If there was a procedure to drill sexual/romantic attraction out of your head, would you do it?

[soapbubble]

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[vexd]

immediately

 

[Light•]

I don’t see much benefit in either of these being gone

 

[iamnotaracist]

No. Life's meaning is within our contrasting emotions. Without the sexual and oxytocin desire for partnership, you are no longer contempt with yourself and will find it hard making attachments, which wouldn't work in today's society.

 

[vexd]

I don’t see much benefit in either of these being gone

for people with potential ofc genetic deadends like me whats the point

 

[Light•]

for people with potential ofc genetic deadends like me whats the point

Yeah but what’s the benefit of having it gone even if it doesn’t give you much now ?

 

[soapbubble]

I don’t see much benefit in either of these being gone

No headache from or worrying about women. In theory, you'd also protect yourself from heartbreak or sadness/insecurity from relationships or lack of them.

 

[JackieOff]

no nigga i like to pound my girl every night mating press style

 

[soapbubble]

Yeah but what’s the benefit of having it gone even if it doesn’t give you much now ?

Being attracted and it not being reciprocated the way you want it to be would hurt more than the feeling of attraction not being there at all

 

[soapbubble]

no nigga i like to pound my girl every night mating press style

how philisophical of you

 

[Light•]

No headache from or worrying about women. In theory, you'd also protect yourself from heartbreak or sadness/insecurity from relationships or lack of them.

I see, but to me that seems like doing surgery that cuts out good and bad things just to get rid of the bad.

In reality the issue is spending too much mental energy on women, which is something that can certainly be changed

 

[vexd]

Yeah but what’s the benefit of having it gone even if it doesn’t give you much now ?

why keep the painful mental mastrubation if its never gonna come in the first place

 

[Light•]

why keep the painful mental mastrubation if its never gonna come in the first place

You might aswell rope though with this logic, I can understand your point but I still would rather live knowing I’m undesirable hoping for something to come one day than have no desire myself

 

[vexd]

You might aswell rope though with this logic, I can understand your point but I still would rather live knowing I’m undesirable hoping for something to come one day than have no desire myself

I dont want to sound blue pilled but not everythings dating theres other ways to cope

 

[Light•]

I dont want to sound blue pilled but not everythings dating theres other ways to cope

Ofc, but knowing this you could just use other copes whilst retaining your ability to desire

 

[Alton]

Yes but It's still brutal because of the Halo effect and people treating you better because of looks

 

[vexd]

Ofc, but knowing this you could just use other copes whilst retaining your ability to desire

ovethinking tho? sounds like a problem

 

[Alton]

I dont want to sound blue pilled but not everythings dating theres other ways to cope

Not really any good copes

 

[vexd]

Not really any good copes

idk I have had a good life, a better one than most normies cus (im a nepo baby tho)
imagine being some guy in 9th grade who got a girl pregnant and is in a state where he can't abort and lives in poverty
hes dated and fucked but its not everything

 

[Light•]

ovethinking tho? sounds like a problem

I guess the problem for me is that I wouldn’t have any reason to do anything, dating aside I’m primarily driven by social expectations and viewpoints, if I had no desire to eventually marry and date etc I wouldn’t see the point in lots of other things, but I suppose that this isn’t entirely a bad thing

Not really any good copes

Wrong

Drugs, money, video games, entertainment etc

 

[alucardagain]

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i went from subhuman to mtn thanks to my intense desire of cracking foids so not really

 

[Light•]

i went from subhuman to mtn thanks to my intense desire of cracking foids so not really

Same, but sadly this isn’t possible for everyone

 

[Alton]

idk I have had a good life, a better one than most normies cus (im a nepo baby tho)
imagine being some guy in 9th grade who got a girl pregnant and is in a state where he can't abort and lives in poverty
hes dated and fucked but its not everything

Obviously but that's neetmaxxing for you if you're older bruh

 

[Alton]

I guess the problem for me is that I wouldn’t have any reason to do anything, dating aside I’m primarily driven by social expectations and viewpoints, if I had no desire to eventually marry and date etc I wouldn’t see the point in lots of other things, but I suppose that this isn’t entirely a bad thing

Wrong

Drugs, money, video games, entertainment etc

Money is cope maybe a nice house isn't and that's a good purchase same with a car but Vidya is cope maybe a movie yeha but still looks a d height bruh

 

[vexd]

Obviously but that's neetmaxxing for you if you're older bruh

ehh im gonna neet when im older cus I can make and borrow alot of money

 

[Alton]

ehh im gonna neet when im older cus I can make and borrow alot of money

Stocks forex trading

 

[Informationcapitali]

Im sure this is way like you said. Just that these faggots want u to suffer instead of eliminating secual attraction so youbcan be attached to stacy and give her money

 

[Alton]

Or yt/twitch bruh

 

[ICXCLuvr]

You might aswell rope though with this logic, I can understand your point but I still would rather live knowing I’m undesirable hoping for something to come one day than have no desire myself

Then u can’t comprehend what living with no desire is like. Logically makes no sense.

 

[silently_said]

Ofc much better than closeted fags suggesting jbg

 

[ICXCLuvr]

I’m already like that besides the occasional wank I don’t actually desire a relationship much

 

[Light•]

Then u can’t comprehend what living with no desire is like. Logically makes no sense.

I guess not, it’s not possible to say for certain how I’d feel if I had zero desire, but I can estimate it

 

[Light•]

I’m already like that besides the occasional wank I don’t actually desire a relationship much

If I had to guess though it isn’t because you just “don’t want a romantic partner”, it’s because you’re aware of the slim chances of this happening stacked with the effort required to make it happen and decide against it

This is perfectly logical but it isn’t really the same as not having desire, you just don’t value the desire as much as other things

 

[ICXCLuvr]

I guess not, it’s not possible to say for certain how I’d feel if I had zero desire, but I can estimate it

No desire = no risk of being physiologically and emotionally harmed

 

[ICXCLuvr]

If I had to guess though it isn’t because you just “don’t want a romantic partner”, it’s because you’re aware of the slim chances of this happening stacked with the effort required to make it happen and decide against it

This is perfectly logical but it isn’t really the same as not having desire, you just don’t value the desire as much as other things

I’ve been in relationships and yes effort and time is a factor but I just think it’s corny tbh

 

[Light•]

I’ve been in relationships and yes effort and time is a factor but I just think it’s corny tbh

Relationships are corny ? Or the typical things in modern day dating are, I agree that most dating for men now is a circus show of jestering but I don’t think that makes relationships inherently corny

 

[ICXCLuvr]

Relationships are corny ? Or the typical things in modern day dating are, I agree that most dating for men now is a circus show of jestering but I don’t think that makes relationships inherently corny

It’s rubbish bro nobody tryna hold hands and cuddle and get on my knee spending all my money on a ring and giving 50% assets I’d rather just get to the buns

 

[Light•]

It’s rubbish bro nobody tryna hold hands and cuddle and get on my knee spending all my money on a ring and giving 50% assets I’d rather just get to the buns

I agree for the most part but cuddling is actually extremely comforting in my opinion, it’s basically emotional bliss