If you have to force something or desperately chase after someone then you‘ve already lost

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Forced effort is wasted effort in 80% of the time.
 
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forced effort in what
 
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Forced effort is wasted effort in 80% of the time.
that's why I don't bother no more with everything, over, I don't want to waste any more energy of this shitass life
 
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forced effort in what.
Socializing for example or "putting on an act".
If you don’t "flow" within the conversations or overthink too much then it‘ll get uncomfortable or weird pretty quick.
 
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Forced effort is out of sync with nature, if your efforts do not flow gracefully like water you are out of sync and doing something wrong
 
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Forced effort is out of sync with nature, if your efforts do not flow gracefully like water you are out of sync and doing something wrong
how would you fix this then since i see hundreds of messages like these, "this is the problem and ur doing something wrong bro" but then never explain how to
 
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how would you fix this then since i see hundreds of messages like these, "this is the problem and ur doing something wrong bro" but then never explain how to
When shooting an arrow at a target, you will to hit the bullseye but you miss….. why, well you are out of sync, not flowing, lacking gracefulness.
 
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When shooting an arrow at a target, you will to hit the bullseye but you miss….. why, well you are out of sync, not flowing, lacking gracefulness.
just said a whole lot of nothing, thanks
 
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everything, dating, girls, sport
every effort is a forced effort anyway unless you're 24/7 motivated which i doubt that does even exist the only thing that matters in my opinion is that if that effort will truly change something for an example no point of self-improvement if you're an incel with no potential but let's say you do have potential then the forced effort to improve is worth it maybe in social stuff it isn't because no one actually practices socialising it's just a thing that comes no amount of efforts will change it basically my point is forced effort is a waste if you won't get anything that has the same value in return
Socializing for example or "putting on an act".
If you don’t "flow" within the conversations or overthink too much then it‘ll get uncomfortable or weird pretty quick.
in that case i agree you can't change that unless you use drugs or alcohol and it's temporary
 
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ngl thats the first thing ive laughed at on this site in 2 months
see… the joke flowed, it was graceful…… your laugh was natural, effortless not forced
 
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see… the joke flowed, it was gracefully…… your laugh was natural, effortless not forced
reread what you wrote but in that motivational chinese emperor accent on tiktok you see
 
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every effort is a forced effort anyway unless you're 24/7 motivated which i doubt that does even exist the only thing that matters in my opinion is that if that effort will truly change something for an example no point of self-improvement if you're an incel with no potential but let's say you do have potential then the forced effort to improve is worth it maybe in social stuff it isn't because no one actually practices socialising it's just a thing that comes no amount of efforts will change it basically my point is forced effort is a waste if you won't get anything that has the same value in return

in that case i agree you can't change that unless you use drugs or alcohol and it's temporary
it's over for me, end of the road anyway, no effort can help me brother
 
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