If you're not actively being messaged by women its over.

[Areuready]

if you have dry social media DMs you're pretty much nothing. A chad doesnt need to message women or use his personality to "pull" or "convince" a woman to befriend him. that's some real shit. Normies will never understand.

 

[Deleted member 1851]

True af. Also, most normal people have lots of groups chats and friends, besides girls ofc.

 

[Meteor21]

A lot of women message me first on Tinder but I'm too lazy most of the time to keep the conversation going. Usually hard to even get it going, fuck am I supposed to say?

 

[Moggie]

A lot of women message me first on Tinder but I'm too lazy most of the time to keep the conversation going. Usually hard to even get it going, fuck am I supposed to say?

 

[justadude]

the best looking guy that i know personally is a chadlite, and even then there arent many girls that will just dm him on insta. he shows me the girls that have messaged him and hes gotten some lays from girls dming him though. Legit have to be a solid chad to constantly have girls dming you

 

[Meteor21]

wut?

 

[BoneDensity]

Mogger avi

 

[Moggie]

wut?

Do I really have to explain it to you?

 

[Meteor21]

Do I really have to explain it to you?

Yuss!

 

[Moggie]

Yuss!

If you really are getting so many messages from girls on tinder you get bored why tf are you on this site brah.

 

[BoneDensity]

A chad doesnt need to message women or use his personality to "pull" or "convince" a woman to befriend him.

Real. Dating for sub chads is trying to haggle and convince a woman that isn't sexually aroused by you into sleeping with you. It's supposed to be effortless and is for those genetically blessed.

 

[Meteor21]

If you really are getting so many messages from girls on tinder you get bored why tf are you on this site brah.

I'd be bored regardless, I dont find it that fun, and im not chad, I still have to put in the work.

 

[Chadpreetmaybe]

I have 2-3 women constantly texting me first and talking to me but that's because this shithole has made me an autist and i won't be going back on insta without looksmaxxing

 

[Moggie]

this shithole has made me an autist

your autism brought you here brah.

 

[Moggie]

im not chad, I still have to put in the work.

 

[Chadpreetmaybe]

your autism brought you here brah.

Nah i knew about blackpill for almost 6-7 months but i chose to be redpilled because i pass the minimum looks threshold and getting foids isn't too hard for me, but this site had some actual gold looksmaxing info so i was like nothing wrong in looking even better, so i joined this and became an autist jfl, also because covid fucked me, i was giga NT pre covid but now I'm just a loner autist

 

[Meteor21]

I'm htn at best lol

 

[Moggie]

I'm htn at best lol

bdd.org

 

[Moggie]

Nah i knew about blackpill for almost 6-7 months but i chose to be redpilled because i pass the minimum looks threshold and getting foids isn't too hard for me, but this site had some actual gold looksmaxing info so i was like nothing wrong in looking even better, so i joined this and became an autist jfl, also because covid fucked me, i was giga NT pre covid but now I'm just a loner autist

mirin the descension

 

[Meteor21]

bdd.org

Dude I average like 20 matches per week, that's not super great lol

 

[Moggie]

Dude I average like 20 matches per week, that's not super great lol

If you get no matches how tf are you getting chased by women and getting burned out from it jfl mirin the inconsistencies

 

[SeiGun]

if you posted some instagram stories and dont get any reaction from female at all its truly over

 

[Meteor21]

If you get no matches how tf are you getting chased by women and getting burned out from it jfl mirin the inconsistencies

Idk where I said chased, all I said is a lot of women message first and idk wtf to say to them

 

[Moggie]

Idk where I said chased, all I said is a lot of women message first and idk wtf to say to them

You said you run out of things to say no way thats after the first message jfl

 

[Deleted member 17027]

I accidently left a girl on read, i thought she was ignoring me or smthn i go to check just incase sum strange happened
TURNS OUT she sent a message 1 week ago and it was read by me fuckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk NIGGGGEGRRRRR

 

[Meteor21]

You said you run out of things to say no way thats after the first message jfl

Are you dyslexic, wheredid I say I run out of shit to say? Lmao

 

[Moggie]

I accidently left a girl on read, i thought she was ignoring me or smthn i go to check just incase sum strange happened
TURNS OUT she sent a message 1 week ago and it was read by me fuckkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk NIGGGGEGRRRRR

over

 

[Moggie]

Are you dyslexic, wheredid I say I run out of shit to say? Lmao

A lot of women message me first on Tinder but I'm too lazy most of the time to keep the conversation going. Usually hard to even get it going, fuck am I supposed to say?

