If ur dream life is totally different to your current life, how do you cope?

[Matrix88]

How can you not be mad at your parents if you aren't from a mid - high class? If you don't come from a good family, then you either don't have a chance to success or you will struggle A LOT

And if on top of that you also need to looksmax, then life is fucking brutal. Having to save up money and losing your youth while you see other guys in here who are good lifers and get their surgery super quick... how brutal that is man...

Not only u gotta deal with the mog in looks, but with the money and life quality mog. I would kill all my relatives and friends just to be reborn as a HTN kid from a good family in the US.

 

[Matrix88]

Like idk how to feel about my family, I don't think I love them anymore

Now that I realized how my life was fucked from the start, it's hard to give my 100% into improving my life while not being resentful to my loser family

 

[Stalker]

you live in your head thats how

 

[Lemic]

Drown in work

 

[soapbubble]

Inb4 OP gets pushed over the edge and commits suicide

 

[daviappeal]

I just LDAR

 

[cargo70]

How can you not be mad at your parents if you aren't from a mid - high class? If you don't come from a good family, then you either don't have a chance to success or you will struggle A LOT

And if on top of that you also need to looksmax, then life is fucking brutal. Having to save up money and losing your youth while you see other guys in here who are good lifers and get their surgery super quick... how brutal that is man...

Not only u gotta deal with the mog in looks, but with the money and life quality mog. I would kill all my relatives and friends just to be reborn as a HTN kid from a good family in the US.

Maladaptive daydreaming because of my autism I can get really immersed while pacing.

 

[Matrix88]

Inb4 OP gets pushed over the edge and commits suicide

u think that will happen? I hope not

If I get botched then yea, I will rope

 

[Sub->CL]

while you see other guys in here who are good lifers and get their surgery super quick... how brutal that is man...

 

[cargo70]

u think that will happen? I hope not

If I get botched then yea, I will rope

What's the worst thing that can happen: you go back in your room and never interact again?

Back to the norm

 

[Matrix88]

What's the worst thing that can happen: you go back in your room and never interact again?

Back to the norm

it wouldn't be the same bro, now I'm 18 and in my "gap year" (forced to because I need better grades and to ascend)

If I had to live the same life as I do now during my 20s I would probably rope

 

[IBlameApp]

How can you not be mad at your parents if you aren't from a mid - high class? If you don't come from a good family, then you either don't have a chance to success or you will struggle A LOT

And if on top of that you also need to looksmax, then life is fucking brutal. Having to save up money and losing your youth while you see other guys in here who are good lifers and get their surgery super quick... how brutal that is man...

Not only u gotta deal with the mog in looks, but with the money and life quality mog. I would kill all my relatives and friends just to be reborn as a HTN kid from a good family in the US.

Just day dream all day and do anything productive tricking yourself into thinking you'll eventually reach that destined life by any means. Or just ropemaxx

 

[cargo70]

it wouldn't be the same bro, now I'm 18 and in my "gap year" (forced to because I need better grades and to ascend)

If I had to live the same life as I do now during my 20s I would probably rope

True.

 

[bornover]

How can you not be mad at your parents if you aren't from a mid - high class? If you don't come from a good family, then you either don't have a chance to success or you will struggle A LOT

And if on top of that you also need to looksmax, then life is fucking brutal. Having to save up money and losing your youth while you see other guys in here who are good lifers and get their surgery super quick... how brutal that is man...

Not only u gotta deal with the mog in looks, but with the money and life quality mog. I would kill all my relatives and friends just to be reborn as a HTN kid from a good family in the US.

i like to call this time skipping. buy a taakamichi a night 375ml. i personally do half for example upon purchase and i zone out until i need the next half. $5 a day kinda. my parents give me gas money and i use some for that. this is who i am. oh my dream life. is. normal relationship with my parents. what i have now asking them for money being my only interaction with them. idk. and i just look human thats my perfect life

 

[rsj]

How can you not be mad at your parents if you aren't from a mid - high class? If you don't come from a good family, then you either don't have a chance to success or you will struggle A LOT

And if on top of that you also need to looksmax, then life is fucking brutal. Having to save up money and losing your youth while you see other guys in here who are good lifers and get their surgery super quick... how brutal that is man...

Not only u gotta deal with the mog in looks, but with the money and life quality mog. I would kill all my relatives and friends just to be reborn as a HTN kid from a good family in the US.

you just try to get there yourself or give everything you want up and say your not getting it and never will and that's ok (losers way out though!)

