If you are average do you think the "Act mysterious and wait for her to come to me" will ever work?

[Deleted member 19944]

Basically (as an averagecel) the whole "be alpha and quiet" shit wouldn't work.

I'd have to be a nerd, and be in circles where people aren't always dog vs dog mentality, where the aloof alpha always dominates.
If I were to pull that game I wouldn't pull the proper bitches.
I could steal jokes, max money, etc. and create a civilized version of depicting alpha people as low class.
But this is a niche thing.
The idea an average entertaining esoteric person (who wants to hook girls because of esotericism by being at best htn, and nice maxxxing) person, still means you have to pretend your pride isn't on the line because it isn't always going to work.
Basically you'll have to be a little bitch. Eventually a jock or redneck will shit test you for being real. In which case you gtfo as most people would.
Everything will be a hail mary, and you'll have to train yourself to be ego sensitive, and then not. Basically in a no-win scenario play sour grapes.

To cover up the tryhard energy would be also hard. But basically hope that trying really hard being funny, talking your mouth off, avoiding alphas (act like you are leftist, not interested in competition, be witty/ cultured over them, Having a lot in common, and hoping something would stick romantically as only so few people would have that in common. Hoping that what a person has in common, or has valuably will close the gaps. Larping mystery until life presents things that show your weakness like too many chads in the room. etc.

 

[Deleted member 19944]

I just wonder if music, being into certain things, etc. can close all the gaps somehow. But does it generate attraction? pretending to be ignorant does help to a certain extent. For a tryhard, purple pill until you find something you can feign ignorance will work.

 

[DarkLoner94]

interesting

 

[Deleted member 19944]

Basically attraction has 2 styles.

Little bait that a girl is after. (an alpha or chad knows he doesn't really have to do shit) then a girl closes in on herself. Aloofness.
or
A ton of bait that the fish aren't hyper prone to caring for in itself, and pretending it's not, (money, status, rehearsing personality) and hoping a girl comes in to receive. In which case it's just pick up art but with maxxxing self awareness, carefulness, finnesse. (unlike them) And at the worst you just end up like an angry littlefinger trying your fucking hardest to jew life over when you give up. Money, dark triad maxxxing.



Nothing is more cringe acting alpha when you're subpar looking. You'll find a niche amount of girls but it's still retarded.
Ultimately women want something special. Like bones, voice etc.

Women pride themselves on being disillusioned to anyhting changeable. Nothing satisfies save for being an inherently dominant person on the primal hierarchy. Before resources were not a real commodity, having money, status was a lot.
Now the social implication is that everyone is a high tier beta provider in this artificial asf world. And a girl wants to be mysterious, different, sensible by being with the hot guy with good genes (recodifying all subpar males and their produced value in the world today as jealousy of the hot guy/ fear of darwinism).

The higher the value of the girl the more likely you run into someone whose ego is happy to be disillusioned already to anything changeable. Only average girls are careful with playing with their own reward system to feel happy with some average guy.
Producing something is somthing anyone can do (muscles, money, wit, charm, etc.) a harder thing to produce is alpha behavior (even when average) but ultimately it's still just behavior, and makes your energy/ vibe weird and unusual to women now.

 

[JBcollector]

No especially if you are scary killer vibes

 

[Deleted member 19944]

Basically average guy acting alpha will not work. The say ;nothing wait for her to come to me: is a meme if an average guy does it. But he will do it anyway as it is good reverse psychological bait implying he is alpha, and thus doesn't have to try. But it's just a sad scam. People can disguise it in status like Eazy-e would or whatever. But.

It's running away from the downside of being an open talkative witmaxxer etc. with being the opposite. But it's still prone to genetic factors being a failo. But it jsut depends on how you cover it up ofc. Running away form your own failo shadow is the inevitable fate of a subpar.


You can shift perception by saying "it's no fun being quiet and waiting" that way you can disguise your lack of stoicism with ADHD.
"not showing effort makes a girl think she is not interesting," keep feigning ignorance from the truth. That ultimately you knwo you have to try harder.

 

[Enfant terrible]

You can do it but it will be spotty and there will have to be a numbers game​

 

[Deleted member 19944]

You can do it but it will be spotty and there will have to be a numbers game​

i disagree but

 

[Sprinkles]

lmfao that be mysterious shit only works if you’re good looking to begin with

if you’re average looking and you try that shit you might as well be a background character no one’s knows about

 

[Deleted member 19944]

What does everyone think of the small/ or ugly dudes who do the mysterious come to me game.

 

[Deleted member 19944]

lmfao that be mysterious shit only works if you’re good looking to begin with

if you’re average looking and you try that shit you might as well be a background character no one’s knows about

how many do tho.

 

[Deleted member 19944]

lmfao that be mysterious shit only works if you’re good looking to begin with

if you’re average looking and you try that shit you might as well be a background character no one’s knows about

Is it better to bluff tho? because if you try to be entertaining you are kind of signalling to some girls that you are low self esteem and ahve to prove yourself.
But do you think the women sentient enough to catch that are low compared to the ones hwo will be impressed upon ratio.

 

[thereallegend]

Non NT moment

 

[Deleted member 19944]

Non NT moment

?

 

[Deleted member 20370]

wont work, you have to be a chatty cunt

 

[Kylo]

No you’ll have to perform circus tricks

 

[Deleted member 19944]

wont work, you have to be a chatty cunt

what do you think of the people who act cowboy at 5'6

 

[thereallegend]

?

You have autism. Use a hyperbaric oxygen tank to fix

 

[Deleted member 19944]

No you’ll have to perform circus tricks

Gaslight by saying "it's no fun being quiet and waiting"
"not showing effort makes a girl think she is not interesting," keep feigning ignorance from the truth.

 

[Deleted member 19944]

You have autism. Use a hyperbaric oxygen tank to fix

what i said was accurate

 

[Deleted member 20370]

what do you think of the people who act cowboy at 5'6

never caught my attention, make of that what you will

 

[Kylo]

Gaslight by saying "it's no fun being quiet and waiting"
"not showing effort makes a girl think she is not interesting," keep feigning ignorance from the truth.

As a normie your best bet is to mog her to the ground for mystery to work

 

[Deleted member 7725]

idk lots of girls approached me but i dont like when girls approach me so i never really continued with them.