
AscendBender
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And not just physically but psychologically. Some men win via mystery and silence, some men win with charm and passion. The true key to getting as many women as possible is AUTHENTICITY. You need to decide exactly how you want to look, based on the person you want to be. Once you've decided, you will find how to get there (with you already being on this forum, you have everything you need).
Then you need to truly figure out who you are in a social and romantic sense. When you truly disengage from insecurity, fears, and expectations, how would you treat a woman? Even if you're an incel, what would being in love or being in a desired relationship look like to you? Whatever that is and whatever behavior feels natural to you, embrace it.
The above is the exact reason why the black pill, the blue pill, and the red pill exist. Simply put different things work for different people. This is why you see some guys slay from having mysterious aura, and other slaying with charming aura.
The key is AURA. And the ONLY WAY to have aura is to be authentic. Simply no other way for looks, people, and everything else you want to gravitate towards you. So just figure out who you are, and become it. You may have work to do, but at least you'll know where to go
Then you need to truly figure out who you are in a social and romantic sense. When you truly disengage from insecurity, fears, and expectations, how would you treat a woman? Even if you're an incel, what would being in love or being in a desired relationship look like to you? Whatever that is and whatever behavior feels natural to you, embrace it.
The above is the exact reason why the black pill, the blue pill, and the red pill exist. Simply put different things work for different people. This is why you see some guys slay from having mysterious aura, and other slaying with charming aura.
The key is AURA. And the ONLY WAY to have aura is to be authentic. Simply no other way for looks, people, and everything else you want to gravitate towards you. So just figure out who you are, and become it. You may have work to do, but at least you'll know where to go