If you were a fat kid it never even began for you

[Deleted member 6914]

Being raised by fat parents and never being taught about nutrition and being taught horrible eating habits from birth all the way up through high school is the hardest sabotage to anyones looks and their life in general. Maybe you'd have a chance if you were around some more blackpilled people (I legit didnt even know about lifting till i was like 20) but if everyone around you is brainwashing you will bluepilled bullshit like "looks don't matter" "girls like guys with extra meat on them" etc then you never even had a chance.

Obviously I'm working to fix it now but at 23 its almost pointless knowing that even if I work my ass off and dedicate the next 2 years to becoming GL then I'll still forever be stunted from being a fat kid and a fat teenager. I'll never have the formative experience of growing up and looking at the people around me and knowing i look normal compared to them. I'll never get the experience of being a young hot person. Everyone my age is already starting to care less about their looks but I have to keep working to improve bc I'll forever be the older guy trying to compensate for the fun years everyone else already got to live.

 

[Deleted member 6113]

Waaah waaah waaah. Everyone on this fucking forum got cucked one way or another. C'mon bro no one cares. Quit whining and ascend. ASCEND MOTHER FUCKER ASCEND.

 

[improover]

I read the title

 

[dridrimo]

JFL I've been raised by a single obese mother, of fucking course I became fat in the process too. Killed my middle and high school years tbh

 

[Deleted member 6914]

Waaah waaah waaah. Everyone on this fucking forum got cucked one way or another. C'mon bro no one cares. Quit whining and ascend. ASCEND MOTHER FUCKED

you're not wrong but getting lean takes fucking forever wtf am i supposed to do in the meantime all i can think about is all my wasted youth and get mad af

 

[Deleted member 6113]

you're not wrong but getting lean takes fucking forever wtf am i supposed to do in the meantime all i can think about is all my wasted youth and get mad af

I'm actually in the Same boat. I was really writing that to myself. I feel your pain.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Same boat here. Raised by obese bluepilled parents.

My childhood was fat, bullied and rejected. Was KHHV at 23yo. I lost most of the weight in about 1 year time (15kg of fat).

The mental scars and lack of life quality in my youth never healed though. It's brutal because I was extremely extroverted as a kid and would've no doubt had a good social life and succes with women with my current looks + bone structure. Instead I was an incel outcast.

Even after ascending physically, I still regret not roping at 16yo because life has only become worse for me mentally.

 

[Deleted member 6400]

I read the title

 

[Deleted member 4612]

brutal read

parents are trash anyways

 

[ObamasLastName]

Waaah waaah waaah. Everyone on this fucking forum got cucked one way or another. C'mon bro no one cares. Quit whining and ascend. ASCEND MOTHER FUCKER ASCEND.

literally the majority of the people on this forum are only here because they got cucked in some way. This site wouldn’t exist if we all didn’t have problems.

 

[GigaMogger]

As a guy who's always been athletic, had a great childhood and experienced the bliss that was teenage love - I wholeheartedly agree with this post

 

[Deleted member 6914]

Same boat here. Raised by obese bluepilled parents.

My childhood was fat, bullied and rejected. Was KHHV at 23yo. I lost most of the weight in about 1 year time (15kg of fat).
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The mental scars and lack of life quality in my youth never healed though. It's brutal because I was extremely extroverted as a kid and would've no doubt had a good social life and succes with women with my current looks + bone structure. Instead I was an incel outcast.

Even after ascending physically, I still regret not roping at 16yo because life has only become worse for me mentally.

brutal man i'll probably feel the same but if i can truly get the most out of the next few years before i'm 27-28 then i'll be able to cope with my wasted youth. you do look a lot better tho so props on that

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

Same boat here. Raised by obese bluepilled parents.