 

[Meteor21]

How me not knowing how to get the convo going translates to running out of shit to say idfk lol

 

[Moggie]

How me not knowing how to get the convo going translates to running out of shit to say idfk lol

too lazy most of the time to keep the conversation going

 

[Meteor21]

As in respond you brainlet

 

[Moggie]

As in respond you brainlet

Hey how is it going, I thought you looked cute tee hee.

 

[Meteor21]

Hey how is it going, I thought you looked cute tee hee.

Stop, I'm blushing

 

[Moggie]

Stop, I'm blushing

So what do you do, though you looked nice in the pictures on your profile, I like your eyes

 

[Moggie]

@Meteor21 you already run out of shit to say bruh

 

[JamesHowlett]

This kind of mentality is what’s keeping guys Incel; expecting girls to come to you without putting in any work.

When these guys are looking for a job they probably sit around and wait for employers to contact them.

 

[Moggie]

This kind of mentality is what’s keeping guys Incel; expecting girls to come to you without putting in any work.

When you’re looking for a job, do you sit around and wait for employers to contact you?

worked for delon

 

[JamesHowlett]

worked for delon

Are you retarded? He’s a full blown chad with insane status.

How has it got to the stage that normies on this site are expecting chad results?

Or were you joking jfl

 

[Deleted member 19896]

This kind of mentality is what’s keeping guys Incel; expecting girls to come to you without putting in any work.

When these guys are looking for a job they probably sit around and wait for employers to contact them.

this guy is here since 2019.. if he was sane to begin he was sucked in by this circlejerking self referential echo chamber
it's not really about mentality more exposure

 

[Moggie]

Or were you joking jfl

 

[Gandy]

This kind of mentality is what’s keeping guys Incel; expecting girls to come to you without putting in any work.

When these guys are looking for a job they probably sit around and wait for employers to contact them.

I get 1-3 women a week asking directly for ONS on Tinder after years and years of looksmaxing.

It's not as much as a full blown genetic chad would get, but it it's still something for zero effort. I also never travel anywhere, I offer to meet at my place or not at all.

It is absolutely possible to be contacted by women on these apps. All a number game, 95-98% will wait for a man to contact them, you just wait until that 2-5% contacts you first. Then, half of those will also fizzle out because they 'want to know you a bit more' and you just delete them. Then you keep the ones who will meet up instantly for sex no strings attached.

 

[Moggie]

Then you keep the ones who will meet up instantly for sex no strings attached.

What if you are a live with your parents have to be in bed by 7 cel? Can you ask to meet at their place?

 

[Foreverbrad]

I get 1-3 women a week asking directly for ONS on Tinder after years and years of looksmaxing.

It's not as much as a full blown genetic chad would get, but it it's still something for zero effort. I also never travel anywhere, I offer to meet at my place or not at all.

It is absolutely possible to be contacted by women on these apps. All a number game, 95-98% will wait for a man to contact them, you just wait until that 2-5% contacts you first. Then, half of those will also fizzle out because they 'want to know you a bit more' and you just delete them. Then you keep the ones who will meet up instantly for sex no strings attached.

Do you have an obviously sexualised profile (shirtless photos, sexual bio)?

 

[Gandy]

Do you have an obviously sexualised profile (shirtless photos, sexual bio)?

It's shirtless but only from the clavicles up. I also always smile in my profile photos. I noticed it gets a ton more quality matches than being neutral or 'brooding'. It goes completely against that article I read online which said women don't like smiling photos of men.
I do have a fully shirtless pic there as the 3rd pic because I worked very hard to get visible abs and 12% body fat. But it's not on the profile photo.

Bio text has nothing sexual in it. It's very short, only location, height and one line of text. I found innuendos decrease the match rate because a lot of women swipe left if you have them.

Generally I have a rotation of only 3 photos. Face pic from clavicles up, a relaxation photo second (on a boat, at the beach or in a restaurant/club) and third one is just a pic of the upper body (from the waist up to neck) without a shirt.

I don't have any 'decent' pictures like me in a suit or anything like that. I find that doesn't help in getting ONS at all. That only attracts these 'talkers' who are looking for a provider or buxxer to help them feed their kids.

