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the regret is 1000x worse

now you might say water thread but
i used to think ‘itll be fine after i ascend’
it doesn’t G. You’re the one with the dick

if you like a girl and even better if she gives you iois 99% chance that shit is yours

she’s not going to approach your mentalcel ASS. All you need to do is get your T up and realize rejection doesn’t fucking matter because theres 4 billion women
 
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Id rather rope than to get humiliated
 
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Id rather rope than to get humiliated
humiliated how? The only humiliation is when a year goes by and you think of how much of a coward you were to the point you couldn’t even speak up and go after something you wanted

You’re acting like you need to be a PUA and treat it like something complicated when its all just making conversation
 
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I am too ugly to be approaching girlsn
 
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humiliated how? The only humiliation is when a year goes by and you think of how much of a coward you were to the point you couldn’t even speak up and go after something you wanted

You’re acting like you need to be a PUA and treat it like something complicated when its all just making conversation
I can Not hold a conversation :Bruh:
 
I am too ugly to be approaching girlsn
its mostly just taking care of yourself and not being repulsive to look at

being LTN doesn’t make you hideous
ofc looks matter but presentation matters more

if you’re young you can get away with less status or money and relationships are less transactional, besides girls don’t even get crazy validation so they’re insecure
 
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all true but nighas here are not asking nobody out bro
 
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the regret is 1000x worse

now you might say water thread but
i used to think ‘itll be fine after i ascend’
it doesn’t G. You’re the one with the dick

if you like a girl and even better if she gives you iois 99% chance that shit is yours

she’s not going to approach your mentalcel ASS. All you need to do is get your T up and realize rejection doesn’t fucking matter because theres 4 billion women
You shouldn’t approach girls if your aren’t gettin iois
 
the regret is 1000x worse

now you might say water thread but
i used to think ‘itll be fine after i ascend’
it doesn’t G. You’re the one with the dick

if you like a girl and even better if she gives you iois 99% chance that shit is yours

she’s not going to approach your mentalcel ASS. All you need to do is get your T up and realize rejection doesn’t fucking matter because theres 4 billion women
Had a girl that gave me multiple hints in school and even approached me when i was walking to class, i didnt know it was her bc i didnt glance and i found out about it a month later

I will regret this my whole life😢
 
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humiliated how? The only humiliation is when a year goes by and you think of how much of a coward you were to the point you couldn’t even speak up and go after something you wanted

You’re acting like you need to be a PUA and treat it like something complicated when its all just making conversation
Cope, I still think about all the times I’ve been rejected over the years, I’ve only ever been rejected. Even after getting pretty strong IOIs it only ever lasts a few days before I’m ghosted or left on read. It’s a humiliation ritual that some of us are tired of going through
 
You shouldn’t approach girls if your aren’t gettin iois
you can just dm them if you want to root it out without there being obvious interest

thats the one that hurts the ego the least and you just move on if you arent insecure
 
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Would hv to be hmtn or above to initiate any Convo or to simply interact with any normie npc, as they will only take u seriously, care, respect nd will give a fck if u mog their bloodlines
 
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you can just dm them if you want to root it out without there being obvious interest

thats the one that hurts the ego the least and you just move on if you arent insecure
Cope woman would give their socials if a sub5 apporched them since woman don’t like to reject men or don’t like to be mean

but when you text her or even snap her you’ll see she’ll uninterested

and geuss when you come home she might even unadd you or leave you on requested :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:

irl woman tend to be shy online they don’t care
 
Would hv to be hmtn or above to initiate any Convo or to simply interact with any normie npc, as they will only take u seriously, care, respect nd will give a fck if u mog their bloodlines
No lol

No iois = don’t apporch pua is the biggest complaint a woman can receive even if a sub5 runs pua it boost her ego

sure she won’t see as nothing more than an ego boost
 
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Had a girl that gave me multiple hints in school and even approached me when i was walking to class, i didnt know it was her bc i didnt glance and i found out about it a month later

