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When i look back at my life now, in my earliest stages of my own childhood, The kids around my block did tease me about my hairline, but you can guess how long that wil stay funny for. Being skinny as well but not that many noticed since i was always the tall kid (bigger frame)
If i had a normal hairline, people would have had no reason to do that. So that negates that.
Now, about my friendships, people wouldn't want to be friends with me either because;
1. Due to my adhd, i get bored easily of anything and everything, i could get bored mid-conversation with someone, and start focusing on something else
I keep mentioning my adhd, i can understand that this can get annoying, so i will get to the gist of it. Adhd is a neurological disorder which involves but is not limited to a dopamine sensitivity deficiency in the brain. I.e. my brain doesn't receive as much feel-good chemicals from normal activities, what can this affect you may ask? Motivation to do things, hang out with people, rejection sensitivity (taking things personally
TL;DR: People with Adhd have advanced boredom
2. Adhd comes with rejection sensitivity, which is not limited to but includes the wonderful things such as
• Taking things personally due to RS
• Anxiety which comes from RS
• Awkwardness which comes from RS because you are careful with everything and anything you do due to RS, which ultimately leads you to SEEING social situations as draining and not worth the EFFORT.
3. ALL OF THESE, make you an easy target for bullying, i mean just think about it, an awkward and anxious ugly kid who doesn't talk much, literal incel factory,
If i wasn't the tall kid i am I'm sure as hell kids would've bullied me physically as well, but alhamdulillah that didn't happen
3. Now imagine a walking person who isn't that handsome, takes everything personally, is awkward, is anxious and doesn't talk much
I mean it already ended at the point of "not that handsome" but the rest is just a wonderful bonus
4. What will i do in life? I will stop caring about friendships in sha Allah, i enjoy my own company more because i can be myself, the only people who i can be completely myself with and not annoy the shit out of or make them want to stop hanging out with me are a few in a hundred, and those are the best type of friends, including but not limited to;
1. People I've known for a long time
• How often do you come by someone you've been friends with for 5-10 years? Not that often, in schools? yes
• Just because you've know them for a long time doesn't mean you like them, they could be your former bully, etc.
@datboijj @TraumatisedOgre @tsartsar44
If i had a normal hairline, people would have had no reason to do that. So that negates that.
Now, about my friendships, people wouldn't want to be friends with me either because;
1. Due to my adhd, i get bored easily of anything and everything, i could get bored mid-conversation with someone, and start focusing on something else
I keep mentioning my adhd, i can understand that this can get annoying, so i will get to the gist of it. Adhd is a neurological disorder which involves but is not limited to a dopamine sensitivity deficiency in the brain. I.e. my brain doesn't receive as much feel-good chemicals from normal activities, what can this affect you may ask? Motivation to do things, hang out with people, rejection sensitivity (taking things personally
TL;DR: People with Adhd have advanced boredom
2. Adhd comes with rejection sensitivity, which is not limited to but includes the wonderful things such as
• Taking things personally due to RS
• Anxiety which comes from RS
• Awkwardness which comes from RS because you are careful with everything and anything you do due to RS, which ultimately leads you to SEEING social situations as draining and not worth the EFFORT.
3. ALL OF THESE, make you an easy target for bullying, i mean just think about it, an awkward and anxious ugly kid who doesn't talk much, literal incel factory,
If i wasn't the tall kid i am I'm sure as hell kids would've bullied me physically as well, but alhamdulillah that didn't happen
3. Now imagine a walking person who isn't that handsome, takes everything personally, is awkward, is anxious and doesn't talk much
I mean it already ended at the point of "not that handsome" but the rest is just a wonderful bonus
4. What will i do in life? I will stop caring about friendships in sha Allah, i enjoy my own company more because i can be myself, the only people who i can be completely myself with and not annoy the shit out of or make them want to stop hanging out with me are a few in a hundred, and those are the best type of friends, including but not limited to;
1. People I've known for a long time
• How often do you come by someone you've been friends with for 5-10 years? Not that often, in schools? yes
• Just because you've know them for a long time doesn't mean you like them, they could be your former bully, etc.
@datboijj @TraumatisedOgre @tsartsar44
