If she doesn’t choose you first its over

Super Gooner

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Ill be so real, if your girl didnt choose you first or make it easy for you to approach then its over. If you had to use ‘game’ to pull her then it will never work out. You will always have to invest energy to keep her happy. And if you slip up or let your guard down for a second, there is always the risk of her leaving or cheating for better since she didnt even want you in the first place. Whereas if she chose you first, you dont have to invest nearly as much and she will also give you more love than a girl you would have to ‘win’.

Only choose girls who choose you. Only choose girls who make it clear they want you. Only reciprocate attraction, never be the first to chase. This dynamic leads to overall happy relationships for both the man and woman.
 
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Everything went right on this road. But I was the one to slash my own tires and drive drunk. Then I complained about why I lost the race.
 
loyality and honor is a joke.
 
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6’5 HTN
Or 6’8 Tyrone

Anything else = never began
 
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Mostly true. Some girls just make it obvious they like you. You still have to do some work once they give the ioi though.
Ill be so real, if your girl didnt choose you first or make it easy for you to approach then its over. If you had to use ‘game’ to pull her then it will never work out. You will always have to invest energy to keep her happy. And if you slip up or let your guard down for a second, there is always the risk of her leaving or cheating for better since she didnt even want you in the first place. Whereas if she chose you first, you dont have to invest nearly as much and she will also give you more love than a girl you would have to ‘win’.

Only choose girls who choose you. Only choose girls who make it clear they want you. Only reciprocate attraction, never be the first to chase. This dynamic leads to overall happy relationships for both the man and woman.
 
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shit thread

i approached my now gf 8.5 years ago and it worked out well to this day
 
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Trust me on this. This is the right attitude to have when you’re in college and have a social circle and are around a lot of girls, but you can become stuck in it and stuck in the past, you stop meeting girls at some point so if you’re single when that happens then it’s time for a new approach. You don’t wanna be like me and be 30 and single and have almost never approached a girl because you “didn’t need to before”.
 

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