if my oneitis was neurotypical she wouldnt have even gave a fuck about me

[superpsycho]

brutal reality

 

[superpsycho]

@davidlaidisme67 @acm @ToryToad

 

[superpsycho]

bump

 

[Spur der Verwüstung]

Why such an obsession with an object, I don't understand it?

 

[superpsycho]

Why such an obsession with an object, I don't understand it?

she wasnt an object

she was an angel

 

[Spur der Verwüstung]

she wasnt an object

she was an angel

Emotions get into the mix of reality, understandable perspective

 

[davidlaidisme67]

brutal reality

I agree about mines as well

 

[LooksTester]

Bro are you ok how does one even get oneitus

 

[BadLuck7892]

Even a lot of female autists don't want male autists.

 

[BadLuck7892]

Bro are you ok how does one even get oneitus

Oneitis is when there's only one foid you want to be with.

 

[BWC_virgin]

There’s allways a catch

 

[superpsycho]

Even a lot of female autists don't want male autists.

brutal reality…

 

[LooksTester]

Oneitis is when there's only one foid you want to be with.

So if she dates someone will it go away for you guys/

 

[BadLuck7892]

brutal reality…

What it all boils down to is: Autistic foids are still foids.

An autistic foid is a foid first and an autist second.

 

[BadLuck7892]

So if she dates someone will it go away for you guys/

No. If anything, that would only make it worse.

 

[superpsycho]

What it all boils down to is: Autistic foids are still foids.

An autistic foid is a foid first and an autist second.

she still treated me with respect which is a first among the women i encountered in highschool

 

[syuri]

she still treated me with respect which is a first among the women i encountered in highschool

many others will you gotta distract yourself

 

[BadLuck7892]

she still treated me with respect which is a first among the women i encountered in highschool

I had a oneitis who treated me with respect in high school too (which was also a rarity)

Yet I never dared to shoot my shot.

 

[LooksTester]

she still treated me with respect which is a first among the women i encountered in highschool

I think your holding onto that interaction to closely one of the greatest forms of love is letting someone go

 

[superpsycho]

I had a oneitis who treated me with respect in high school too (which was also a rarity)

Yet I never dared to shoot my shot.

i shot my shot and missed

 

[BadLuck7892]

many others will you gotta distract yourself

Don't get his hopes up for nothing. I'm about to be 34, yet rotting on this forum. Most posters on here will be me one day.

 

[BadLuck7892]

i shot my shot and missed

I was petrified that would have happened (so that's why I never shot my shot)

 

[syuri]

Don't get his hopes up for nothing. I'm about to be 34, yet rotting on this forum. Most posters on here will be me one day.

always have hope

 

[syuri]

I was petrified that would have happened (so that's why I never shot my shot)

thats everyones fear, time is gonna pass man. every decision is gonna affect the future. might as well be enjoying the time rather than hating it. shape the future and how the time treats you by making favorable decisions that make you feel happy or are beneficial. its never over

i went from having women openly say i gave them nausea just by looking at me, and having them shame every aspect about me, to having a chance with atleast some girls

i had fried hair, acne, the most assymetrical and ugly face in a 20 mile radius, and slumped posture

its never over

albeit im way younger than you and havent had many female experiences

 

[BadLuck7892]

thats everyones fear, time is gonna pass man. every decision is gonna affect the future. might as well be enjoying the time rather than hating it. shape the future and how the time treats you by making favorable decisions that make you feel happy or are beneficial. its never over

i went from having women openly say i gave them nausea just by looking at me, and having them shame every aspect about me, to having a chance with atleast some girls

i had fried hair, acne, the most assymetrical and ugly face in a 20 mile radius, and slumped posture

its never over

albeit im way younger than you and havent had many female experiences

If I was still 16, then yeah, you might be right (about there being time to get over my phobia). But you're speaking to a man who's about to turn 34 (it sounds like you're already aware I'm among the oldest posters on here)

If I haven't gotten over my phobia yet, I obviously never will.

