If you don't have many friends

[DJ Shekemba]

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Lol also

 

[Deleted member 6380]

Brutal anxietypill, mogged more than half of my senior high school class, too bad I was and still am a nervous wreck when it comes to women and social situations in general

Peope can sense when you speak weird yknow

 

[Deleted member 2684]

Peope can sense when you speak weird yknow

Yeah, besides the fact I have mostly aspie hobbies to talk about

 

[Pietrosiek]

i have friends here and on discord, thats enought for me ngl

 

[Htobrother]

True true, but remember that really gl people could be completely isolated loners, a hermit in some mountain even and they'd still be considered more attractive than an ugly sperg with a few party buddies next door.

Im an antisocial personalitycel who thinks deeply when he is alone and doesn’t need anyone
But get bothered which I don’t mind people think I hate them even if I dont

 

[Deleted member 7823]

My issue is i dont talk at all. My brain freezes around people.

 

[innervoid765]

If you don't have many friends it's because:

1. There's nothing interesting about you, i.e. you are dumb(low-iq, easy to pick on)/no one can relate to you (no common/agreaable topics)
2. You are repulsive, you have a deformity/condition which makes you smell and or you smell in general (natural instincts)
3. You refuse to have company, i.e. you push people away(adhd)/you are not agreeable at all(autism)
4. You don't exist, i.e. there is no "you", you have not been created and you are not real or an illusion, you simply aren't, if that makes sense
5. You have negative status*; People don't hold you in high regard, *;and by negative status i meant, you bring down the status of those that hang out with you, i.e. you taint their status thuse none hangs out with you.
6. You are deluded, you do have friends you just don't consider them as such.
7. You speak too much, lol i know this is a small topic but still, this can get annoying

I can elab on all of these because i personally have adhd, have 1 relative with autism, and multiple neurotypical friends.

It is still a mystery to me that if someone is born neurotypical, and if some trauma can render them incapable of being that.

The reason it is a mystery to me is because, i don't know the true extent to which non-nt people and nt people are different, because

1. I am not neurotypical, never have been, and don't know how they think [ISPOILER]Because i don't know the true extent to which my adhd renders me incapable of achieving what neurotypical people achieve[/ISPOILER]
2. Many charasteristics of ADHD can be confused with normal things people are born with, such as easily getting angry And so on and so forth

Tagging high iq cels and people this is relevant to @personalityinkwell @disillusioned @BIGDICCJIM @datboijj thoughts? can you elab on this.

I feel like looks definitely play a role in people wanting to befriend you even when it comes to guys making friends with other guys. And its not even gay, even me personally. I gravitate towards chads for friendships because I feel cooler hanging around them idk why. They just have more charisma. Idk i think subconsciously I'm hoping some of his chaddiness rubs off on me

 

[weallburninhell]

If you don't have many friends it's because:

1. There's nothing interesting about you, i.e. you are dumb(low-iq, easy to pick on)/no one can relate to you (no common/agreaable topics)
2. You are repulsive, you have a deformity/condition which makes you smell and or you smell in general (natural instincts)
3. You refuse to have company, i.e. you push people away(adhd)/you are not agreeable at all(autism)
4. You don't exist, i.e. there is no "you", you have not been created and you are not real or an illusion, you simply aren't, if that makes sense
5. You have negative status*; People don't hold you in high regard, *;and by negative status i meant, you bring down the status of those that hang out with you, i.e. you taint their status thuse none hangs out with you.
6. You are deluded, you do have friends you just don't consider them as such.
7. You speak too much, lol i know this is a small topic but still, this can get annoying

I can elab on all of these because i personally have adhd, have 1 relative with autism, and multiple neurotypical friends.

It is still a mystery to me that if someone is born neurotypical, and if some trauma can render them incapable of being that.

The reason it is a mystery to me is because, i don't know the true extent to which non-nt people and nt people are different, because

1. I am not neurotypical, never have been, and don't know how they think [ISPOILER]Because i don't know the true extent to which my adhd renders me incapable of achieving what neurotypical people achieve[/ISPOILER]
2. Many charasteristics of ADHD can be confused with normal things people are born with, such as easily getting angry And so on and so forth

Tagging high iq cels and people this is relevant to @personalityinkwell @disillusioned @BIGDICCJIM @datboijj thoughts? can you elab on this.

