If women wants chad so bad, why dont they write first on tinder

[Whatever]

hmm sounds like incel cope, lots of girls meet guys from tinder

But why do they not even write first even to a top chad? And just wait for him to write first?

I didn’t say they didn’t meet them, I said they don’t take them seriously, that can mean hooking up once or twice when she’s in some phase and then it’s forgotten about. And as I said in my other post they do message first, if they don’t do that or don’t jump on your first message then you’re just background noise to her.

 

[Johanjohan]

I didn’t say they didn’t meet them, I said they don’t take them seriously, that can mean hooking up once or twice when she’s in some phase and then it’s forgotten about. And as I said in my other post they do message first, if they don’t do that or don’t jump on your first message then you’re just background noise to her.

idk tbh I tried a very goodlooking guy on tinder, who got many matches, and when just writing to girls most of them just write basic shit and basically expect the guy to carry the whole conversation

I think its a nordic thing because people here are very introverted/shy, I think the problem is im reading shit from american users where people are much more extroverted

 

[Suicidalcel]

Most of them are dating ltn-mtn yet act like divas lol

yeah they have inflated ego, society validates them since early on and every other guy thirsting over them too

you cannot fathom the amount of attention they get on tinder, they probably forget they matched with a chad from it

 

[Suicidalcel]

idk tbh I tried a very goodlooking guy on tinder, who got many matches, and when just writing to girls most of them just write basic shit and basically expect the guy to carry the whole conversation

I think its a nordic thing because people here are very introverted/shy, I think the problem is im reading shit from american users where people are much more extroverted

it's not a nordic thing trust me it's universal, girls just expect you to make all the effort in courting them

 

[Johanjohan]

yeah they have inflated ego, society validates them since early on and every other guy thirsting over them too

you cannot fathom the amount of attention they get on tinder, they probably forget they matched with a chad from it

i know man, they get lots of ltn-mtn guys writing

I have checked tinder as a girl and it wasnt many goodlooking guys at all, but most guys there write first to the girl

 

[Johanjohan]

it's not a nordic thing trust me it's universal, girls just expect you to make all the effort in courting them

I remember last year I had an american girl who was visiting my country and she hit on me when I was waiting at the train stop and was talking to me for 1-2 hours on the train

I have never experienced that with a nordic person, they are so shy and introverted

 

[Lowtiertroll]

have tried a really goodlooking guy on tinder (probably best looking guy in a city), and he got so many matches - but almost no girl wrote first

If a girl is so desperate for chad, why dont they even write first to that guy lol, just waitinf for the guy to do everything

Retards selfcentered

 

[Whatever]

idk tbh I tried a very goodlooking guy on tinder, who got many matches, and when just writing to girls most of them just write basic shit and basically expect the guy to carry the whole conversation

I think its a nordic thing because people here are very introverted/shy, I think the problem is im reading shit from american users where people are much more extroverted

I don’t think it’s a cultural thing, I promise that can happen in America too and people have done Tinder experiments all around the world and reported that same exact thing.

Probably the guy you used is good looking enough to pass a lot of the girls’ first test, matching is like a pass/fail test. Having the girl be serious about you is something more than that, and requires more than just looks, she has to be in the mood for you at that exact moment.