From the sounds of it, your problem was fixed by looksmaxxing.

Me, on the other hand? Looks were never my problem. Autism is.

You're right when you say every decision is going to impact the future. That's why I cannot risk a foid I need to cross paths with again rejecting me. That shit is miserable. And I speak from experience (That's the thing: My phobia doesn't come out of nowhere. My phobia is the result of experiencing how miserable it is to cross paths with foids I got rejected by)

Even at 16, I had experience crossing paths with foids I got rejected by. I didn't want to risk the same thing potentially happening again (which was why I refused to ask out my oneitis from when I was 16)

I'd seriously prefer kissing dozens of men over crossing paths with even one more foid I got rejected by.

 

[syuri]

If I was still 16, then yeah, you might be right (about there being time to get over my phobia). But you're speaking to a man who's about to turn 34 (it sounds like you're already aware I'm among the oldest posters on here)

If I haven't gotten over my phobia yet, I obviously never will.

From the sounds of it, your problem was fixed by looksmaxxing.

Me, on the other hand? Looks were never my problem. Autism is.

You're right when you say every decision is going to impact the future. That's why I cannot risk a foid I need to cross paths with again rejecting me. That shit is miserable. And I speak from experience (That's the thing: My phobia doesn't come out of nowhere. My phobia is the result of experiencing how miserable it is to cross paths with foids I got rejected by)

Even at 16, I had experience crossing paths with foids I got rejected by. I didn't want to risk the same thing potentially happening again (which was why I refused to ask out my oneitis from when I was 16)

I'd seriously prefer kissing dozens of men over crossing paths with even one more foid I got rejected by.

yeah, i'm aware. im only 18 so i definitely cant relate all too much

i actually agree with you heavily after reading that. i get your point
i have similiar experiences with some chicks from highschool

have you tried stepping out of your zone to change environments? moving?
you said you liked to travel
i had to move states just to find a new life after 16, i was that hated where i was from
my life has noticably improved after doing so. i always believed a change in environment can rewire even the most hardstuck people
however it leaves you with loneliness. i dont have many friends but i have new peace of mind
i found myself being more chronically online that way, which is why im here now

but crossing paths cant happen if you walk a totally brand new path, no?
hope you find peace man god bless

 

[BadLuck7892]

yeah, i'm aware. im only 18 so i definitely cant relate all too much

i actually agree with you heavily after reading that. i get your point
i have similiar experiences with some chicks from highschool

have you tried stepping out of your zone to change environments? moving?
you said you liked to travel
i had to move states just to find a new life after 16, i was that hated where i was from
my life has noticably improved after doing so. i always believed a change in environment can rewire even the most hardstuck people
however it leaves you with loneliness. i dont have many friends but i have new peace of mind
i found myself being more chronically online that way, which is why im here now

but crossing paths cant happen if you walk a totally brand new path, no?
hope you find peace man god bless

I've moved a few times since graduating high school.

You get a fresh start when you move, yeah. But that's still not foolproof. I've been in my current state for a decade (so I know foids galore in my current state at this point). If I were to get rejected by a foid in my current state, who I cross paths with on a regular basis, what am I supposed to do? Move again?

And even if I move again, what if I (in my new state) get rejected by a foid I'm going to need to cross paths with again?

I'd constantly need to move if I asked out every foid I thought was into me.

I like to travel, yeah. Unfortunately, I don't know any foids in the places I travel to, which means I'm highly unlikely to get anything from a foid in the places I travel to.

 

[LTNUser]

brutal reality

I see you typing a lot about your oneitis
Was there a sudden urge out of nowhere for her or what buddy?

 

[superpsycho]

I see you typing a lot about your oneitis
Was there a sudden urge out of nowhere for her or what buddy?

yea i was just reminiscing last night

 

[syuri]

yea i was just reminiscing last night

always try and remember that another women will posses her qualities, assumably better ones too

stay strong bro this site probably isnt the one to get advice from but still