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alr so i've been thinking about my previous relationships, and lowk realized that every single time the girl i tried dating wasnt into me right away, it NEVER worked out 
most niggas kinda believe that they'll have a 2nd chance to approach her, to become friends and then start dating, to "get to know her" and then it's all gonna work out. but the more i think about this the more i realize how futile it all is
if she doesnt feel physical attraction to you the first time she sees you, she NEVER WILL IT IS OVER OVER OVEEER (unless you spawn in a new skull)
just think about it, if attraction is based on looks and ur looks dont change how tf is game or getting to know her is gonna save you it's so simple?? and obv yall are gonna say yes ofc we already knew this dnr BUT im sure than most people subconsciously believe this (we all love some hopefuel)
but for some reason i feel like most ppl (irl for sure, maybe it's gonna be a selection bias here) want to postpone asking her out/confessing to get to know her first. when every single time i saw some nigga do that irl he ended up cucked
TLDR: DONT ask her out for a 2nd time, DONT try again, DONT try being friends first. if she rejected you IT'S OVER JUST GIVE UP
water thread or am i the next nietzsche??

most niggas kinda believe that they'll have a 2nd chance to approach her, to become friends and then start dating, to "get to know her" and then it's all gonna work out. but the more i think about this the more i realize how futile it all is
if she doesnt feel physical attraction to you the first time she sees you, she NEVER WILL IT IS OVER OVER OVEEER (unless you spawn in a new skull)
just think about it, if attraction is based on looks and ur looks dont change how tf is game or getting to know her is gonna save you it's so simple?? and obv yall are gonna say yes ofc we already knew this dnr BUT im sure than most people subconsciously believe this (we all love some hopefuel)
but for some reason i feel like most ppl (irl for sure, maybe it's gonna be a selection bias here) want to postpone asking her out/confessing to get to know her first. when every single time i saw some nigga do that irl he ended up cucked
TLDR: DONT ask her out for a 2nd time, DONT try again, DONT try being friends first. if she rejected you IT'S OVER JUST GIVE UP
water thread or am i the next nietzsche??