My childhood was fat, bullied and rejected. Was KHHV at 23yo. I lost most of the weight in about 1 year time (15kg of fat).
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The mental scars and lack of life quality in my youth never healed though. It's brutal because I was extremely extroverted as a kid and would've no doubt had a good social life and succes with women with my current looks + bone structure. Instead I was an incel outcast.

Even after ascending physically, I still regret not roping at 16yo because life has only become worse for me mentally.

mirin doplhinmaxxing

but on a serious note, nice ascension man! I hope that your mentality gets better

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Same boat here. Raised by obese bluepilled parents.

My childhood was fat, bullied and rejected. Was KHHV at 23yo. I lost most of the weight in about 1 year time (15kg of fat).
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The mental scars and lack of life quality in my youth never healed though. It's brutal because I was extremely extroverted as a kid and would've no doubt had a good social life and succes with women with my current looks + bone structure. Instead I was an incel outcast.

Even after ascending physically, I still regret not roping at 16yo because life has only become worse for me mentally.

is that you in the pics?

 

[Deleted member 4612]

As a guy who's always been athletic, had a great childhood and experienced the bliss that was teenage love - I wholeheartedly agree with this post

serious?

 

[Deleted member 275]

is that you in the pics?

yes. I descended again slightly though. I naturally over-eat due to my childhood so I have to diet and watch what I eat for the rest of my life to not get fat basically.

My bodyfat % is a big jo-jo that depends on my mental state/strength.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

yes. I descended again slightly though. I naturally over-eat due to my childhood so I have to diet and watch what I eat for the rest of my life to not get fat basically.

sorry to hear that

i am an acnecel, that was my downfall

having a shit childhood is the worst thing that can happen to a man.

 

[JamesHowlett]

Literally my life story, I still only care about validation while everyone else is settling down.

 

[CommanderCope]

bruh I'm the opposite. I'm 56kg at 5'10 since I was 16 jfl. Can't enjoy summer because I'm extremely self conscious about my skinniness. I can't go anywhere without putting on a hoodie.

 

[RODEBLUR]

Same boat here. Raised by obese bluepilled parents.

My childhood was fat, bullied and rejected. Was KHHV at 23yo. I lost most of the weight in about 1 year time (15kg of fat).
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The mental scars and lack of life quality in my youth never healed though. It's brutal because I was extremely extroverted as a kid and would've no doubt had a good social life and succes with women with my current looks + bone structure. Instead I was an incel outcast.

Even after ascending physically, I still regret not roping at 16yo because life has only become worse for me mentally.

Yo what the fuck? That's a proper mad transformation

 

[RODEBLUR]

bruh I'm the opposite. I'm 56kg at 5'10 since I was 16 jfl. Can't enjoy summer because I'm extremely self conscious about my skinniness. I can't go anywhere without putting on a hoodie.

Who cares? Just go and whatever

 

[RODEBLUR]

Being raised by fat parents and never being taught about nutrition and being taught horrible eating habits from birth all the way up through high school is the hardest sabotage to anyones looks and their life in general. Maybe you'd have a chance if you were around some more blackpilled people (I legit didnt even know about lifting till i was like 20) but if everyone around you is brainwashing you will bluepilled bullshit like "looks don't matter" "girls like guys with extra meat on them" etc then you never even had a chance.

Obviously I'm working to fix it now but at 23 its almost pointless knowing that even if I work my ass off and dedicate the next 2 years to becoming GL then I'll still forever be stunted from being a fat kid and a fat teenager. I'll never have the formative experience of growing up and looking at the people around me and knowing i look normal compared to them. I'll never get the experience of being a young hot person. Everyone my age is already starting to care less about their looks but I have to keep working to improve bc I'll forever be the older guy trying to compensate for the fun years everyone else already got to live.

i was never taught about nutrition either

i never exceeded the 50kg mark

mad cope just eat less bruv

 

[CommanderCope]

Who cares? Just go and whatever

'just stop being anxious bro' theory

 

[RODEBLUR]

'just stop being anxious bro' theory

why are you anxious in the first place? i'm 39kg at 5'7''. What the hell are you smoking

 

[CommanderCope]

why are you anxious in the first place? i'm 39kg at 5'7''. What the hell are you smoking

Heavy exclusion in my late childhood and early teens fucked me up.