I will regret this my whole life😢
lmao your whole life could’ve been different had you just not been passive and nonchalant

that’s what i had to realize to come to the conclusion that theres so many beautiful women, and while some might not like you, that’s fine, as there are women who do who i also find attractive

i can never run out of girls to hook up with or date, simply by socializing and focusing on having the best time with them instead of being afraid to lose them

i still regret not making a move on a girl who was obviously crushing on me and had a boyfriend after the vacation. She descended all the way down from htb to ltb as well. You’ve gotta have that fucked up experience to start emotionally blunting
 
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if she loves me she will approach first
 
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Cope woman would give their socials if a sub5 apporched them since woman don’t like to reject men or don’t like to be mean

but when you text her or even snap her you’ll see she’ll uninterested

and geuss when you come home she might even unadd you or leave you on requested :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:

irl woman tend to be shy online they don’t care
im talking about girls from your school/area

if they know you already and you shoot a shot that shit can easily go in lol

im abt to add a girl 2 grades below me cuz shes cute and has the same interests lol

but at the same time keep my options open
 
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if she loves me she will approach first
cope, women don’t have balls, most crush on you and make it obvious so you can make the move, but if you don’t they’ll think you’re uninterested
 
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im talking about girls from your school/area

if they know you already and you shoot a shot that shit can easily go in lol

im abt to add a girl 2 grades below me cuz shes cute and has the same interests lol

but at the same time keep my options open
Ofc it can

Never said it can’t but you would be treated a free meal such a cope thread jfl

yes apporch the girl take her out and while she enjoys free food

mirin :bluepill: iq
 
Would hv to be hmtn or above to initiate any Convo or to simply interact with any normie npc, as they will only take u seriously, care, respect nd will give a fck if u mog their bloodlines
you can just be tall

theres more blackpilled aspects than just facial features

as much as i hate it tall guys can get away with being chopped somehow. Tall and attractive? G fucking gs🥲 atp If HGH doesn’t make me 6’2+, i’m doing LL
 
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if she loves me she will approach first
Literally kek
cope, women don’t have balls, most crush on you and make it obvious so you can make the move, but if you don’t they’ll think you’re uninterested
Serval woman have ran pua on me in the past when I was in college and I’m no Chad lol

@Menas @Orka @davidlaidisme67
 
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you can just be tall

theres more blackpilled aspects than just facial features

as much as i hate it tall guys can get away with being chopped somehow. Tall and attractive? G fucking gs🥲 atp If HGH doesn’t make me 6’2+, i’m doing LL
Yes true I also meant that, good luck with hgh
 
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because i am:lul:

why would i want a foid their braindead and inssuferable
i cant disagree, but theres gems out there honestly…maybe that’s just Belgium, but there are some attractive girls who don’t conform so hard and aren’t bubblegum chewers. Most girls are bubble gum chewers unfortunately
 
Ofc it can

Never said it can’t but you would be treated a free meal such a cope thread jfl

yes apporch the girl take her out and while she enjoys free food

mirin :bluepill: iq
who said anything about taking out? Over here we go to cafes and drink and girls pay for their own shit until you’re in a relationship

mirin transactional iq. Also no point in here is bluepilled btw. I never denied you need to meet a minimum standard or be her type. I just said that fear of rejection or insecurity with women (mostly that already clearly like you) is pointless
 
lmao your whole life could’ve been different had you just not been passive and nonchalant

that’s what i had to realize to come to the conclusion that theres so many beautiful women, and while some might not like you, that’s fine, as there are women who do who i also find attractive

i can never run out of girls to hook up with or date, simply by socializing and focusing on having the best time with them instead of being afraid to lose them

i still regret not making a move on a girl who was obviously crushing on me and had a boyfriend after the vacation. She descended all the way down from htb to ltb as well. You’ve gotta have that fucked up experience to start emotionally blunting
I always liked her and thought she is pretty, when she started giving me hints i always thought that shes scared of me and when she approuched me i was scared to look bc i didnt wanted to embarass myself.

I think about this to this day, atleast i have a lesson
 
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who said anything about taking out? Over here we go to cafes and drink and girls pay for their own shit until you’re in a relationship

mirin transactional iq. Also no point in here is bluepilled btw. I never denied you need to meet a minimum standard or be her type. I just said that fear of rejection or insecurity with women (mostly that already clearly like you) is pointless
Nga what’s the point of running pua?

