If you were attractive to girls you would already know

[Deleted member 16819]

Like find a real life chad; follow him for a day and compare the very direct interest and approaches he gets compared to your ambiguous ioi’s (“Bro I saw that girl looking at me for 1 second. She wants my dick!!!!”) . If you have to question if girls are attracted to you it’s because they aren’t.

 

[Deleted member 16530]

Great thread

When I see guys who try to figure out “are these interactions IOIs?” I know they don’t get much flirting

If women flirt with you,you’ll know

 

[2d v2]

when u are GL people will tell you on a semi-regular basis, not just girls but random people will call you "slick". old women will call you "doll" girls will compliment you to your face at least sometimes, not all the time, but if you are out all the time it will happen.

 

[Deleted member 16819]

Great thread

When I see guys who try to figure out “are these interactions IOIs?” I know they don’t get much flirting

If women flirt with you you’ll know

I went through a decade wondering if some of those small signals were interest from particular girls. Now I know it never was because girls will literally eyerape chad; touch him everywhere; approach him; give him their number out of nowhere;..

 

[Deleted member 16530]

I went through a decade wondering if some of those small signals were interest from particular girls. Now I know it never was because girls will literally eyerape chad; approach him; give him their number out of nowhere;..

You don’t need to be chad to be honest.You can tell they flirt with you(htn etc) when it happens

 

[Deleted member 16819]

You don’t need to be chad to be honest.You can tell they flirt with you(htn etc) when it happens

True it’s just way more likely to happen to chad. But when she is attracted to you you will know.

 

[whiteissuperior]

painful pill we all need to swallow tbh

 

[BeenLMSsinceMSN]

Like find a real life chad; follow him for a day and compare the very direct interest and approaches he gets compared to your ambiguous ioi’s (“Bro I saw that girl looking at me for 1 second. She wants my dick!!!!”) . If you have to question if girls are attracted to you it’s because they aren’t.

Really feel like this should be one of the most common sense parts of the blackpill. Like 50% of guys really think they are a “mentalcel“

 

[Deleted member 15917]

Like find a real life chad; follow him for a day and compare the very direct interest and approaches he gets compared to your ambiguous ioi’s (“Bro I saw that girl looking at me for 1 second. She wants my dick!!!!”) . If you have to question if girls are attracted to you it’s because they aren’t.

In my college there's a 6'5 tallfag with wide frame (bideltoid) and veiny arms, face is htn so overall with everything combined he's probably a chadlite. He gets stared at by the foids whenever he walks into lecture. That is the only ioi I saw him getting, nothing more than that.

 

[Deleted member 16819]

don’t over exaggerate the boldness of sober girls

girls are vastly lower inhib on social media (to a very weird extent… they’re scared of doing normal shit in person yet do stuff on social media that i’d never do)

most of a chad’s attention is gonna be through girls finding out his social media and following him on IG or adding him on snap.

girls don’t even like making their staring obvious. some of the braver girls will happily make eye contact but most only stare at you when you’re not looking

chads don’t get cold approached daily by sober girls out in public and if you think that then you’re an autist

They do get approached in broad daylight I already experienced it myself with a legit chad. Only knew him for one week on vacation and he already got approached once while in line for fastfood. The girl asked from where he was from. So imagine how much more it happened to him let alone while clubbing.

And it's not just about girls approaching you. It's about the whole 'aura' that changes around women but that is something you can only notice when you are around a chad and girls; or chad yourself. Compare it to the average looksmaxer who believes he received an IOI because a girl on the street looked at him with a blank face. I mean girls are supposed to look at something while walking; so the next movable object within her vision makes the most sense. The stare she gives when she sees a chad will feel way differently though to the point chad will know "yeah that girl 100% wants my dick"

 

[Deleted member 5892]

They do get approached in broad daylight I already experienced it myself with a legit chad. Only knew him for one week on vacation and he already got approached once while in line for fastfood. The girl asked from where he was from. So imagine how much more it happened to him let alone while clubbing.

And it's not just about girls approaching you. It's about the whole 'aura' that changes around women but that is something you can only notice when you are around a chad and girls; or chad yourself. Compare it to the average looksmaxer who believes he received an IOI because a girl on the street looked at him with a blank face. I mean girls are supposed to look at something while walking; so the next movable object within her vision makes the most sense. The stare she gives when she sees a chad will feel way differently though to the point chad will know "yeah that girl 100% wants my dick"

What did this chad look like ? Could you describe him ?
Chads IRL have very nice skull shapes from all angles

 

[TheAnomaly]

Girls are obvious if they like you

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

Can confirm have HTN and Chadlite friends, girls regularly flirt with and approach them. They could be in the bathroom at a party vomiting and girls would come ask if they’re ok and stay with them. One claimed to go on military course(for losers), no phones allowed girls legit wrote their socials/numbers on paper and gave it to him.

