If your criteria of what is GL is any of the following, you're full of shit:

[Deleted member 18582]

If your way to ascertain if someone is good looking is any of the following:

• Has sex with a lot of girls
• Girls rate him highly when asked to rate
• Has a lot of likes or matches on Tinder.

Then you are lost.

 

[Manana]

At the end of the day;

It's about having sex with the highest quality women and all 3 scenarios you mentioned contribute to the possibility.

 

[khvirgin]

My criteria is

• less sex is ideal, only virgins can be chads
• Girls hate him and call the cops when he tries to talk to them
• Has only matched with 3 russian bots in 3 years (real matches = it's over, it means you're ugly)

 

[DrTony]

If your way to ascertain if someone is good looking is any of the following:

• Has sex with a lot of girls
• Girls rate him highly when asked to rate
• Has a lot of likes or matches on Tinder.

Then you are lost.

Having sex with a lot of girl (for free) is a testament of good looks. (The market decides and its outcome-based). However, the correlation is certainly not perfect. Men who are on either extreme end of the distribution (very ugly or exceptionally good looking) often have limited partner counts (can't get sex or simply married to high school sweethearts/LTR). For rest of men, the correlation with partner count is rather strong. What has no correlation however, is how other MEN rate you (male gaze).

 

[Deleted member 18582]

At the end of the day;

It's about having sex with the highest quality women and all 3 scenarios you mentioned contribute to the possibility.

Bone structure and fat distribution has nothing to do with having sex.

My criteria is

• less sex is ideal, only virgins can be chads
• Girls hate him and call the cops when he tries to talk to them
• Has only matched with 3 russian bots in 3 years (real matches = it's over, it means you're ugly)

Ignored

 

[bradpittshairline]

lmfao mf wants looks to impress incels instead of using them to have sex or climb the social ladder

 

[Deleted member 18582]

lmfao mf wants looks to impress incels

wrong

instead of using them to have sex

right

climb the social ladder

wrong

 

[PG4BINX]

If your way to ascertain if someone is good looking is any of the following:

• Has sex with a lot of girls
• Girls rate him highly when asked to rate
• Has a lot of likes or matches on Tinder.

Then you are lost.

Getting ratings from men is less important than these as they can’t judge harmony

 

[Deleted member 18582]

Getting ratings from men is less important than these as they can’t judge harmony

I never said ratings from men mattered

 

[PG4BINX]

I never said ratings from men mattered

All that you mentioned however matters as if your friends call you chadlite but women don’t call you at all then you gotta take a good look at yourself

 

[khvirgin]

Having sex with a lot of girl (for free) is a testament of good looks. (The market decides and its outcome-based). However, the correlation is certainly not perfect. Men who are on either extreme end of the distribution (very ugly or exceptionally good looking) often have limited partner counts (can't get sex or simply married to high school sweethearts/LTR). For rest of men, the correlation with partner count is rather strong. What has no correlation however, is how other MEN rate you (male gaze).

what matters is the access, more than the sex
like you said there are men married, in ltr, that dont care about casual sex
What matters is "can you get a girl and laid tonight?" "can you get more than one?"
that's why matches on dating apps count, obviously not even that is perfect, because matches doesn't mean sex (or even dates), what matters more is conversion rate

 

[Deleted member 18582]

All that you mentioned however matters as if your friends call you chadlite but women don’t call you at all then you gotta take a good look at yourself

too many unknowns for me to be able to agree

• your friends could be tategazed/davidlaidgazed or otherwise
• women could be rejecting you out of insecurity

 

[Deleted member 18582]

what matters is the access, more than the sex
like you said there are men married, in ltr, that dont care about casual sex
What matters is "can you get a girl and laid tonight?" "can you get more than one?"
that's why matches on dating apps count, obviously not even that is perfect, because matches doesn't mean sex (or even dates), what matters more is conversion rate

ok, thats an entirely different question


sexual success bears no necessary correspondence to whether you are beautiful

 

[Kamui]

lmfao mf wants looks to impress incels instead of using them to have sex or climb the social ladder

Ong niggas are fags

 

[Deleted member 18582]

Ong niggas are fags

@WanderingBurro

Sound familiar?

 

[DrTony]

what matters is the access, more than the sex
like you said there are men married, in ltr, that dont care about casual sex
What matters is "can you get a girl and laid tonight?" "can you get more than one?"
that's why matches on dating apps count, obviously not even that is perfect, because matches doesn't mean sex (or even dates), what matters more is conversion rate

I have extremely high conversion rate lol. But I also have pretty high BC. I no longer use dating apps tho. It was good for 4 years. I milked it.

 

[DrTony]

ok, thats an entirely different question


sexual success bears no necessary correspondence to whether you are beautiful

It absolutely does. Its outcome based and its decided by the market (the women). The whole reason of being good looking is to get laid with women you like, in the first place. If you want to climb the corporate/social ladder, things other than looks will help you.

 

[PG4BINX]

too many unknowns for me to be able to agree

• your friends could be tategazed/davidlaidgazed or otherwise
• women could be rejecting you out of insecurity

This sounds like cope to me, women will say it’s because of insecurities or the fact that you’re dodgy or something but it’s almost always about looks. Chad gets away with poor behaviour

 

[longjohnmong]

my criteria for whether someone is good looking is i look at them can see whether they are good looking or not

 

[Deleted member 18582]

The whole reason of being good looking is to get laid with women you like

 

[khvirgin]

ok, thats an entirely different question


sexual success bears no necessary correspondence to whether you are beautiful

Like I said it's about the access to women, not everyone want to be like Amnesia and be on tinder for ever

but how can you be beautiful if you don't have success in dating?
That's like the "gifted" and smart guy that thinks he's underachiever, he was never smart or gifted to being with

 

[DrTony]

Like I said it's about the access to women, not everyone want to be like Amnesia and be on tinder for ever

but how can you be beautiful if you don't have success in dating?
That's like the "gifted" and smart guy that thinks he's underachiever, he was never smart or gifted to being with

OP is a coping virgin who gets zero pussy (thinking it is his choice) and thinks beauty is objectively defined by "bone structure and bf distribution" even if it leads to zero real-life results with the opposite gender.

