If you didn't build a social circle in school then you're royally fucked

[Prettyboy]

The first few weeks of college is really important, most people form their small groups during that period and stick with those people later on

 

[BoneDensity]

It's over. I realized this too late. I'll have to make up for it in university.

How do you go through school without mates? Must be hard af

 

[NuclearBrainReturns]

Bro this is cope.

Most people move in their lifetime and all manage to get a new social circle.

Accept you are just weird socially and stop creating all these copes XD

Most people don't have contact with their high school friendgroup anymore

Nonsense. I still speak to my buddies. People ive known since i was 5

 

[Deleted member 21044]

How do you go through school without mates? Must be hard af

I had one good friend and then he left. No backup. Fucking over.

 

[Tusseleif]

I have aspergers, adhd and have symptoms of schizoid personality disorder (or I have been misdiagnosed and have that over aspergers, Idk)

I never stood a chance tbh, I’ve always been and felt like an alien in public settings and in groups

 

[BeenLMSsinceMSN]

Water tbh being a normie with a functioning social circle beats being a loner chad. girls will even leave a Chad once they find out he is aspie

 

[Deleted member 19442]

Bro this is cope.

Most people move in their lifetime and all manage to get a new social circle.

Accept you are just weird socially and stop creating all these copes XD

Most people don't have contact with their high school friendgroup anymore

This and OP are both true in a way. non-NTs can’t really make new friends and start/join groups. So you have to rely on highschool bros. I’d go further but I don’t want to expose myself

 

[Deleted member 19442]

Its over for you because you didn't do anything in school just - sat around doing schoolwork and homework . I said school is the best time for making deep friendships not overall the best time of your life. You got so hurt that you couldn't even read properly, work on your reading comprehension.

When I mentioned how school is a fantastic time for making friends , all you could think of was this:


Because that is all you did You couldn't even fathom that people hang out and socialise in school and after. Like it didn't even cross your mind

Make up whatever stories you want about your "social circles" or whatever but your actions speak louder than your words.


Of course I was redpilled in school wdym? Everyone is because it works. When you're in school naive JBs who don't know their smv yet are easy game. But you wouldn't know that because you didn't get any and instead you were brutally blackpilled from a young age. Again your actions speaking louder than your words. Never began bro ahahahaha

Middle school is kind of, well, mid but the 15-18 stage is where you should be doing all sorts of bullshit, if you missed out on this stage of life then you’re fucked tbh. You’ll be trying to make friends in uni but what are you going to talk about? Rotting all day? You won’t be able to relate with anyone

 

[sergeant blackpill]

True true, you can get a new social circle in uni though but it's just not the same, people are not as excited anymore, partying becomes more like a chore for most normies post high school and it just never becomes the same as the unhinged parties that would go on in high school.

 

[fukmylyf]

The first few weeks of college is really important, most people form their small groups during that period and stick with those people later on

literally its like the first 2 weeks. And little things like who u sit beside on the first day can determine the next 4 years of ur life. Brutal
I treat that shit like a mission now.

 

[stamaster21]

Bro this is cope.

Most people move in their lifetime and all manage to get a new social circle.

Accept you are just weird socially and stop creating all these copes XD

Most people don't have contact with their high school friendgroup anymore

i hate to admit it, most people don't have contact with highschool friends after graduation they slowly drift apart. folks move on to form new social circles in college, and even after college only a few folks still stay in contact. This cope of if you don't have a social circle in highschool your doomed for life is major cope.

 

[thereallegend]

This is why nichemaxxing is important.
Find out what your lane is and go all the way

 

[HighClassMaxing]

I know I don't belong anywhere except on these forums with other guys who are fucked up like me.

Better than normies no cope

U just need normies to make money/get jobs

 

[HighClassMaxing]

Bro this is cope.

Most people move in their lifetime and all manage to get a new social circle.

Accept you are just weird socially and stop creating all these copes XD

Most people don't have contact with their high school friendgroup anymore

Coooooooooooope

 

[HighClassMaxing]

you can still build one, but imo it doesn't compare to the friends you make during childhood and adolescence. School is overrated though. My closest friends were kids who grew up on the same block. You just need to be in a situation where you can hang out everyday. Closest thing as an adult is living on campus at uni.

I don’t live on campus it’s over

 

[HighClassMaxing]

School is for social gatherings. You talk all the time, hang out after school , play sports together , run game on chicks together, try drugs for the first time, go to first parties etc.

You're telling me all you did in school was sit quietly, not talking to anyone? And after school you sat at home doing homework all the time?

Lol no wonder you're coping so hard here . You were the weirdo that couldn't make any friends in school !


That means that any time you experience later on is perceived as shorter than if you were to experience it earlier. A year from 25-26 is relatively a smaller % of your overall life at that point than a year 12-13 and so on.

Its over for you , you can cope all you want because you squandered the best time of your life for making deep , lasting friendships. Have fun hanging out with Matt from accounting .

 

[HighClassMaxing]

It's over. I realized this too late. I'll have to make up for it in university.

You can’t. THE LAST NAIL OF YOUR COFFIN IS SLAMMED AT YOUR HS GRADIUATION PARTY.

 

[HighClassMaxing]

The first few weeks of college is really important, most people form their small groups during that period and stick with those people later on

And if ur not nt you aren’t going to get in any group (fucking over rope asap)

 

[Deleted member 17920]

i hope college isn’t too late

 

[GandyIsNormie]

I had a social circle in HS yet still felt like this, although it took me a while to actually realize it.

The truth is that most of us aren't normal jfl.

 

[HighClassMaxing]

True true, you can get a new social circle in uni though but it's just not the same, people are not as excited anymore, partying becomes more like a chore for most normies post high school and it just never becomes the same as the unhinged parties that would go on in high school.

 

[racoon4]

Giga cope. Only women have big social circles. Men are lucky to have a couple of friends