 

[Matrix88]

i like to call this time skipping. buy a taakamichi a night 375ml. i personally do half for example upon purchase and i zone out until i need the next half. $5 a day kinda. my parents give me gas money and i use some for that. this is who i am. oh my dream life. is. normal relationship with my parents. what i have now asking them for money being my only interaction with them. idk. and i just look human thats my perfect life

Are u on drugs? I didn't understand what u said

 

[Sub->CL]

I just LDAR

Twin

Maladaptive daydreaming because of my autism I can get really immersed while pacing.

I used to walk in circles at recess daydreaming about my interests, I hate looking at myself (past and present) from other perspectives. It's like no wonder I got bullied.

Sometimes I cope by fantasizing "what if I acted more normal at school", but thinking of this and similar examples shows there was never hope.

 

[Matrix88]

you just try to get there yourself or give everything you want up and say your not getting it and never will and that's ok (losers way out though!)

yea I'm doing everything to get there, I just don't know how to feel towards people of my life

If I hate my life, then I guess I hate them

 

[cargo70]

Twin


I used to walk in circles at recess daydreaming about my interests, I hate looking at myself (past and present) from other perspectives. It's like no wonder I got bullied.

Sometimes I cope by fantasizing "what if I acted more normal at school", but thinking of this and similar examples shows there was never hope.

Socializing in and being popular in school is law.

Sets you up for college and a good life.

Prereqs are good looking and nt.


gotta work 10x harder if you don't have that base.

 

[Jgns]

How can you not be mad at your parents if you aren't from a mid - high class? If you don't come from a good family, then you either don't have a chance to success or you will struggle A LOT

And if on top of that you also need to looksmax, then life is fucking brutal. Having to save up money and losing your youth while you see other guys in here who are good lifers and get their surgery super quick... how brutal that is man...

Not only u gotta deal with the mog in looks, but with the money and life quality mog. I would kill all my relatives and friends just to be reborn as a HTN kid from a good family in the US.

99% chance that u wouldve been born in the same type or more likely worse situation. Ik this shits brutal asf seeing other niggas be htn+ and from rich families, but u gt understand that it is not over for us. We could've been born absolute subhuman short druvidians, what would u have done then? I remember like I hated the way I looked, but this one brown short guy, albiet really smart, would also just like stare at me with like a weird ass look every once in a while. Like imagine wht its like from his perspective, shit probably sucked like crazy, even though I was also super depressed at the time too. We're gn hopefully get to htn+ while we've still got youth dude. When do you think everything u want'll be done though.

 

[bornover]

Are u on drugs? I didn't understand what u said

no bro. im sober right now but im saying is i time skip using substances to cope thats how i do it and i am truly someone who for sure isnt living my dream life i am living like a burden like a leech u know i hate relating to this bum character but jimmy from gta v my god every day that goes more i relate to that sub 5 degen human its over for me so thats why i just time skip

 

[nqx05]

I'm trying to cope with it positively, even tho I'm born in a middle-high class family, I didn't have the best upbringing like other kids did.

I just look at the positives and work to improve myself and my flaws.

it's brutal if ur acc sub5 or sub3 and cant live a normal life, but ultimately u can find copes for everything

 

[Sub->CL]

We could've been born absolute subhuman short druvidians

I don't really like this argument of "other people have it worse, think of the Africans".

First of all, trash, death, and chaos is where these brown people are supposed to live. But they still have social lives, wives, etc.
We're the ones who miss out on the most. Social isolation is statistically worse than living in India.

And look, there's even fishes smaller than your dick that are self aware (pass mirror test, recognizes self in photographs). You don't think "what if I was an (X animal), they have it worse".

Orcas are meant to live in the ocean, Indians are meant to live in shit, and we are meant to have fulfilling lives where we're loved.

 

[Matrix88]

Socializing in and being popular in school is law.

Sets you up for college and a good life.

Prereqs are good looking and nt.


gotta work 10x harder if you don't have that base.

yea I didn't have that

 

[cargo70]

yea I didn't have that

Gotta work 10x harder than everybody just to catch up.

When you do its rewarding.

 

[Matrix88]

I don't really like this argument of "other people have it worse, think of the Africans".

First of all, trash, death, and chaos is where these brown people are supposed to live. But they still have social lives, wives, etc.
We're the ones who miss out on the most. Social isolation is statistically worse than living in India.

And look, there's even fishes smaller than your dick that are self aware (pass mirror test, recognizes self in photographs). You don't think "what if I was an (X animal), they have it worse".

Orcas are meant to live in the ocean, Indians are meant to live in shit, and we are meant to have fulfilling lives where we're loved.

based

Yea I hate that stupid ass argument, it leads to nothing good. You gotta understand that only good looking people with good money have ideal lives

With that in mind, I can be as extreme as possible to get the life I want instead of being mediocre and rotting with other subhumans and LTNs

 

[Jgns]

I don't really like this argument of "other people have it worse, think of the Africans".