 

[Kamui]

It absolutely does. Its outcome based and its decided by the market (the women). The whole reason of being good looking is to get laid with women you like,

Flawless logic, except the fact that looks can help you in almost every facet of life

@WanderingBurro

Sound familiar?

what did I say that was wrong

 

[Kamui]

OP is a coping virgin who gets zero pussy (thinking it is his choice) and thinks beauty is objectively defined by "bone structure and bf distribution" even if it leads to zero real-life results with the opposite gender.

Having good looks and not being successful is like being blessed with high IQ and working at McDonalds, you’re basically a waste of talent lol

If you are “good looking” and not getting laid then you probably aren’t actually good looking and need to be humbled

 

[Deleted member 18582]

Like I said it's about the access to women, not everyone want to be like Amnesia and be on tinder for ever

but how can you be beautiful if you don't have success in dating?
That's like the "gifted" and smart guy that thinks he's underachiever, he was never smart or gifted to being with

because women's' sexual desire is tainted by so many factors that have nothing to do with your objective beauty

OP is a coping virgin who gets zero pussy (thinking it is his choice) and thinks beauty is objectively defined by "bone structure and bf distribution" even if it leads to zero real-life results with the opposite gender.

i don't give a flying fuck about sexual success

If I did, i wouldn't be getting jaw surgery, since that would be a shitty roi

 

[DrTony]

because women's' sexual desire is tainted by so many factors that have nothing to do with your objective beauty



i don't give a flying fuck about sexual success

If I did, i wouldn't be getting jaw surgery, since that would be a shitty roi

"because women's' sexual desire is tainted by so many factors that have nothing to do with your objective beauty"

From that statement alone I can understand you are a teenager. You dont understand women/dating and the world. You got growing up to do. I was like you at your age (sadly). I am out.

 

[Deleted member 18582]

"because women's' sexual desire is tainted by so many factors that have nothing to do with your objective beauty"

From that statement alone I can understand you are a teenager. You dont understand women/dating and the world. You got growing up to do. I was like you at your age (sadly). I am out.

Yes sir

 

[Brus Wane]

If your way to ascertain if someone is good looking is any of the following:

• Has sex with a lot of girls
• Girls rate him highly when asked to rate
• Has a lot of likes or matches on Tinder.

Then you are lost.

Why not you tell us what factors help YOU to ascertain if someone is good looking then ?

Because the 3 things you've listed don't make very much sense. Let's break it down.

1. Has sex with a lot of girls.

Fair enough this. Having a high body count doesn't necessarily reflect how good looking a man is as money, power, status and even "rizz" can come into play.

2. Girls rate him highly when asked to rate.

Girls in the 21st century are notorious for overrating females and underrating males.
If she rates a man highly, why does that not qualify him as good looking?
This is especially so if many women across all age groups and nationalities rate a man as GL. If he passes this test, he's good looking. End of.
The only time females rating males is invalid is when you can prove beyond reasonable doubt that they are virtue signalling.

3. Has a lot of likes or matches on Tinder.

How do you figure this? The data speaks for itself. Majority of the swipes go to 20% of male tinder users. Let's say it's not their looks that is not responsible for this phenomenon.
What makes this group of men special then? Their bio? Or that they put a cute dog in the picture? Jfl.

 

[Deleted member 18582]

why do my shittiest threads get the most engagement

 

[Deleted member 18582]

my criteria for whether someone is good looking is i look at them can see whether they are good looking or not

best theory so far, just one little change: i would replace the "i" (meaning you) with "i" (meaning me)

 

[redmaxx]

If your way to ascertain if someone is good looking is any of the following:

• Has sex with a lot of girls
• Girls rate him highly when asked to rate
• Has a lot of likes or matches on Tinder.

Then you are lost.

Interest from women has zero bearing on true beauty. True beauty transcends women altogether

 

[WanderingBurro]

First two I agree with. I don't take into consideration body count when for all we know there are some chimp ass looking mofos out there slaying the favelas clean or some PUA copers who only get laid by picking up homeless women and are only getting action because those said girls are just afraid of ending up back on the streets.

Asking girls to rate guys is pretty much the equivalent of putting a gun against their heads, they're sometimes honest, but they're often going to give answers they think people will want to hear. They'll sometimes overrate normies to be nice and virtue signal by calling GL guys "too douchey to approach".



However

Tinder matches I feel are a lot more legit though. No one is there to judge a girl if she swipes left or right, she'll choose purely on her own volition. Most guys are brutally reality slapped when their oofy dooy smiling face selfies in front of niagara falls doesn't get any attention whilst a chad can get all the action he wants by just taking the shittiest of bathroom mirror selfies. Most guys who slay on Tinder are genuinely GL.

 

[Deleted member 18582]

However

Tinder matches I feel are a lot more legit though. No one is there to judge a girl if she swipes left or right, she'll choose purely on her own volition. Most guys are brutally reality slapped when their oofy dooy smiling face selfies in front of niagara falls doesn't get any attention whilst a chad can get all the action he wants by just taking the shittiest of bathroom mirror selfies. Most guys who slay on Tinder are genuinely GL.

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