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It is fixable

I saw my og nigga @PseudoMaxxer said the same thing somewhere

Gtfih and drop some motivation for these sorry sods who think it's over
 
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Here is my brief guide from another thread:


Get on fucking nofap, it does make you more confident

However that's 1 manner of going about, the following method

where does confidence come from?


competence, self perceived adequacy

Belief in oneself. How do we aquire it?

By setting your mind to something, and following through

"I will not jerk off. I will not jerk off"

and I didn't.

what happened here? I set my mind to something, and I followed through

this can be applied to anything you care about

"I will get on ome.tv, and do live readings"

(Specific to me, but you get the point)

Second one probably was more useful

When you set a goal, and you follow through

You reprogram your subconscious, to be confident:

"I am the man, I proved it"

Confident is based upon individuation, pride in a skill, pride in a talent, pride in your sense of discipline

What happens when you jerk off daily, eat goy, cope, and do drugs?

You program your subconscious mind:

"I am a loser, I proved it"

You have to do something.

Method #2

Don't care. Look at normies not with envy, but with distain

These hopeless NPCs watch sportsball and tiktok,

I would NEVER

I am better than they are

And I would not be afraid to speak to someone who I am BETTER THAN

Meaning:

You believe others are better than you.

Perhaps they are.

Either change your mind. Or change yourself,

So you can either artificially change your interactions, or actively change your Interactions, through mental self hypnosis

Or active self hypnosis

All pertain to reprogramming the subconscious mind

in my case, I spent so much time alone, and I began to enjoy it

(The actice daily programming of interacting with people went away, leaving me blank, and prone to change, if I saw people every day, I'd remember that I'm high inhib, every day

To really forget, going solo monk mode is valuable)

I removed the need, I AM just fine on my own

if you are not... they will notice

i AM the man, are you?
 
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another thread with 0 replies; not looking so good eh? Indonesian abused dawg, keep larping
 
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another thread with 0 replies; not looking so good eh? Indonesian abused dawg, keep larping
I am Puerto Rican/ Chinese saar this is not accurate
 
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Everyone with social anxiety should hop on Nardil
 
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Everyone with social anxiety should hop on Nardil
What kind of retard would take medication for a non medical problem

This is why I voted for trump :feelshmm: can't stand these liberal views on mental health
 
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Guarantee this nigga learned all of this 10 minutes before filming with chatgpt :lul:

Bro is NOT Derek
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another thread with 0 replies; not looking so good eh? Indonesian abused dawg, keep larping
He's actually half Indian, he's your bhaijaan.
 
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Social anxiety and depression are not real

And adhd

Screenshot 20250612 112803 Chrome

I can tell from his user title, that fella has brainwashed himself into complete fear of the real world.


If you never get diagnosed, there is no diagnosis,

Stay hard
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They arent real for you because you never struggled with it.
They can be for other people
Oh I did, was prescribed Vyvanse

Was prescribed antidepressants. Can't recall the exact name

And I have real things to be depressed about, looks, height, and dead homies

Eventually I grew up

baby ass nigga using some titles to cast himself into a spell of loserdom


It's all in your head, you people make me sick
 
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It is fixable

I saw my og nigga @PseudoMaxxer said the same thing somewhere

Gtfih and drop some motivation for these sorry sods who think it's over

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i haven't completely fixed it but it's gotten better to a large extent from age 16-17. what i think happened is that i "ascended" from ltn to mtn from 15-16.5 but still had social anxiety because i was still not getting that much validation in social settings due to acting awkward (because of my existing social anxiety)

thanks to using high doses of anxiolytics (pregabalin and alcohol) at parties i was able to temporarily get rid of the anxiety which along with not being LTN anymore gave me enough validation to prove to my brain i had reasons to be confident in social settings
 
i haven't completely fixed it but it's gotten better to a large extent from age 16-17. what i think happened is that i "ascended" from ltn to mtn from 15-16.5 but still had social anxiety because i was still not getting that much validation in social settings due to acting awkward (because of my existing social anxiety)

thanks to using high doses of anxiolytics (pregabalin and alcohol) at parties i was able to temporarily get rid of the anxiety which along with not being LTN anymore gave me enough validation to prove to my brain i had reasons to be confident in social settings
Drugs can work in this context I suppose

But objectively just not wise to add dependency on drugs

My brother does this with alcohol it seems to help a bit

Though I must admit. When I was taking test, well I still am

It just boiled the bitch in my blood to death

I became an antivictim

Lot of these issues can be caused by low T alone genuinely
 
It is fixable

I saw my og nigga @PseudoMaxxer said the same thing somewhere

Gtfih and drop some motivation for these sorry sods who think it's over
It is fixable. I got over it by having a client facing job and going on holiday to Thailand for a practice gf
 
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Dnr but acid cured my autism (not really, but I actually enjoy socializing now) :Comfy:
 
It is fixable. I got over it by having a client facing job and going on holiday to Thailand for a practice gf
Brutal for that girl

"Sorry babe I'm done with the training, going back to America to find me a bad bitch" :dafuckfeels:
 
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Here is my brief guide from another thread:


Get on fucking nofap, it does make you more confident

However that's 1 manner of going about, the following method

where does confidence come from?


competence, self perceived adequacy

Belief in oneself. How do we aquire it?

