If She isn’t doing all of these, she’s not interested in you (IOIs vs IODs) (Rejection proof yourself)

[Baeseth]

Do not get these two mixed up or you will be the guy who gets rejected by girls who never wanted him, It can also ruin a lot of potential friendships (Befriending foids is dumb anyways) You should never approach or ask out a girl if she isn’t showing a MAJORITY of the following IOIs

IODS = Indications of disinterest

Easy examples everyone should know: Never makes eye contact, Never asking you questions, Never leading convos, Wanting to be away from you, talkative to others but never to you, Refers to you as a “Best friend” or “Like a brother” or calls you her “Day 1”, Disrespect / Shit talks you or talks to you like she doesn’t care what you think (Cuz she doesnt gaf about you)

IOIs : Unnecessary touching (shoulder/arm grab she wants to feel you) Heavy eye contact (Do not get mixed up with regular eye contact you can tell it someone’s staring), She always fixes her hair around you, She follows you around, Laughing EXTRA hard at your jokes even when they are not funny.

Good body language:

Does she smile at you?

Body language is another huge one does she face you? This also goes with does she follow you or try to be around you.

If more than half of these are true she more than likely likes you

Bad body language:

 

[Brava]

Somewhat water

 

[niggaboy0321]

I might be able to finally slay

 

[Baeseth]

Somewhat water

Only if ur NT with good social skills, a lot of guys on the spectrum like dudes on .org will fuck all these up

 

[Brava]

Only if ur NT with good social skills, a lot of guys on the spectrum like dudes on .org will fuck all these up

Like me

 

[reallybro]

back in high school there were tables in the back and they were pretty close together. I was facing away from the table behind me where there were two girls sitting across from each other i was doing something and all of a sudden the girl behind me was leaning on the table her ass against me like all up on me and i turn around to look and its fucking right there and she was like talking to her friend but like so quiet like they were seeing what my reaction would be, i basically looked down seeing her ass on me and back up up at them thinking can you not feel me or see me wtf. I think it might have been a ioi but idk.

 

[Baeseth]

I think it might have been a ioi but idk.

Women aren’t fully stupid she could def feel that and know you were there, are you attractive? If so yes but if your below average might’ve just been her not caring

 

[reallybro]

Women aren’t fully stupid she could def feel that and know you were there, are you attractive? If so yes but if your below average might’ve just been her not caring

it was definitely on purpose and the girl i remember was usually nice to me i think she was interested but i was a skinny 17 year old kid and i was too scared to say anything about it to her though.

 

[Whatever]

If there’s legit IODs then just stay away from her but IOIs can be misread, some girls just have expressive body language. Her initiating with you is the only IOI to go by. I’ve had girls I couldn’t tell were that interested initiate with me and others who gave a lot of IOIs that never went anywhere. The real thing to look at is how she’s spending her time.

 

[Pickletoil]

talkative to others but never to you

That's most likely an IOI that means she's nervous around you

 

[ROPEBYATHOUSANDMOGS]

Do not get these two mixed up or you will be the guy who gets rejected by girls who never wanted him, It can also ruin a lot of potential friendships (Befriending foids is dumb anyways) You should never approach or ask out a girl if she isn’t showing a MAJORITY of the following IOIs

IODS = Indications of disinterest

Easy examples everyone should know: Never makes eye contact, Never asking you questions, Never leading convos, Wanting to be away from you, talkative to others but never to you, Refers to you as a “Best friend” or “Like a brother” or calls you her “Day 1”, Disrespect / Shit talks you or talks to you like she doesn’t care what you think (Cuz she doesnt gaf about you)
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IOIs : Unnecessary touching (shoulder/arm grab she wants to feel you) Heavy eye contact (Do not get mixed up with regular eye contact you can tell it someone’s staring), She always fixes her hair around you, She follows you around, Laughing EXTRA hard at your jokes even when they are not funny.

Good body language:
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Does she smile at you?

Body language is another huge one does she face you? This also goes with does she follow you or try to be around you.

If more than half of these are true she more than likely likes you

Bad body language:
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What if it’s a mix of both

 

[Baeseth]

That's most likely an IOI that means she's nervous around you

Based on my experience it’s very rare a girl is gonna not talk to you cause she’s “Nervous” women love to yap about bullshit and if it’s to a attractive guy even better, if anything she will try to start a convo herself if you don’t if she’s really into you.

What if it’s a mix of both

More than likely Disinterest, even 1 IOD is really bad