If someone is an incel, when is it okay to blame them and when can one say that it is not their fault that they are incel?

[Deleted member 4612]

and if it is their fault they are incel, would they still be incel if they are female? if not, how can they be blamed for their inceldom now?

 

[maxmendietta]

Inceldom has a ton of variables, mainly the looks one followed by location/female preferences... no use to just fully blame yourself for your inceldom if you are a psl 4

 

[Deleted member 245]

Only fatcels should be blamed since they can just lose weight.

 

[john2]

They think it's the way you behave that causes you to be incel, when in fact it's your looks.

It's such a simple thing to understand but normies... man.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

They think it's the way you behave that causes you to be incel, when in fact it's your looks.

It's such a simple thing to understand but normies... man.

victim blaming tbh