If you aren’t chad just do this

[JamesHowlett]

Accept that you can looksmax to above average looking and that that’s enough.

Accept that you can still have a good life being above average looking and having other things going for you (money, friends/family, personality/mentality, etc)

Obsessing over being a chad when you aren’t one will ultimately destroy your mentality and lead to a life of depression and potentially suicide.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Yeah, hopefully mogging normies is enough.

 

[Deleted member 13754]

Accept that you can looksmax to above average looking and that that’s enough.

Accept that you can still have a good life being above average looking and having other things going for you (money, friends/family, personality/mentality, etc)

Obsessing over being a chad when you aren’t one will ultimately destroy your mentality and lead to a life of depression and potentially suicide.

High iqcel. I realised last night that unless you're cold approaching being nt is 95% of pulling.

 

[zeke714]

High iqcel. I realised last night that unless you're cold approaching being nt is 95% of pulling.

Hmm. Are you a normie?

 

[Germania]

Accept that you can looksmax to above average looking and that that’s enough.

Accept that you can still have a good life being above average looking and having other things going for you (money, friends/family, personality/mentality, etc)

Obsessing over being a chad when you aren’t one will ultimately destroy your mentality and lead to a life of depression and potentially suicide.

One of the best posts in this forum, not kidding

 

[Deleted member 13754]

Hmm. Are you a normie?

I made a discovery...

So I was at a party last night and I realised that in that kind of situation (club/party/rave) being nt is nearly everything. I was about 50th percentile smv for the guys there (face/height/frame) and there were people lower on that scale than me who could of slayed everyone there (like legit...

looksmax.org

Slightly more detailed thread on the experience

 

[NoPainNoChick]

Accept that you can looksmax to above average looking and that that’s enough.

What if I can't?

 

[JamesHowlett]

What if I can't?

Vast majority of men with hardmaxxing + softmaxxing to the fullest can reach above average. You need to be near deformed to not, which is only a minority of men.

 

[NoPainNoChick]

Vast majority of men with hardmaxxing + softmaxxing to the fullest can reach above average. You need to be near deformed to not, which is only a minority of men.

I hope so. But some stuff is complicated or impossible to fix (eyes, ratios), so sometimes I have doubts.
I don't care about being Chad, I just want to stop being the ugly guy on every group photos.

 

[Deleted member 13824]

I will be chad when i have square jaw

 

[JamesHowlett]

I hope so. But some stuff is complicated or impossible to fix (eyes, ratios), so sometimes I have doubts.
I don't care about being Chad, I just want to stop being the ugly guy on every group photos.

You can be above average looking without perfect eyes.

 

[ilyess]

i can looksmax to chad, and i will eventually mean hopefully

 

[Deleted member 9890]

Accept that you can looksmax to above average looking and that that’s enough.

Accept that you can still have a good life being above average looking and having other things going for you (money, friends/family, personality/mentality, etc)

Obsessing over being a chad when you aren’t one will ultimately destroy your mentality and lead to a l

this

 

[Deleted member 9890]

unironically you need to be delusional that you are the shit in every way

while we can be objective and measure looks, you don't want to be comparing yourself like that to others in day to day life

you just want to be deluded you are completely the shit

completely inside your own reality

 

[JamesHowlett]

unironically you need to be delusional that you are the shit in every way

while we can be objective and measure looks, you don't want to be comparing yourself like that to others in day to day life

you just want to be deluded you are completely the shit

completely inside your own reality

Literally just be confident

Confidence is very important, chads not needing it doesn’t disprove the importance of it.

It’s like saying hair doesn’t matter because Meeks exists; retarded logic that will get you nowhere.

 

[ratiorichard]

great thread.

 

[Deleted member 2275]

cope, living the chad life is literally the only life worth living

 

[NYCcel]

Delusional
How can looksmaxers ever be satisfied coping as a PSL3 after taking the
If you are going to cope so hard without ascending then why even bother looksmaxing

 

[JamesHowlett]

cope, living the chad life is literally the only life worth living

Enjoy your depression

 

[Deleted member 2275]

Enjoy your depression

If you develop depression from the truth it was over regardless, enjoy the day to day cope, it always runs out.

 

[JamesHowlett]

If you develop depression from the truth it was over regardless, enjoy the day to day cope, it always runs out.

Imagine thinking you aren’t depressed when obsessing about chad

 

[Deleted member 2275]

Imagine thinking you aren’t depressed when obsessing about chad

seems like projection

 

[JamesHowlett]

seems like projection

Probably not mate, seeing as I’m saying you should do the opposite

 

[CursedOne]

Chad or death.
I want stacey not becky.

 

[Deleted member 13197]

unironically you need to be delusional that you are the shit in every way

while we can be objective and measure looks, you don't want to be comparing yourself like that to others in day to day life

you just want to be deluded you are completely the shit

completely inside your own reality

 

[Deleted member 2275]

Probably not mate, seeing as I’m saying you should do the opposite

no one said anything other than obsessing about chad other than you

 

[JamesHowlett]

Chad or death.
I want stacey not becky.

Username checks out

 

[assuming..]

I suppose men have accurately perceived that nothing they do will really matter to women unless they first meet the physical standard of chad. If you make art she will not be moved by it unless you are chad (what are female fans really always at concerts for? And yes, fame is a "chad" halo). Your personality and your interests and all their fine quirks dont register to her unless you're chad. Your profession is not glorified, but just seen as the cope of a subpar man if you're not chad. Your approach has all the effect of a 5 year old tugging on your clothes to get your attention if you're not chad

The "average" (99%) man largely lacks the ability to mesmerize a woman the way a much much broader pool of women can the average man. And for many that experience of mesmerization, having an effect on someone, is kind of the whole point. Sure you can do things, you can do and be whatever you want in life. But it will never be real in a foid's eyes unless you first meet a list of physical attributes.

Which makes the backlash against PSL and rating faces/bodies all the more baffling. All it's doing is mapping out how the unspoken female psyche/gaze has been analyzing the male all these years. It's clearly not men rating other men thru the male gaze and trying to only appeal to each other or whatever ridiculous criticism

Perhaps the whitepill out of this was that men will still always be obviously superior to women anyways, in strength, intellectual ability, creativity, leadership, etc, and you should never truly feel inferior to them, regardless of whether she perceives chads to be superior to you. Unfortunately this whitepill is always dashed by the blackpill that no matter his strength or resolve the average man will never be able to fight a woman that has the power of government and media backing her, and that women and their wombs will still always hold more value (due to their limited/inferior reproductive capabilities ironically enough)