If women wants chad so bad, why dont they write first on tinder

[Johanjohan]

have tried a really goodlooking guy on tinder (probably best looking guy in a city), and he got so many matches - but almost no girl wrote first

If a girl is so desperate for chad, why dont they even write first to that guy lol, just waitinf for the guy to do everything

 

[subhuman37]

have tried a really goodlooking guy on tinder (probably best looking guy in a city), and he got so many matches - but almost no girl wrote first

If a girl is so desperate for chad, why dont they even write first to that guy lol, just waitinf for the guy to do everything

They have big egos

 

[narkoman]

have tried a really goodlooking guy on tinder (probably best looking guy in a city), and he got so many matches - but almost no girl wrote first

If a girl is so desperate for chad, why dont they even write first to that guy lol, just waitinf for the guy to do everything

females are insecure and fragile

 

[Johanjohan]

They have big egos

females are insecure and fragile

But incels here say girls want chad and chase after him

 

[Junbae]

because they don't. dating is just proximity and smv is just media.

 

[subhuman37]

But incels here say girls want chad and chase after him

Well incels have no social awareness so ofc they’re wrong

 

[Johanjohan]

Well incels have no social awareness so ofc they’re wrong

because they don't. dating is just proximity and smv is just media.

ah ive been reading too much shit on this autist forum, idk why i believed any of it

Same with reading on reddit, that website is full of basement dwellers

 

[subhuman37]

ah ive been reading too much shit on this autist forum, idk why i believed any of it

Same with reading on reddit, that website is full of basement dwellers

Some of the stuff that they say is sort of right but they’re too extreme about it

 

[shandingo]

have tried a really goodlooking guy on tinder (probably best looking guy in a city), and he got so many matches - but almost no girl wrote first

If a girl is so desperate for chad, why dont they even write first to that guy lol, just waitinf for the guy to do everything

Because pretty much every foid has more SMV than every man.

 

[Junbae]

ah ive been reading too much shit on this autist forum, idk why i believed any of it

Same with reading on reddit, that website is full of basement dwellers

when you're in the dark and don't interact with people, you hyperfixate on extreme theories which is why how this chad only stuff started. anyone who goes outside regularly knows that dating options are based on proximity and what girls like is determined by the popular media of your region.

 

[IndecentEyes]

they do

 

[Johanjohan]

Because pretty much every foid has more SMV than every man.

Yet most of them are dating ltn-mtn

 

[Johanjohan]

when you're in the dark and don't interact with people, you hyperfixate on extreme theories which is why how this chad only stuff started. anyone who goes outside regularly knows that dating options are based on proximity and what girls like is determined by the popular media of your region.

Legit, i realised a few years ago most looks theory is bullshit because i see so many girls dating down

But idk i still focus on my looks sometimes despite knowing most women date ugly men

 

[shandingo]

Yet most of them are dating ltn-mtn

Yeh because they settle for what they can get , doesn’t mean it will last or there will be good treatment inside it.

No one saying it’s impossible to get a GF but what is the nature of that relationship and are you ready for what is coming in due course.

 

[Johanjohan]

Yeh because they settle for what they can get , doesn’t mean it will last or there will be good treatment inside it.

No one saying it’s impossible to get a GF but what is the nature of that relationship and are you ready for what is coming in due course.

How do women have insane smv if all they can get is a mtn lol

 

[Junbae]

Legit, i realised a few years ago most looks theory is bullshit because i see so many girls dating down

But idk i still focus on my looks sometimes despite knowing most women date ugly men

yeah looks is still nice for career stuff and self image. but women constantly pick and are obsessed with men far uglier than them, blackpill theory for smv is meaningless as it's not consistently reliable or useful to follow.

 

[Johanjohan]

yeah looks is still nice for career stuff and self image. but women constantly pick and are obsessed with men far uglier than them, blackpill theory is meaningless as it's not consistently reliable or useful to follow.

Idk if looks matter for career, because men will see you as competition

 

[Bipolar2Cel]

they do

Yeah they do even chicks that have "I never write first" or bitchy attitudes in their profile have done it to me soon after the match lol.. definitely happens.

 

[isis_Bleach]

have tried a really goodlooking guy on tinder (probably best looking guy in a city), and he got so many matches - but almost no girl wrote first

If a girl is so desperate for chad, why dont they even write first to that guy lol, just waitinf for the guy to do everything

gotta be cope
girls dm first

 

[Junbae]

Idk if looks matter for career, because men will see you as competition

still though, looking like a slob at work is much worse for impressions than looking good.

 

[Johanjohan]

gotta be cope
girls dm first

Yeah they do even chicks that have "I never write first" or bitchy attitudes in their profile have done it to me soon after the match lol.. definitely happens.

Hmm some do but only 10% of girls wrote first to him

 

[Lefty Rankin]

have tried a really goodlooking guy on tinder (probably best looking guy in a city), and he got so many matches - but almost no girl wrote first

If a girl is so desperate for chad, why dont they even write first to that guy lol, just waitinf for the guy to do everything

That's their wiring

 

[Johanjohan]

That's their wiring

but autists here say women are chad only and chase chad jfl

 

[isis_Bleach]

Hmm some do but only 10% of girls wrote first to him

yeah exactly. they just have high ego

 

[Lefty Rankin]

but autists here say women are chad only and chase chad jfl

In certain settings.