 

[RODEBLUR]

Heavy exclusion in my late childhood and early teens fucked me up.

i have never been invited to a single birthday party, house party, wedding, sleepover, or any kind of social event in my life

and you don't see me moaning about my body

 

[Deleted member 6914]

i was never taught about nutrition either

i never exceeded the 50kg mark

mad cope just eat less bruv

Your parents didnt feed you junk constantly and force you to "clean your plate" every meal then

 

[RODEBLUR]

Your parents didnt feed you junk constantly and force you to "clean your plate" every meal then

i already cleaned my plate myself. i ate every last bit of food there was on there. no time to be ungrateful.

also feeding junk? i grew up eating pasta everyday, then pizza everyday, and when i was like 10 i had enough of it and asked for steak everyday. so that's what i started eating everyday

 

[Deleted member 6113]

Same boat here. Raised by obese bluepilled parents.

My childhood was fat, bullied and rejected. Was KHHV at 23yo. I lost most of the weight in about 1 year time (15kg of fat).
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The mental scars and lack of life quality in my youth never healed though. It's brutal because I was extremely extroverted as a kid and would've no doubt had a good social life and succes with women with my current looks + bone structure. Instead I was an incel outcast.

Even after ascending physically, I still regret not roping at 16yo because life has only become worse for me mentally.

Thanks for sharing this. Youve made me realize how much I've been coping. My formative years were nothing but pain because of my weight. And I didn't realise how much baggage and mental scarring I have because of it. I hope you find peace brother.

 

[Deleted member 6914]

i already cleaned my plate myself. i ate every last bit of food there was on there. no time to be ungrateful.

also feeding junk? i grew up eating pasta everyday, then pizza everyday, and when i was like 10 i had enough of it and asked for steak everyday. so that's what i started eating everyday

good for you bro

 

[Chadelite]

Being raised by fat parents and never being taught about nutrition and being taught horrible eating habits from birth all the way up through high school is the hardest sabotage to anyones looks and their life in general. Maybe you'd have a chance if you were around some more blackpilled people (I legit didnt even know about lifting till i was like 20) but if everyone around you is brainwashing you will bluepilled bullshit like "looks don't matter" "girls like guys with extra meat on them" etc then you never even had a chance.

Obviously I'm working to fix it now but at 23 its almost pointless knowing that even if I work my ass off and dedicate the next 2 years to becoming GL then I'll still forever be stunted from being a fat kid and a fat teenager. I'll never have the formative experience of growing up and looking at the people around me and knowing i look normal compared to them. I'll never get the experience of being a young hot person. Everyone my age is already starting to care less about their looks but I have to keep working to improve bc I'll forever be the older guy trying to compensate for the fun years everyone else already got to live.

Muh I was fat in puberty It affected me but not too much

I'm still young tbh

 

[Deleted member 2658]

Same boat here. Raised by obese bluepilled parents.

My childhood was fat, bullied and rejected. Was KHHV at 23yo. I lost most of the weight in about 1 year time (15kg of fat).
View attachment 570104

The mental scars and lack of life quality in my youth never healed though. It's brutal because I was extremely extroverted as a kid and would've no doubt had a good social life and succes with women with my current looks + bone structure. Instead I was an incel outcast.

Even after ascending physically, I still regret not roping at 16yo because life has only become worse for me mentally.

from Low Tier Normie to upper Chadlite to lower Chad

 

[wasted]

Same boat here. Raised by obese bluepilled parents.

My childhood was fat, bullied and rejected. Was KHHV at 23yo. I lost most of the weight in about 1 year time (15kg of fat).
View attachment 570104

The mental scars and lack of life quality in my youth never healed though. It's brutal because I was extremely extroverted as a kid and would've no doubt had a good social life and succes with women with my current looks + bone structure. Instead I was an incel outcast.

