveals a girls true motivations.

If I had clowned for her she would’ve replied but wouldn’t have been that interested and I would’ve learnt that later the hard way.

Also what’s your bio jfl