First of all, trash, death, and chaos is where these brown people are supposed to live. But they still have social lives, wives, etc.
We're the ones who miss out on the most. Social isolation is statistically worse than living in India.

And look, there's even fishes smaller than your dick that are self aware (pass mirror test, recognizes self in photographs). You don't think "what if I was an (X animal), they have it worse".

Orcas are meant to live in the ocean, Indians are meant to live in shit, and we are meant to have fulfilling lives where we're loved.

yeah ur lowkey right it was a lazy ass argument and honestly I was pushing cope to calm the dude down. Realistically all he could do at this point is find a niche corner to make money in and get really good at it. Obv theres a very small chance of him going out and looking for that type of thing and for it to even work well enough to produce actual results. Buut there is definitely hope, there are trillions of dollars passing through the internet daily. Very very small chance that he would succeed espc with his mindset. I personally have and at 20 ill be hardmaxxing to htn+ through this next year and a half, if I did it he could def do it, but it takes a different mentality thats just obsessed fully, to the point of insanity and back to get that type of moners. Fuck I mean look at timothy hariet or wtv his name is, 100x worse of a base than any of us, he started at 16 and has done so well for hisself. If hes able to replicate even 3% of that dudes success then he'll be in a good spot to ascend at a young age. Thats really all he has atp anyway or just coping till his youth is over or offing hisself. I hope he does find a way to change his mindset and put the work in.

 

[nqx05]

I don't really like this argument of "other people have it worse, think of the Africans".

Agree, because it's all relative. You can still be born in the US and have a terrible life, get some sort of psychiatric disorder and end up homeless on the streets etc.

Imagine you kept taking this "gratitude" narrative. "Oh it's ok if I'm broke jobless loser because other people are worse than me". At some point it doesn't make sense. There is a balance

 

[Sub->CL]

You gotta understand that only good looking people with good money have ideal lives

I remember my parents telling me that the kids making fun of me probably had terrible lives and were talking it out on me.
Turned out they all had happy, wealthy families. I found it very hard to cope after that.

But I think money hardly deserves to be stated, I'm jealous of a broke HTN in some Slavshit city who gets drunk with his girlfriend.

 

[Matrix88]

I remember my parents telling me that the kids making fun of me probably had terrible lives and were talking it out on me.
Turned out they all had happy, wealthy families. I found it very hard to cope after that.

But I think money hardly deserves to be stated, I'm jealous of a broke HTN in some Slavshit city who gets drunk with his girlfriend.

I agree

Life is about looks and money, is that simple

 

[Sub->CL]

Agree, because it's all relative. You can still be born in the US and have a terrible life, get some sort of psychiatric disorder and end up homeless on the streets etc.

Imagine you kept taking this "gratitude" narrative. "Oh it's ok if I'm broke jobless loser because other people are worse than me". At some point it doesn't make sense. There is a balance

Like my dad was recently comparing me to kids in Africa, I was like "do you expect me to fight for Al-Shabaab then?"

After middle school I was supposed to go to an alternative school where I could take college level maths but my parents wanted me to have a "proper social development" so I went to public school instead. My mathematics class was far too easy and full of Mexicans 3-4y older than me who would make fun of me, the teacher did too.

Now that I'm 18, if I were to apply to my dream university I would be compared to other applicants who had educational support and parents who pay for their STEM projects (mine were scared to let me buy a soldering iron, JFL).

So my success is compared to people who have had infinitely easier lives but my struggles are compared to a worker in Chittagong's ship-breaking yard.

 

[nqx05]

Like my dad was recently comparing me to kids in Africa, I was like "do you expect me to fight for Al-Shabaab then?"

After middle school I was supposed to go to an alternative school where I could take college level maths but my parents wanted me to have a "proper social development" so I went to public school instead. My mathematics class was far too easy and full of Mexicans 3-4y older than me who would make fun of me, the teacher did too.

Now that I'm 18, if I were to apply to my dream university I would be compared to other applicants who had educational support and parents who pay for their STEM projects (mine were scared to let me buy a soldering iron, JFL).

So my success is compared to people who have had infinitely easier lives but my struggles are compared to a worker in Chittagong's ship-breaking yard.

Yeah, there is a lot of nuance

blackpilled cuz boredompilled after u make it, ngmi if u dont ofc

but these coping attitudes are really not good and humans have to overpower that

 

[Sub->CL]

Yeah, there is a lot of nuance

blackpilled cuz boredompilled after u make it, ngmi if u dont ofc

but these coping attitudes are really not good and humans have to overpower that

The human brain could make a marriage with the most beautiful woman stale, or the most luxurious life bland.
But any life could be fulfilling provided they experienced joy and love as an adolescent.
Which we never will...