Adds them shortly after course and roots. Dude is 16 with 50+ slays, a rotation(4 girls) and has already had a mff threeesome

 

[Matthias8272]

Can confirm have HTN and Chadlite friends, girls regularly flirt with and approach them. They could be in the bathroom at a party vomiting and girls would come ask if they’re ok and stay with them. One claimed to go on military course(for losers), no phones allowed girls legit wrote their socials/numbers on paper and gave it to him.

Adds them shortly after course and roots. Dude is 16 with 50+ slays, a rotation(4 girls) and has already had a mff threeesome

 

[looksmaxxed]

low t high trust chad cope

high t low trust chad doesn't get approached, i know, trust me.

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Great thread

When I see guys who try to figure out “are these interactions IOIs?” I know they don’t get much flirting

If women flirt with you,you’ll know

I've had blatant iois happen to me occasionally as a HTN

it is very different from those instances where i try to figure out if a girl is giving iois

 

[Ziggy S]

don’t over exaggerate the boldness of sober girls

girls are vastly lower inhib on social media (to a very weird extent… they’re scared of doing normal shit in person yet do stuff on social media that i’d never do)

most of a chad’s attention is gonna be through girls finding out his social media and following him on IG or adding him on snap.

girls don’t even like making their staring obvious. some of the braver girls will happily make eye contact but most only stare at you when you’re not looking

chads don’t get cold approached daily by sober girls out in public and if you think that then you’re an autist

This.

However, if you're not getting approached by drunk girls, then it's over.

 

[LooksOrDeath]

low t high trust chad cope

high t low trust chad doesn't get approached, i know, trust me.

no one talked about approaching

 

[Solidcoin]

don’t over exaggerate the boldness of sober girls

girls are vastly lower inhib on social media (to a very weird extent… they’re scared of doing normal shit in person yet do stuff on social media that i’d never do)

most of a chad’s attention is gonna be through girls finding out his social media and following him on IG or adding him on snap.

girls don’t even like making their staring obvious. some of the braver girls will happily make eye contact but most only stare at you when you’re not looking

chads don’t get cold approached daily by sober girls out in public and if you think that then you’re an autist

but @Amnesia said girls DO approach

maybe ur just not chad enough

 

[Deleted member 9003]

But I got rated 5.5 by Indians girls are so hypergamous that they don’t give me attention @Biggdink

Narcies.org

 

[Deleted member 16474]

Legit,

this confirms I am average aka almost invisible

 

[Deleted member 7580]

But I got rated 5.5 by Indians girls are so hypergamous that they don’t give me attention @Biggdink

Narcies.org

Noo maher is the only one who can get female attention

 

[Mako]

Obviously if you were attractive, women would want to date you

 

[Solidcoin]

use your brain for one second

amnesia once got approached by a bunch of drunk middle aged women over 2 years ago at a restaurant and from there he told everyone “women DO approach” every 5 seconds

since then he’s talked about how he struggles to get any decent looking girl from anywhere which is why he made that thread where that 6’2 twink got mad at him for taking pics of him

just walking by myself outside on the streets of nightclubs i got asked to makeout by a girl and then asked by another group of girls to go back to their unit, all in a span of 15 minutes

that doesn’t change the fact that drunk/nightlife dynamics are completely different to everyday life

women will convey surprisingly little interest when they’re sober and when they believe there’s a social risk (e.g. you go to the same gym or work -> you would still have to see each other if she gets rejected)

troll post tbh

but yh ur right sober environment is a lot different, women will whisper glance, or even provoke but never approach without plausible cause

its one of those things where the hasher the "reality" the more it is taken as truth simply based on how brutal it is

 

[Deleted member 18436]

I am pretty female dense i do well with woman with autism and transsexual autistic men i can't comment on this issue.

 

[randomuser2407]

I know I am attractive to some girls, just not online and I haven't been putting in enough effort tbh.

 

[owlofathena]

Can confirm have HTN and Chadlite friends, girls regularly flirt with and approach them. They could be in the bathroom at a party vomiting and girls would come ask if they’re ok and stay with them. One claimed to go on military course(for losers), no phones allowed girls legit wrote their socials/numbers on paper and gave it to him.

Adds them shortly after course and roots. Dude is 16 with 50+ slays, a rotation(4 girls) and has already had a mff threeesome

Post their faces then

 

[Meteor21]

Autism

 

[Deleted member 21931]

İ dont get iois i get sex

 

[Racky]

old women will call you "doll"