 

[Johanjohan]

In certain settings.

yeah exactly. they just have high ego

Maybe its a cultural thing because i live in sweden/denmark and most people here are shy and introverted

I think in usa and australia etc, women arent as shy and passive

 

[shandingo]

How do women have insane smv if all they can get is a mtn lol

SMV - sexual market value - an MTB can have sex with Chad SMV whereas the reverse isn’t true .

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Maybe its a cultural thing because i live in sweden/denmark and most people here are shy and introverted

I think in usa and australia etc, women arent as shy and passive

You're a native speaker of both Danish and Swedish?

 

[Johanjohan]

You're a native speaker of both Danish and Swedish?

I have lived in both countries and speak both languages

 

[Johanjohan]

SMV - sexual market value - an MTB can have sex with Chad SMV whereas the reverse isn’t true .

Chad is top male model tier aka 1/10000 men or so

I doubt most women can get a guy like that

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I have lived in both countries and speak both languages

Which country do you like more?

 

[Johanjohan]

Which country do you like more?

Arent you that czech guy?

 

[shandingo]

Chad is top male model tier aka 1/10000 men or so

I doubt most women can get a guy like that

Chad ain’t that rare lmao ,

 

[Johanjohan]

Chad ain’t that rare lmao ,

Legit chad is rare af

Most guys are skinnyfat manlets and ugly faces

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Arent you that czech guy?

American

 

[Johanjohan]

American

I like denmark more because it has better work hours better politics and better future. But theres almost no difference between swedish and danish people

I will probably move back there later when i finish this career thing, its always good to have that option

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I like denmark more because it has better work hours better politics and better future. But theres almost no difference between swedish and danish people

I will probably move back there later when i finish this career thing

My father in law worships counties like Sweden and Finland because of their social benefits. I don't think he understands how that couldn't just work everywhere.

 

[Whatever]

I’ve been messaged first plenty of times, I’ve found that the few girls who are serious about meeting up will either message you first or jump on your first message.

But even that’s no guarantee of anything, usually it’s just them typing shit. Even LTBs are juggling hundreds of matches and DMs so they don’t put much stake in any single one, not even Chads, not even celebrities. Like when a juggler drops a ball but just keeps juggling.

 

[iblamerickyd]

have tried a really goodlooking guy on tinder (probably best looking guy in a city), and he got so many matches - but almost no girl wrote first

If a girl is so desperate for chad, why dont they even write first to that guy lol, just waitinf for the guy to do everything

cause mtb has higher SMV than chad

 

[Johanjohan]

cause mtb has higher SMV than chad

Yet most of them date ltn-mtn

 

[Johanjohan]

I’ve been messaged first plenty of times, I’ve found that the few girls who are serious about meeting up will either message you first or jump on your first message.

But even that’s no guarantee of anything, usually it’s just them typing shit. Even LTBs are juggling hundreds of matches and DMs so they don’t put much stake in any single one, not even Chads, not even celebrities. Like when a juggler drops a ball but just keeps juggling.

Ye i think most of them have many guys writing on tinder, and even if a guy is the best looking, most women are passive and have egos

Some women rather sleep with a mtn who is funny and can lead the conversation, than a passive goodlooking guy idk

 

[iblamerickyd]

Yet most of them date ltn-mtn

they settle for mtn. ltns are invisible to mtbs. After they rack up a body count they settle down with oofy. if they crave it again, they will open up the relationship.

 

[Johanjohan]

they settle for mtn. ltns are invisible to mtbs. After they rack up a body count they settle down with oofy. if they crave it again, they will open up the relationship.

Hmm some women date ltn (average guy) too

 

[iblamerickyd]

Hmm some women date ltn (average guy) too

the women you're talking about are most likely ltbs (average women) settling for average guy. they will not even look in their lookmatch's direction at first, but when she craves money and stability she gives him a chance.

 

[Johanjohan]

the women you're talking about are most likely ltbs (average women) settling for average guy. they will not even look in their lookmatch's direction at first, but when she craves money and stability she gives him a chance.

Tales from india

I see so many fucking teen girls with manlets and average guys from their school

And i see lots of women dating average guys

 

[iblamerickyd]

Tales from india

I see so many fucking teen girls with manlets and average guys from their school

And i see lots of women dating average guys

hmmm idk you might be right... I might be watching too much rehab room also I live in the west.

 

[Whatever]

Ye i think most of them have many guys writing on tinder, and even if a guy is the best looking, most women are passive and have egos

Some women rather sleep with a mtn who is funny and can lead the conversation, than a passive goodlooking guy idk

I think most girls don’t usually wanna bother with some guy off a dating app, for them to actually take the apps seriously they need to be either going through some phase (most girls are slutty only in phases, not all the time) and/or they don’t currently have access to a guy they like in their social circles.

Basically for most girls dating apps are different kinds of side quests, the main quest is guys they know in real life.

 

[Johanjohan]

I think most girls don’t usually wanna bother with some guy off a dating app, for them to actually take the apps seriously they need to be either going through some phase (most girls are slutty only in phases, not all the time) and/or they don’t currently have access to a guy they like in their social circles.

Basically for most girls dating apps are different kinds of side quests, the main quest is guys they know in real life.

hmm sounds like incel cope, lots of girls meet guys from tinder

But why do they not even write first even to a top chad? And just wait for him to write first?

 

[Suicidalcel]

because they have huge inflated egos and a ton of guys dming her maybe even other chads dming her first so why would she bother entertaining you

 

[Johanjohan]

because they have huge inflated egos and a ton of guys dming her maybe even other chads dming her first so why would she bother entertaining you

Most of them are dating ltn-mtn yet act like divas lol