 

[Acquiescence]

Don’t worry wageslaving at a job you barely tolerate for survival stipends will consume all of your useful time and energy until you die of old age. Society has long since solved this problem for you. Show some gratitude. Hooray!

 

[Matrix88]

So my success is compared to people who have had infinitely easier lives but my struggles are compared to a worker in Chittagong's ship-breaking yard.

Exactly, u should ALWAYS compare yourself to better people, not to inferior

 

[ICXCLuvr]

All u do is doom and gloom

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

you dont cope you chase that dream life as if ur life depends on it

 

[Matrix88]

you dont cope you chase that dream life as if ur life depends on it

That's what I'm doing

My real question was, how can I pretend I value anyone in my life if I hate my current life?

 

[vexd]

Im one of your family members

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

That's what I'm doing

My real question was, how can I pretend I value anyone in my life if I hate my current life?

theres a level of appreciating what you have as well

 

[Matrix88]

yeah ur lowkey right it was a lazy ass argument and honestly I was pushing cope to calm the dude down. Realistically all he could do at this point is find a niche corner to make money in and get really good at it. Obv theres a very small chance of him going out and looking for that type of thing and for it to even work well enough to produce actual results. Buut there is definitely hope, there are trillions of dollars passing through the internet daily. Very very small chance that he would succeed espc with his mindset. I personally have and at 20 ill be hardmaxxing to htn+ through this next year and a half, if I did it he could def do it, but it takes a different mentality thats just obsessed fully, to the point of insanity and back to get that type of moners. Fuck I mean look at timothy hariet or wtv his name is, 100x worse of a base than any of us, he started at 16 and has done so well for hisself. If hes able to replicate even 3% of that dudes success then he'll be in a good spot to ascend at a young age. Thats really all he has atp anyway or just coping till his youth is over or offing hisself. I hope he does find a way to change his mindset and put the work in.

brother it's not that simple, you cannot just say "I'm gonna start a business and become rich!", that's either luck or having a family with money that allows that to happen (blackpill)

I would do anything to live the life I want, but that doesn't mean I will do stupid shit. I'm currently focusing on studying to get into a good university and eventually have money lol

 

[Matrix88]

theres a level of appreciating what you have as well

No, I don't appreciate my life at all, I was condemned to suffering

 

[nqx05]

At some point best advice is just take the dih maxxing stack and beat ur shit every day

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

No, I don't appreciate my life at all, I was condemned to suffering

appreciating the things you have is productive towards chasing your dreams too yk that right

 

[omnis]

you dont cry about it on an incel forum and instead try to actually shut that shit down and level up

 

[omnis]

hi im a retard nigger faggot and dont know anything

okay bro

 

[Jgns]

brother it's not that simple, you cannot just say "I'm gonna start a business and become rich!", that's either luck or having a family with money that allows that to happen (blackpill)

I would do anything to live the life I want, but that doesn't mean I will do stupid shit. I'm currently focusing on studying to get into a good university and eventually have money lol

Yeah dude I literally said it most likely won't happen even if u put an enormous amount of will behind it, its more nuanced than any of the examples u proposed though. Im pretty retarded rn geeked asf so I cant like i cant really give proper nuanced high iq takes buttt its not as doomeristic as it seems to u. Obv luck plays a role in it, but who are you to say you won't get lucky. You don't have to do stupid shit either, I mean fucking hell u could do smt as basic as selling unrolled bloodlines accounts and make $100 or so a day easily while studying and then use that money to either fund a small surgery after alot of saving or putting it into another method. While the Blackpill (patent pending) is a backbone of this site u gt understand this learned helplessness is a straightup psyop. I get that you have a great deal of learned helplessness that comes from the helpleness we've all been accustomed to of just enduring our horrible lives up till this point, but its completely fucking possible for a normal person. We arent even talking about an insane amount of money, if u do what I told u ull make $1000 really easily in 10 days, from there on u can surely find ways to use that money to make way more.

 

[Sub->CL]

you dont cry about it on an incel forum and instead try to actually shut that shit down and level up

 

[Matrix88]

appreciating the things you have is productive towards chasing your dreams too yk that right

yea? why is that?

Wouldn't it be better to work as if my life depended on it? Acknowledging my life is trash is drive to keep going

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

yea? why is that?

Wouldn't it be better to work as if my life depended on it? Acknowledging my life is trash is drive to keep going

if i hated everything and appreciated nothing i couldnt have known to leverage the things i did have to make the most of them to achieve my dream life

and trust me, i hated myself and wanted to rope despite being 6'3 with a great frame.

perspective is a lot more important than youd think. the people who say thats cope on here you wouldnt trade lives with them whereas all successful people and ascended people say the same as me