Even after ascending physically, I still regret not roping at 16yo because life has only become worse for me mentally.

What did you do beside losing weight?

 

[Deleted member 7901]

As a guy who's always been athletic, had a great childhood and experienced the bliss that was teenage love - I wholeheartedly agree with this post

didn't you say before that you had to lost weight or some shit?

 

[Deleted member 7901]

Your parents didnt feed you junk constantly and force you to "clean your plate" every meal then

there 2 kind of people who overeat and eat like crazy 24/7
the obese ones and the superskinny ones

 

[Deleted member 7747]

You're wasting your time thinking about something that you have no control over. You can't control the past, you can only control the present. Stop focusing on the opportunities that previously passed you by, and start looking at the opportunities that are presented to you today.

I was greatly overweight as a child and teenager, and I'm still too ashamed to ever publicly disclose how much weight I ended up losing, but I don't allow my previous weight to be the primary blanket covering my life. You move on. Enjoy today, don't focus on the past. Investing in yourself is the best thing to ever invest in. Beauty is beauty, and will always be desired - no what matter what stage of life you are in.

In my early twenties after I lost the weight, had the surgeries, and had the fillers, I realised that I didn't get to experience a normal adolescence like everyone else; which I now I wanted, and wanted big time. And so I made a pact with myself to enjoy life and wring as much pleasure as I can out of it. My lifestyle in my 20s is so much more fun than my life as a teenager. In your 20s you can go to nightclubs, music festivals, and raves, splash out on trips to Europe, spend a summer in the Mediterranean, hook up with strangers, rent out hotels, have short-term flings, make mistakes, party, experiment with drugs, make friends all over the world, and do whatever the fuck you want. Who gives a shit that you were heavy in your adolescence? High school is so irrelevant once you graduate. You're just wasting your time thinking about what your life 'could' have been like...

Your adolescence may be your formative years, but your 20s are probably your most significantly influential years. This is the time when people are trying to find a life-partner, and you're setting up your career, and will ultimately shape the rest of your life. This is probably the most fundamental time to ever look your best, in my opinion. You are sowing the seeds of obtaining what type of future wife, family, and successful career you will have for the rest of your life. Quality attracts quality.

Life is what you make it, kid. Stop thinking about shit that you can't ever change. Just have fun, and start focusing on the now.

 

[BigBoy]

I feel you, I graduated high school a fat loser and I feel like I'm gonna spend the rest of my years playing catch up. Trying to make up for the lost formative years of high school and before. If I wasnt fat I wouldve remained the extroverted, dont care kid I was before. But now Ill forever be a neurotic high inhib loser.

 

[Blackout.xl]

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[Jagged0]

Being raised by fat parents and never being taught about nutrition and being taught horrible eating habits from birth all the way up through high school is the hardest sabotage to anyones looks and their life in general. Maybe you'd have a chance if you were around some more blackpilled people (I legit didnt even know about lifting till i was like 20) but if everyone around you is brainwashing you will bluepilled bullshit like "looks don't matter" "girls like guys with extra meat on them" etc then you never even had a chance.

Obviously I'm working to fix it now but at 23 its almost pointless knowing that even if I work my ass off and dedicate the next 2 years to becoming GL then I'll still forever be stunted from being a fat kid and a fat teenager. I'll never have the formative experience of growing up and looking at the people around me and knowing i look normal compared to them. I'll never get the experience of being a young hot person. Everyone my age is already starting to care less about their looks but I have to keep working to improve bc I'll forever be the older guy trying to compensate for the fun years everyone else already got to live.