When you are on a dating app you want to avoid these 'talkers' as much as possible, they will require days and days of talking, meeting up etc. before they reluctantly consider having sex with you. And many of them will flake even after talking. It's a waste of time.

Also, the vast, vast majority of women will never message a man first. You just have to wait for the small % who do then pick from them.

 

[Lev Peshkov]

I have srs given up on women I’m Persuing max looks and money to live my ideal life’s

 

[fogdart]

if you have dry social media DMs you're pretty much nothing. A chad doesnt need to message women or use his personality to "pull" or "convince" a woman to befriend him. that's some real shit. Normies will never understand.

Already wrote a thread about it here

You’re not truly GL until you get messages like these from random girls in your DMs

I have more but they are responses to my stories and I can’t dox myself lol

looksmax.org

 

[Foreverbrad]

It's shirtless but only from the clavicles up. I also always smile in my profile photos. I noticed it gets a ton more quality matches than being neutral or 'brooding'. It goes completely against that article I read online which said women don't like smiling photos of men.
I do have a fully shirtless pic there as the 3rd pic because I worked very hard to get visible abs and 12% body fat. But it's not on the profile photo.

Bio text has nothing sexual in it. It's very short, only location, height and one line of text. I found innuendos decrease the match rate because a lot of women swipe left if you have them.

Generally I have a rotation of only 3 photos. Face pic from clavicles up, a relaxation photo second (on a boat, at the beach or in a restaurant/club) and third one is just a pic of the upper body (from the waist up to neck) without a shirt.

I don't have any 'decent' pictures like me in a suit or anything like that. I find that doesn't help in getting ONS at all. That only attracts these 'talkers' who are looking for a provider or buxxer to help them feed their kids.

When you are on a dating app you want to avoid these 'talkers' as much as possible, they will require days and days of talking, meeting up etc. before they reluctantly consider having sex with you. And many of them will flake even after talking. It's a waste of time.

Also, the vast, vast majority of women will never message a man first. You just have to wait for the small % who do then pick from them.

Do they message you with the equivalent of "DTF?" or do you still have to steer it somewhat?

I put a sexual bio and only shirtless selfies and I rely on Platinum to retain visibility. The few matches I do get are mostly DTF almost straight away - I still have to message first but the volume is very manageable and only takes a few messages. My face is so poor compared to my body/height that this seems to be the only viable strategy until I can get surgery (I can't even smile due to my buccal corridors and narrow palate).

 

[Gargamel]

Keep crying like the abused dog you are.

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

It's shirtless but only from the clavicles up. I also always smile in my profile photos. I noticed it gets a ton more quality matches than being neutral or 'brooding'. It goes completely against that article I read online which said women don't like smiling photos of men.
I do have a fully shirtless pic there as the 3rd pic because I worked very hard to get visible abs and 12% body fat. But it's not on the profile photo.

Bio text has nothing sexual in it. It's very short, only location, height and one line of text. I found innuendos decrease the match rate because a lot of women swipe left if you have them.

Generally I have a rotation of only 3 photos. Face pic from clavicles up, a relaxation photo second (on a boat, at the beach or in a restaurant/club) and third one is just a pic of the upper body (from the waist up to neck) without a shirt.

I don't have any 'decent' pictures like me in a suit or anything like that. I find that doesn't help in getting ONS at all. That only attracts these 'talkers' who are looking for a provider or buxxer to help them feed their kids.

When you are on a dating app you want to avoid these 'talkers' as much as possible, they will require days and days of talking, meeting up etc. before they reluctantly consider having sex with you. And many of them will flake even after talking. It's a waste of time.

Also, the vast, vast majority of women will never message a man first. You just have to wait for the small % who do then pick from them.

how many matches you get a week?

 

[Gandy]

how many matches you get a week?

About ~70 likes? I don't match all of them. I only watch the like list with Gold and choose those who already sent a like. This boosts your Elo score. I never randomly swipe because this leads to a lot of women ignoring you and lowering your Elo score.

Then of those, who I match in a week, usually at least 1 will ask if you wanna hook up at their or your apartment. Some weeks this is 0, sometimes as much as 2 or 3.
Usually it's just 1 though. But even 1 is plenty IMO considering it's no effort at all.

Also I'm not that picky. I take whatever is thrown at me and then see who wants to meet up, I don't really put in much energy into messaging etc.