By setting your mind to something, and following through

"I will not jerk off. I will not jerk off"

and I didn't.

what happened here? I set my mind to something, and I followed through

this can be applied to anything you care about

"I will get on ome.tv, and do live readings"

(Specific to me, but you get the point)

Second one probably was more useful

When you set a goal, and you follow through

You reprogram your subconscious, to be confident:

"I am the man, I proved it"

Confident is based upon individuation, pride in a skill, pride in a talent, pride in your sense of discipline

What happens when you jerk off daily, eat goy, cope, and do drugs?

You program your subconscious mind:

"I am a loser, I proved it"

You have to do something.

Method #2

Don't care. Look at normies not with envy, but with distain

These hopeless NPCs watch sportsball and tiktok,

I would NEVER

I am better than they are

And I would not be afraid to speak to someone who I am BETTER THAN

Meaning:

You believe others are better than you.

Perhaps they are.

Either change your mind. Or change yourself,

So you can either artificially change your interactions, or actively change your Interactions, through mental self hypnosis

Or active self hypnosis

All pertain to reprogramming the subconscious mind

in my case, I spent so much time alone, and I began to enjoy it

(The actice daily programming of interacting with people went away, leaving me blank, and prone to change, if I saw people every day, I'd remember that I'm high inhib, every day

To really forget, going solo monk mode is valuable)

I removed the need, I AM just fine on my own

if you are not... they will notice

i AM the man, are you?
Nofap actually didn’t help me. I tried that first like 6 years ago and it just made me way more sensitive to women which made things worse
 
Dnr but acid cured my autism (not really, but I actually enjoy socializing now) :Comfy:
Acid opens your brain up to demons ngl

My brother is literally haunted by jesters in walking daylight and hears voices

But he's a liberal so he just thinks it's an acquired disease :lul::lul::lul:
 
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Drugs can work in this context I suppose

But objectively just not wise to add dependency on drugs

My brother does this with alcohol it seems to help a bit

Though I must admit. When I was taking test, well I still am

It just boiled the bitch in my blood to death

I became an antivictim

Lot of these issues can be caused by low T alone genuinely
i think you misunderstood my reply, i'm not saying i fixed the anxiety with anxiolytics since thats obviously not a sustainable solution. im saying the anxiolytics made me able to get enough validation in social settings to get rid of the anxiety even when i'm sober
 
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Dnr but acid cured my autism (not really, but I actually enjoy socializing now) :Comfy:
I have no scientific data to back this up. But I am almost 100% sure that you can def use LSD to rewire your brain. Theres a reason why the CIA used it in mind control programs.
 
Nofap actually didn’t help me. I tried that first like 6 years ago and it just made me way more sensitive to women which made things worse
Ya did it wrong brosef

You cannot be lustful while on it

Which sounds absurd, what the fuck is he talking about?

But yes indeed, 100 days of nofap, WITHOUT OBSESSION, = God mode

You have to Transmute the lust, not let it consume you.
 
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i think you misunderstood my reply, i'm not saying i fixed the anxiety with anxiolytics since thats obviously not a sustainable solution. im saying the anxiolytics made me able to get enough validation in social settings to get rid of the anxiety even when i'm sober
Yea I understood

Though, some may end up with severe addictions and mental dependency

Believing they need it to be social

You had the right intention to begin with, which is ideal
 
Acid opens your brain up to demons ngl

My brother is literally haunted by jesters in walking daylight and hears voices

But he's a liberal so he just thinks it's an acquired disease :lul::lul::lul:
Fucking brutal. Yeah psychedelics are not for everyone, specially if your family has history of mental health issues:Comfy:
 
Mines been slowly fading ever since I started going out more. Exposure therapy is definitely not cope. It really works. The first few times you will embarrass yourself and look like a little bitch but it gets better each time. Pay attention to how other NT people act
 
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Mines been slowly fading ever since I started going out more. Exposure therapy is definitely not cope. It really works. The first few times you will embarrass yourself and look like a little bitch but it gets better each time. Pay attention to how other NT people act
Imaging getting drugs from the psychologist before trying exposure therapy relentlessly

Legit saar
 
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Yea I understood

Though, some may end up with severe addictions and mental dependency

Believing they need it to be social

You had the right intention to begin with, which is ideal
if you find you still don't get validation even when acting nt from anxiolytics then the chance of addiction is probably higher since you wont be able to get rid of the anxiety when sober

thanks to softmaxxing and puberty i look good enough to get validation now so it worked out for me, i never became dependent on any depressants the way i did from stimulants
 
Ya did it wrong brosef

You cannot be lustful while on it

Which sounds absurd, what the fuck is he talking about?