If you’re not naturally skinny it was over for you to begin with. Most teens can eat a pizza drink a few beers and not get fat

 

[Blackout.xl]

I feel you, I graduated high school a fat loser and I feel like I'm gonna spend the rest of my years playing catch up. Trying to make up for the lost formative years of high school and before. If I wasnt fat I wouldve remained the extroverted, dont care kid I was before. But now Ill forever be a neurotic high inhib loser.

“I graduated high school a fat loser”

“I feel like I’m gonna spend the rest of my years playing catch-up”

“I used to be 5-5.5 PSL” - You 1 week ago

 

[BigBoy]

“I graduated high school a fat loser”

“I feel like I’m gonna spend the rest of my years playing catch-up”

“I used to be 5-5.5 PSL” - You 1 week ago

It was a short period of time during one of the 4 years. Until my bad habits caught up again and I ended up back where I started. I was bluepilled at the time so I didnt understand why people treated me better.

Idk why youre laughing, your situation is 100x worse than me. Unlike you I actually had friends in high school.

 

[Blackout.xl]

It was a short period of time during one of the 4 years. Until my bad habits caught up again and I ended up back where I started. I was bluepilled at the time so I didnt understand why people treated me better.

Idk why youre laughing, your situation is 100x worse than me. Unlike you I actually had friends in high school.

“Short period of time”

“I feel like I’m gonna spend the rest of my
Years playing catch-up”

What you wrote is a whole load of cope and mental gymnastics. I always had friends in high school, especially at the start where I was a popular kid. Idk where u got that from tbh

 

[BigBoy]

“Short period of time”

“I feel like I’m gonna spend the rest of my
Years playing catch-up”

What you wrote is a whole load of cope and mental gymnastics. I always had friends in high school, especially at the start where I was a popular kid. Idk where u got that from tbh

I feel like Im gonna spend the rest of my years playing catch up because I could have lost the weight from the get-go and been above average. I wasted an opportunity because of being fat. It makes perfect sense.

And you said yourself how people disrespected you and didnt invite you to parties. And how people would avoid you. Dont backtrack.

 

[BigBoy]

Same boat here. Raised by obese bluepilled parents.

My childhood was fat, bullied and rejected. Was KHHV at 23yo. I lost most of the weight in about 1 year time (15kg of fat).
View attachment 570104

The mental scars and lack of life quality in my youth never healed though. It's brutal because I was extremely extroverted as a kid and would've no doubt had a good social life and succes with women with my current looks + bone structure. Instead I was an incel outcast.

Even after ascending physically, I still regret not roping at 16yo because life has only become worse for me mentally.

@Blackout.xl Chad says it right here, makes 100% sense.

 

[RAITEIII]

Same boat here. Raised by obese bluepilled parents.

My childhood was fat, bullied and rejected. Was KHHV at 23yo. I lost most of the weight in about 1 year time (15kg of fat).
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The mental scars and lack of life quality in my youth never healed though. It's brutal because I was extremely extroverted as a kid and would've no doubt had a good social life and succes with women with my current looks + bone structure. Instead I was an incel outcast.

Even after ascending physically, I still regret not roping at 16yo because life has only become worse for me mentally.

What a gigachad we got here

 

[Blackout.xl]

I feel like Im gonna spend the rest of my years playing catch up because I could have lost the weight from the get-go and been above average. I wasted an opportunity because of being fat. It makes perfect sense.

And you said yourself how people disrespected you and didnt invite you to parties. And how people would avoid you. Dont backtrack.

That was towards the end. At the beginning I was Ontop. Idc anyway

Ur a rat. You’re not catching up on anything considering you’re Bengali

 

[BigBoy]

Ur a rat. You’re not catching up on anything

Projection

 

[Blackout.xl]

Projection

There’s no projection here. You’re a sewer rat, you won’t make it. I’m already ahead of u

 

[BigBoy]

There’s no projection here. You’re a sewer rat, you won’t make it. I’m already ahead of u

Ok

 

[Blackout.xl]

Ok

You’re a good man. I shouldn’t of attacked u ngl