If you dont want kids

Former Shortcel

Former Shortcel

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Why?
 
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Waste of money and mental health with no ROI
 
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i want kiss
 
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First -I’m a manlet
Second -don’t wanna give life to smn without his permission
Third-even if I’m rich life is always full of obstacles and don’t bring smg to those obstacles without him asking to
4-I don’t plane to marry
 
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Waste of money and mental health with no ROI

This nigga went 3 for 3 wdym no roi

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I am not capable of loving a woman or a family
 
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I want kids
 
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How is there no ROI?
What do you gain from having a child? You have to raise him up and spend a shit ton of money and he just leaves as soon as he's able to
 
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What do you gain from having a child? You have to raise him up and spend a shit ton of money and he just leaves as soon as he's able to
I cant think of anything better other than raising my own children
 
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I don’t see a reason to have any. I’ll think differently in the future.
 
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It would make me happy nurturing one, that child can become my own friend as they get older and grow with me, they can grow up to be successful and i know that they stem from me

That is the ROI
 
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I would like to raise one but the starting years are too hard. I'm also afraid of repeating the mistakes my parents did with me.
Its understandable to be afraid, but that doesnt mean it is set in stone that you will repeat these mistakes. You have the power to end such a pattern
 
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It would make me happy nurturing one, that child can become my own friend as they get older and grow with me, they can grow up to be successful and i know that they stem from me

That is the ROI
There are other methods to get dopamine
Also, whatever you're thinking of is just the jolly happy part. Actual parents know how much of a mental toll it really is
 
Its understandable to be afraid, but that doesnt mean it is set in stone that you will repeat these mistakes. You have the power to end such a pattern
I am still planning to have kids in the future, but not until I'm mentally healthy and am in a good place in life.
 
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There are other methods to get dopamine
Also, whatever you're thinking of is just the jolly happy part. Actual parents know how much of a mental toll it really is
There may be other methods, but nothing would make me happier than having kids. Having kids is natural marriage
 
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I am still planning to have kids in the future, but not until I'm mentally healthy and am in a good place in life.
That sounds reasonable. I would do the same too
 
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i do want kids, no rush though and one max. also only when i have a high stable income.
 
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