But yes indeed, 100 days of nofap, WITHOUT OBSESSION, = God mode

You have to Transmute the lust, not let it consume you.
It was a long time ago but I definitely went over 100 days and wasn’t watching porn or anything. I think it made my t levels lower so I just got extremely anxious around women because of it :feelsbadman:

But yeah nofap might work for some men, just didn’t for me. I’d also completed NNN like 5 years in a row too back then so it wasn’t a one off

If nofap doesn’t work, my advice is to get more practice with women either by paying an escort or going on holiday to SEA
 
Mines been slowly fading ever since I started going out more. Exposure therapy is definitely not cope. It really works. The first few times you will embarrass yourself and look like a little bitch but it gets better each time. Pay attention to how other NT people act
only works if you get validation, otherwise you're just gonna prove to ur brain it was right about not being able to get validation in social settings which would make the anxiety more severe

also if you already have bad social skills this is gonna be even more likely to happen which is why i recommend anxiolytics to be able to start snowballing in terms of convincing ur brain ur not a loser
 
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only works if you get validation, otherwise you're just gonna prove to ur brain it was right about not being able to get validation in social settings which would make the anxiety more severe
You have to push through and tell yourself to stop being weak. You gotta really believe it. Have that "I will" attitude. You gotta get into extremely uncomfortable social situations to learn and grow from it. That's what I did
 
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Imaging getting drugs from the psychologist before trying exposure therapy relentlessly

Legit saar
I had to stop taking my meds they were making me crazy kinda
 
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You have to push through and tell yourself to stop being weak. You gotta really believe it. Have that "I will" attitude. You gotta get into extremely uncomfortable social situations to learn and grow from it. That's what I did
i agree you have to get into uncomfortable situations but if your social anxiety is stopping you from getting validation in those settings then anxiolytics are definitely the way to go, that's what worked for me
 
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You have to push through and tell yourself to stop being weak. You gotta really believe it. Have that "I will" attitude. You gotta get into extremely uncomfortable social situations to learn and grow from it. That's what I did
Ba zed
 
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i agree you have to get into uncomfortable situations but if your social anxiety is stopping you from getting validation in those settings then anxiolytics are definitely the way to go, that's what worked for me
Going to jail got rid of almost all my social anxiety :lul:
 
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It is fixable

I saw my og nigga @PseudoMaxxer said the same thing somewhere

Gtfih and drop some motivation for these sorry sods who think it's over
No way, this gotta be a dream.

My nigga you are still here…🥹 happy to see you bro.

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It is fixable

I saw my og nigga @PseudoMaxxer said the same thing somewhere

Gtfih and drop some motivation for these sorry sods who think it's over
I stopped gaf since nothing matters anyways
 
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I literally just ate mushrooms, THOUGTH I was gonna die, and swore I will be true to myself if I had a second chance.

Turns out I only panicked and I wasn’t dying.
Now i’m living my life with permanently low inhib :feelskek:
 
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I literally just ate mushrooms, THOUGTH I was gonna die, and swore I will be true to myself if I had a second chance.

Turns out I only panicked and I wasn’t dying.
Now i’m living my life with permanently low inhib :feelskek:
Hmm multiple people saying this

Could be valid method

I worry though, those who do not regularly meditate are not proficient at interacting with the astral realm

Energetic parasites may attach to you and feed on your loosh forever
 
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Hmm multiple people saying this

Could be valid method

I worry though, those who do not regularly meditate are not proficient at interacting with the astral realm

Energetic parasites may attach to you and feed on your loosh forever
I'm one of those people who just took it for fun with no experience.

I believe the main perpetrator of my “rebirth” is due to my inexperience with interaction with such substance.

I was pushed into the corner, my brain working at 1000% thinking it is dying. I couldn’t swallow water and it went to the airway pipe and coughed like crazy. Body high was too much to handle. I couldn’t think as well.

It is a near death experience in my brain’s perspective, and that’s what pushed me to finally break my shell of insecurities.

A second chance
 
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I'm one of those people who just took it for fun with no experience.

I believe the main perpetrator of my “rebirth” is due to my inexperience with interaction with such substance.

I was pushed into the corner, my brain working at 1000% thinking it is dying. I couldn’t swallow water and it went to the airway pipe and coughed like crazy. Body high was too much to handle. I couldn’t think as well.

It is a near death experience in my brain’s perspective, and that’s what pushed me to finally break my shell of insecurities.

A second chance
Interesting

I took a lot in my youth half assed

I do think it'd be huge and probably pretty powerful if I did it now when I've already repaired my confidence
 
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Thinking of trying some sort of anxiolytic at least temporarily to train my brain (combined with nofap). I used to go out with friends a ton before I moved and I'm still giga high inhib. 90% of the time I'd be completely silent or say 3 word answers while everyone else had a blast. Also socially avoident and irritable to a fault, severe stutter etc. Never feel relaxed even when alone in my bedroom.
 

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