Imagine seeking friends in this competive world

 

[Deleted member 10172]

If you don't have many friends it's because:

1. There's nothing interesting about you, i.e. you are dumb(low-iq, easy to pick on)/no one can relate to you (no common/agreaable topics)
2. You are repulsive, you have a deformity/condition which makes you smell and or you smell in general (natural instincts)
3. You refuse to have company, i.e. you push people away(adhd)/you are not agreeable at all(autism)
4. You don't exist, i.e. there is no "you", you have not been created and you are not real or an illusion, you simply aren't, if that makes sense
5. You have negative status*; People don't hold you in high regard, *;and by negative status i meant, you bring down the status of those that hang out with you, i.e. you taint their status thuse none hangs out with you.
6. You are deluded, you do have friends you just don't consider them as such.
7. You speak too much, lol i know this is a small topic but still, this can get annoying

I can elab on all of these because i personally have adhd, have 1 relative with autism, and multiple neurotypical friends.

It is still a mystery to me that if someone is born neurotypical, and if some trauma can render them incapable of being that.

The reason it is a mystery to me is because, i don't know the true extent to which non-nt people and nt people are different, because

1. I am not neurotypical, never have been, and don't know how they think [ISPOILER]Because i don't know the true extent to which my adhd renders me incapable of achieving what neurotypical people achieve[/ISPOILER]
2. Many charasteristics of ADHD can be confused with normal things people are born with, such as easily getting angry And so on and so forth

Tagging high iq cels and people this is relevant to @personalityinkwell @disillusioned @BIGDICCJIM @datboijj thoughts? can you elab on this.

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If you don't have many friends it's because:

1. There's nothing interesting about you, i.e. you are dumb(low-iq, easy to pick on)/no one can relate to you (no common/agreaable topics)
2. You are repulsive, you have a deformity/condition which makes you smell and or you smell in general (natural instincts)
3. You refuse to have company, i.e. you push people away(adhd)/you are not agreeable at all(autism)
4. You don't exist, i.e. there is no "you", you have not been created and you are not real or an illusion, you simply aren't, if that makes sense
5. You have negative status*; People don't hold you in high regard, *;and by negative status i meant, you bring down the status of those that hang out with you, i.e. you taint their status thuse none hangs out with you.
6. You are deluded, you do have friends you just don't consider them as such.
7. You speak too much, lol i know this is a small topic but still, this can get annoying

I can elab on all of these because i personally have adhd, have 1 relative with autism, and multiple neurotypical friends.

It is still a mystery to me that if someone is born neurotypical, and if some trauma can render them incapable of being that.

The reason it is a mystery to me is because, i don't know the true extent to which non-nt people and nt people are different, because

1. I am not neurotypical, never have been, and don't know how they think [ISPOILER]Because i don't know the true extent to which my adhd renders me incapable of achieving what neurotypical people achieve[/ISPOILER]
2. Many charasteristics of ADHD can be confused with normal things people are born with, such as easily getting angry And so on and so forth

Tagging high iq cels and people this is relevant to @personalityinkwell @disillusioned @BIGDICCJIM @datboijj thoughts? can you elab on this.

You don't exist, i.e. there is no "you", you have not been created and you are not real or an illusion, you simply aren't, if that makes sense

what do u mean by this?

 

[Deleted member 6380]

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You don't exist, i.e. there is no "you", you have not been created and you are not real or an illusion, you simply aren't, if that makes sense

what do u mean by this?

Legit what it means, most people would intrpret it as you are invisble, but thats what it means

 

[Deleted member 10172]

Legit what it means, most people would intrpret it as you are invisble, but thats what it means

How does someone stop being invisible?

How would u recommend making friends?

 

[CFW432]

First of all there is literally NO SUCH THING "FRIENDS" just people who mutually benefit from each other in some way. Sure guys don't care about other males looks AS MUCH AS FEMALES, but they still do care about them to a certain degree. It's a type of self serving care, guys don't want to hang out with or be seen other dudes who are significantly uglier than them (I'm sure its the same with females too) as it results in an associated lower perceived smv and social status by the opposite sex if you are seen with an uglier person.

Everyone already knows (especially females) that unless an ugly person is statusmaxxed or wealthmaxxed individual, then your average uggo is perceived as a low status wretch that no one likes therefore has no status. If you are an average looking guy or even above average looking guy why would you willingly want to hang out with a man that clearly has low status, unless you were low status yourself. This is literally is literally how the female subconscious works and this is how they think.


HOWEVER, this can work in an opposite way as well. Guys also specifically choose to bring their significantly uglier friend with them whenever they go out to meet girls so that they can they mog said "friend" in front of those girls thereby seeming like a more potentially attractive mate than he would normally seem were he to bring other men that were similarly around his own smv.

Do you ever wonder why guys bring the ugly friend with them on double dates? Firstly, it's so that they satisfy their bitchy female significant others request so that her own friend doesn't get jealous and lonely while they are on their date, and secondly, it's so that his OWN significant other doesn't just IMMEDIATELY monkey branch as soon as she sees his hotter friend, because foid have no compunction and will have no absolutely no problem doing that.

You have to remember that male actions in the male female dynamic are RE-ACTIVE to female actions, not PRO-ACTIVE.