Why do you want a phone stacked full of foids for no reason?

you very clearly looking for a ltr or hookup when running pua :feelshehe::feelskek:
 
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Serval woman have ran pua on me in the past when I was in college and I’m no Chad lol
nigga are you agreeing or disagreeing? I’ve had girls up to MTB do the same thing

also im speaking from a high schoolers POV
 
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the regret is 1000x worse

now you might say water thread but
i used to think ‘itll be fine after i ascend’
it doesn’t G. You’re the one with the dick

if you like a girl and even better if she gives you iois 99% chance that shit is yours

she’s not going to approach your mentalcel ASS. All you need to do is get your T up and realize rejection doesn’t fucking matter because theres 4 billion women
When ur cold approach is chilling her to the bone

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nigga are you agreeing or disagreeing? I’ve had girls up to MTB do the same thing

also im speaking from a high schoolers POV
I disagree you should just muh run pua :feelskek:

but I agree on that foids do apporch lol
 
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nga what’s the point of running pua?
i hate the word PUA, its not like im going out with the mission to get as many girls as possible
Why do you want a phone stacked full of foids for no reason?
i didn’t say all that i said having options is good. A good LTR is much more easy than slaying random beckies every week at least currently while i’m in HS and not even driving age
 
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i hate the word PUA, its not like im going out with the mission to get as many girls as possible

i didn’t say all that i said having options is good. A good LTR is much more easy than slaying random beckies every week at least currently while i’m in HS and not even driving age
You won’t get a ltr without iois :feelskek:
 
I disagree you should just muh run pua :feelskek:

but I agree on that foids do apporch lol
i didnt say that bro😂😂

the point is to not be a micro dick and be scared of girls or interactions to the point you hold yourself back from what u want outta them

i fumbled a great ltr even if now looking back she wasn’t a great foid i couldve saved her from descending to LTB🙄i got every ioi in the book and my inaction fucked me over

sure if i were chad she would’ve wore the pants but you dont want that either tbh
 
I always liked her and thought she is pretty, when she started giving me hints i always thought that shes scared of me and when she approuched me i was scared to look bc i didnt wanted to embarass myself.

I think about this to this day, atleast i have a lesson
yeah bro, but you need some exposure therapy, not in the PUA way, just in a way that you don’t overthink so much with women anymore

you aren’t awkward when you meet new guys for the first time so why would you with an attractive woman?
 
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I don't approach girls because if she isn't stalking me and kissing me on the cheek every time she sees me like my ex did I don't want her
 
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I don't approach girls because if she isn't stalking me and kissing me on the cheek every time she sees me like my ex did I don't want her
hows she gonna give you those juicy evil lips if you don’t romance her
 
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Cope, I still think about all the times I’ve been rejected over the years, I’ve only ever been rejected. Even after getting pretty strong IOIs it only ever lasts a few days before I’m ghosted or left on read. It’s a humiliation ritual that some of us are tired of going through
just be gay then like do you want to cry about it or something
 
Let's be real women know how easily it is to get the guy they want.

So if they're not making it ridiculously easy then you're prob better off not even trying.
I've gotten rejected on my one and only approach which I did after getting a strong IOI.

Not worth it tbh.
 
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Let's be real women know how easily it is to get the guy they want.

So if they're not making it ridiculously easy then you're prob better off not even trying.
I've gotten rejected on my one and only approach which I did after getting a strong IOI.

Not worth it tbh.
bro you did one approach? what are your stats like

can’t go off of a single approach g you might’ve even misread the ioi
 
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bro you did one approach?

can’t go off of a single approach g you might’ve even misread the ioi
I never rlly approach strangers cuz u never know she could be psycho haha and you know nothing abt her

Its very easy to misread IOIs when you're approaching strangers

I have been approached in bars/clubs and had girls join my gym to talk to me outside of school.
But I've always been giga autist mentalcel they would go "why did u ignore me" :lul::lul:
meanwhile I was trying to go home ASAP thinking I was ugly or smth

what are your stats like
Like 6ft 180 lbs high mtn - low htn
 

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