if u were to have a kid, would u try to raise him to be exceptional

[imnotgirl]

idk I always thought it was cruel, to have kid, and raise him or her like normal people raise their kids, its life full of lies, poverty, and its very boring. I dont get why person has a kid, and then hes like, ohh i wont give him any advice to his life, any insights, nothing , let school teach him being gay, btw this is my first post. The idea is to master a skill before having a kid, and then explain to the kid the things u learnt in life and why the kid should work not even that much if the kid starts from young age, hes already ahead of the typical people, way ahead.

 

[Societal Reject]

The most important skill is socializing which i cant teach

 

[tansel]

i would have my kid be vasiliy 2.0

 

[o_Owtf]

There's been many times in my life where I thought about how I would make my kid practice various things to become excellent at them. Piano, chess, soccer, whatever. But I realized that these things were quite fleeting and always just stemmed from my own interests, often interests I was quite poor at and wanted to be good at. It made me realize how arbitrary it would be to for instance raise my kid to be a chess player.

So I would raise/encourage my kid to be excellent at something, but try to make it something that they themselves are interested in. I don't want to try teaching them whatever interest I have that week, to try and live vicariously through them.

 

[imnotgirl]

The most important skill is socializing which i cant teach

tbh, as long as ur not autistic, u can make up for it.

 

[Societal Reject]

tbh, as long as ur not autistic, u can make up for it.

Nope

 

[incelincel]

Yes

 

[chromednash]

If I ever get a girl and have a kid


Then imma raise him to be exactly like me except chad version

 

[i believe in angels]

i want my kids to all be genius savants, ancient greek and latin by age 3, calculus by 5