They must be outliers. Unless you mean hating them for not becoming a doctor or getting 110/100 on their exams.
How is this not the same? Being constantly told you're worthless and not good enough and don't deserve anything in your life? Being gaslit by cucked bluepilled immigrant parents who don't understand anything? This is the definition of horrible parenting
I don't think that's bad. They want you to do good and criticise you for not being good enough. Yeah I can understand you may consider that abusive. But they have your best interests at heart.
It's objectively abusive. Most of these kids are not lazy, they are forced to studycel 24/7, deprived of any social life, any chance at being a normal human, just to be a worthless slave. It's a pathetic existence, parents who raise their kids like this have no clue what actually matters in life. Thus parents like this are incapable of "love", they are literal insects reflecting the insect culture they immigrated from
