If you are partying after your college years are you considered lame and wasting your prime?

[Deleted member 6186]

Heard someone say this. You're supposed to party during high school and college. If you're doing it at 26+, you're essentially wasting your prime away.

Your peers will probably have gotten into a great graduate program at some fancy investment bank or management consultant firm. They will climb up the career ladder fast, go to do an MBA or something then get an even better job. By then some might even be on the executive track at a Fortune 500 company.

Or maybe even better your peers will try being like Mark Zuckerberg where they try and create their new tech start-up where they will be paid millions after Google buys it. Or better yet, their start-up becomes BIG and by 30 they are billionaires with enough wealth to give the middle finger to anyone.

Or perhaps they become a world athlete, a great author or something.

The point is all the guys above are using the rest of their 20s to try and achieve big things. To be ambitious.

So would basically still trying to be cool in the club when you are 25+ be considered wasting your time?

Yes, I know bankers, silicon valley or whatever all do partying too. But you see most of the time thats in a way part of their job. They go to these "parties" to "network", meet the big hotshots who might be getting them their next big deal. Banging some hot gold diggers on the side who just happen to be there is just an added bonus. Your real goal is to smoke coke with that hotshot billionaire investor over there so he agrees to give you 10 million in funding.

 

[chadison]

It's your life. Do as you wish.
I don't care what people think of me anymore. So what if I'm not a famous businessman? I'd rather continue learning about artificial intelligence and space travel since that's my true passion, in the hopes I do something that pushes humanity towards technological achievements in those areas. In 10,000 years, will anything of your life matter?

 

[Deleted member 12270]

Heard someone say this. You're supposed to party during high school and college. If you're doing it at 26+, you're essentially wasting your prime away.

Your peers will probably have gotten into a great graduate program at some fancy investment bank or management consultant firm. They will climb up the career ladder fast, go to do an MBA or something then get an even better job. By then some might even be on the executive track at a Fortune 500 company.

Or maybe even better your peers will try being like Mark Zuckerberg where they try and create their new tech start-up where they will be paid millions after Google buys it. Or better yet, their start-up becomes BIG and by 30 they are billionaires with enough wealth to give the middle finger to anyone.

Or perhaps they become a world athlete, a great author or something.

The point is all the guys above are using the rest of their 20s to try and achieve big things. To be ambitious.

So would basically still trying to be cool in the club when you are 25+ be considered wasting your time?

Yes, I know bankers, silicon valley or whatever all do partying too. But you see most of the time thats in a way part of their job. They go to these "parties" to "network", meet the big hotshots who might be getting them their next big deal. Banging some hot gold diggers on the side who just happen to be there is just an added bonus. Your real goal is to smoke coke with that hotshot billionaire investor over there so he agrees to give you 10 million in funding.

I bet all these chads being successful aren’t married nor have kids, only the dumb ones do and work in low wage jobs unless they get hired to me models or actors but realistically that never happens. Ugly guys can still be successful as long as they have the IQ and don’t have children or are married

 

[Mongrelcel]

You need to get it out of your sysem - and you need to do it in your teens/early twenties.
If all you do it party, at 30 yo, then something is wrong, and you clearly missed a developmental milestone.
If you dont do it, and jump straight into you career or whatever, then you always will feel that you had missed out.

 

[texascel]

Depends of the party but i'd say no

 

[SharkTales]

Depends on if you're chad

 

[Selfahate]

Massive cope normis party still there late 40s

 

[AsGoodAsItGets]

Heard someone say this. You're supposed to party during high school and college. If you're doing it at 26+, you're essentially wasting your prime away.

Your peers will probably have gotten into a great graduate program at some fancy investment bank or management consultant firm. They will climb up the career ladder fast, go to do an MBA or something then get an even better job. By then some might even be on the executive track at a Fortune 500 company.

Or maybe even better your peers will try being like Mark Zuckerberg where they try and create their new tech start-up where they will be paid millions after Google buys it. Or better yet, their start-up becomes BIG and by 30 they are billionaires with enough wealth to give the middle finger to anyone.

Or perhaps they become a world athlete, a great author or something.

The point is all the guys above are using the rest of their 20s to try and achieve big things. To be ambitious.

So would basically still trying to be cool in the club when you are 25+ be considered wasting your time?

Yes, I know bankers, silicon valley or whatever all do partying too. But you see most of the time thats in a way part of their job. They go to these "parties" to "network", meet the big hotshots who might be getting them their next big deal. Banging some hot gold diggers on the side who just happen to be there is just an added bonus. Your real goal is to smoke coke with that hotshot billionaire investor over there so he agrees to give you 10 million in funding.

Yes, I know bankers, silicon valley or whatever all do partying too. But you see most of the time thats in a way part of their job. They go to these "parties" to "network", meet the big hotshots who might be getting them their next big deal. Banging some hot gold diggers on the side who just happen to be there is just an added bonus. Your real goal is to smoke coke with that hotshot billionaire investor over there so he agrees to give you 10 million in funding.

Hey this is the answer. When we used to club during undergrad, we were the reckless cunts causing trouble, socialising with the “table” guys. But it’d be pretty shit if I didn’t get a table these days tbh. It’s just what’s expected. Been a while though due to covid. And yes it had been mostly peer shit like pubs. But its not lame if you’re cool, because we as kids thought the older vibers were cool af. The last I partied hard was at a techno concert on mdma. That’s different from aregular club scene. But yeah you need to have something going for uourself in your life, a career / purpose. In my early 20s it was just partying tbh.

 

[volcelfatcel]

The development pill is brutal to swallow, critical years that went away because you were unlucky looks wise, and those looks caused you to act like an aspie because you havent had significant social contact because no one wants to talk to a subhuman. Gandy ascended past his teen years but his mental damage is permanent, he shows remains of it nowadays with unconfident behaviour, fidgeting, stuttering, struggle with eye contact, all because he got fucked and didn't have puberty early so he was a fat baby faced guy until his early 20s. The schools masc Chad was humilliated by foids earlier in his high school years because of his tall height and masc looks, now girls want him but he doesn't trust anyone because of his previous experience he thinks women are making fun of him and playing games, gigantic mentalcel because of it. No matter how good you look, if you were socially rejected in most of high school, that's permanent damage

You need to get it out of your sysem - and you need to do it in your teens/early twenties.
If all you do it party, at 30 yo, then something is wrong, and you clearly missed a developmental milestone.
If you dont do it, and jump straight into you career or whatever, then you always will feel that you had missed out.

 

[Lars]

just create a mix of both

 

[Deleted member 6089]

ive been invited to a party maybe 2 times. ive been to a total of 10 maybe except every time ive stepped in like an unwanted subhuman.

 

[turkproducer]

lol if you think your average peers, normies, are EVER touching 100k+ at investment banks or consultant firms

this honour is exclusively reserved for princeton graduates ONLY

 

[DicedFeta]

Nothing wrong with partying, it enhances many aspects of your life. Just gotta be smart about it. Don't go ham 3 days a week, every week. I see parties almost as investments, if a party has a lot of potential, go ham, but if it hasn't, just show up for a few hours and leave early, or don't go at all. Party trips can be really nice as well. Things isn't bad if they are what you intended, generally. Even those "productive" people you mention who don't party probably do something else equally valueless instead. Zuckerberg would probably have partied if he didn't look like a bug.